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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: sucklesworth]
#5823297 - 07/05/06 11:47 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Just a question i would like t.o throw in the bramble, a general inquiry.
Has anyone else found, that while you have a girlfriend, or boyfriend that others seem more attracted to you?
Several times in the past i would go for a long streak single, and then when i got a girlfriend, i would have 2 or 3 other girls suddenly interested in me...
anyone?
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zippoz "in times of widespread chaos and confusion, it has been the duty of more advanced human beings - artists, scientists, clowns, and philosophers - to create order. In such times as ours however, when there is too much order, too much m management, too much programming and control, it becomes the duty of superior men and women and women to fling their favorite monkey wrenches into the machinery. To relieve the repression of the human spirit, they must sow doubt and disruption" "People do it every day, they talk to themselves ... they see themselves as they'd like to be, they don't have the courage you have, to just run with it."
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: ZippoZ]
#5823311 - 07/05/06 11:51 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yes, it's human nature.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5823330 - 07/05/06 11:55 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Dating sucks ass. The whole premise of it is based on the modern societal view of what is "acceptable", and usually implies a whole realm of mind games and lies. Great way to start a relationship. I'm pretty jaded to the whole ritual myself. Playing games with people's emotions and trying to create this false projection of reality is straight up bullshit and I want no part in it. Whatever happened to two people just spending time together because they care about each other.. without expectations and strings attached and unspoken contracts?
Seems like most relationships like this nowadays usually end in power struggles. Each person trying to dominate the relationship and have more control over the other person, which never works. Couples should work together to empower each other, build off each other, use one person's strengths to help with the others weaknesses, etc. Symbiotic, like the rest of nature.
I've seen it in action many times, but I've all but given up in actively seeking it. There's probably only one girl I know that I'd want to pursue anything with, but she's way out of my league. So I'm just taking it a day at a time and not really that concerned with finding the woman of my dreams. If it happens it will happen. But it is hard to find someone who isn't interested in playing games or just being with a person to be dependent on them. In the meantime, most chicks will go for the dominant alpha males because they are "confident", and then complain that they are abusive assholes. So fuck "The Game", and just find someone you are compatible with, who respects you and doesn't constantly need to "be" with someone in order to feel secure with themselves. Don't try so hard and just let it happen naturally. That goes for both sexes I would think.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Shroomism]
#5823342 - 07/05/06 11:59 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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man theyre really rippin you a new one in otd
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zippoz "in times of widespread chaos and confusion, it has been the duty of more advanced human beings - artists, scientists, clowns, and philosophers - to create order. In such times as ours however, when there is too much order, too much m management, too much programming and control, it becomes the duty of superior men and women and women to fling their favorite monkey wrenches into the machinery. To relieve the repression of the human spirit, they must sow doubt and disruption" "People do it every day, they talk to themselves ... they see themselves as they'd like to be, they don't have the courage you have, to just run with it."
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Shroomism]
#5823345 - 07/05/06 12:00 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well said Shroomism.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: ZippoZ]
#5823349 - 07/05/06 12:02 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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What else is new. Fuck if I care.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5823360 - 07/05/06 12:05 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Gillette said: hmmm guess you didn't read the thread, I've actually been pretty active in it...but your right I'm a total attention whore...really I can tell you've read all my posts, I post about all my problems, I post nekid pictures of myself, I post whining and complaining everyday, just looking for someone to validate me.
um no.
Be patient, it sounds like you are forcing it a bit, if you are jaded/sick of these coffee dates dont do it. Its a dis-service to you and those people sitting across from you.
You are young, attractive and from what my friends say about you a great girl.
Its not like you won't find a great guy, I mean if you are annoyed by dating its a perfect time to avoid it and just hang with friends and be single. Don't go looking to settle with some guy cause he's ga-ga over you and you aren't into him that much.
I loathe dating, I hate the fakeness of it all, I hate that it takes a while before the real girl appears and usually at that point I want to slap myself for not seeing the real girl.
Bomb/Gil trust me, not all men suck. Being heartbroken is sadly a thing the vast majority of us have to go through, some more than a handful of times in their young lives.
I just know that life does go on, you will find someone new/better, and one day you'll be married and thinking how lucky you are to have found your love.
But umm yeah life can suck balls, and since I'm bitter about love too, so I'll /cheers both you with a drink this weekend while I ponder why I attract the worst women for me.
Chin up, do something you enjoy, don't force anything and just drink lots like me!
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: ZippoZ]
#5823368 - 07/05/06 12:08 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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zippoz said: Just a question i would like t.o throw in the bramble, a general inquiry.
Has anyone else found, that while you have a girlfriend, or boyfriend that others seem more attracted to you?
Several times in the past i would go for a long streak single, and then when i got a girlfriend, i would have 2 or 3 other girls suddenly interested in me...
anyone?
Its a fact of life, there's countless studies that show a woman is more interested in a man with a wedding band because it shows them he can be a committed man.
The fact that you are in a relationship shows you are desirable to other women and that makes you attractive more so than you sitting around with 3 single friends.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Thor]
#5823370 - 07/05/06 12:09 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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sorry shroomism i was meaning that to be fore gillette
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Thor]
#5823412 - 07/05/06 12:22 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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zippoz said: Just a question i would like t.o throw in the bramble, a general inquiry.
Has anyone else found, that while you have a girlfriend, or boyfriend that others seem more attracted to you?
Several times in the past i would go for a long streak single, and then when i got a girlfriend, i would have 2 or 3 other girls suddenly interested in me...
anyone?
Its a fact of life, there's countless studies that show a woman is more interested in a man with a wedding band because it shows them he can be a committed man.
The fact that you are in a relationship shows you are desirable to other women and that makes you attractive more so than you sitting around with 3 single friends.
I would bet it has to do with the fact that it's human nature to want what you can't have. They're not interested in you when you're single because they know they can have you whenever they want. Once you're off the market, your desirability goes up because you can't be had. It's retarded, but that's how it works. It is what it is.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Anonymous]
#5823418 - 07/05/06 12:25 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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OneWhoHasSeen said: One thing that worries me however is popular black culture (mostly rap). It seems they have moved towards a new level of objectifying women that scares me and threatens to beat back years of progress. Even women singers buy into this new objectivity "My milkshakes bring all the boys to the yard", etc.
Oh yeah, cause it's those damn black people making women express that they like sex. I mean, women liking sex???? THE WHORES.
Shut up.
I objectify women all the time, most men do. Women objectify me all the time, most women do. You know why? Cause what's the first thing you notice about a person? HOW THEY LOOK. Men and women have about equal sex drives, no woman wants an ugly man, no man wants an ugly woman. BUT, women in general are more known to treat an ugly dude like shit, most guys dont just completly be an ass to some ugly bitch. But the majority of bitches who see an ugly dude who tries to talk to them do that little thing where they draw their neck up and make the nasty face, and "ignore" the dude, hahahahahaha.
So anyway, yeah. And the reason why these bitches are bored is cause despite what they say, they don't want someone to treat them well. Seriously. At least not at first. Bitches take what they know they can have for granted, that's basic human nature in general, but it's especially a bitch's nature. That's why the "nice guys" (even attractive ones, who generally posess all the traits women SAY they want) bore bitches. Because it's right there, in their face for them to have. Oh it might be great for thema t first, but they'll get bored soon enough. In our society pussy is worth gold, and dick is worth dirt. Why is that? Women and men have equal sex drives, so dick and pussy should be of equal value. And they are, bitches dont want you to know that though cause for the most part they have been conditioned to be manipulative and use pussy and sex/sex appeal in general to try to get what they want. I turn that shit around and do the same thing to bitches though. A little different "psychology" behind the shit though.
Basically, dont treat a bitch like shit, but just always put yourself first and do whatever the fuck it is that YOU want to do regardless. And don't tolerate any bullshit or arguing or drama either. Cause that's pointless. Yhe bitch has to go is she tries to fight with me. And i'm never calling again, she'll have to call and make up.
And never "make love" or cater to her sexually. You just fuck how you want to, tear that shit up if that's how you like it. Make sure you get her off, cause that's the tie that binds all this together, but eating pussy and making love and shit will just make the bitch feel like she owns you. And as long as you have a good attitude, and are charming, and keep up your appearances, then you're okay, just do what the fuck you want to. If the bitch doesn't like it, then it's bye for that bitch. If you're taking care of all this and have some good genes then there's gonna be a bunch of other bitches in line anyway. That other bitch will be back anyway, and then you let her come back on stricter conditions, if you even do at all, and then you dont have to worry about her having an atittude as much, cause she's trying to win you over again or she wouldnt be their in the first place. Hell sometimes she finds a boyfriend, then still comes back, that's a bonus cause usually these cats out here these days are spending all kinds of money on a bitch so a bitch can bring me a little piece of that money, or at least pay for some meals or buy me some clothes or some shit, baby.
Anyone who trusts a bitch in a monogomous relationship in 2006 is a fucking fool.
That is a really good post.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: ZippoZ]
#5823435 - 07/05/06 12:30 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah, I noticed.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5823443 - 07/05/06 12:32 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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What were you expecting to have happen with this thread?
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I thought it might turn out this way, but again the whole post didn't really come out the way I intended, my fault.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Gillette]
#5823510 - 07/05/06 12:49 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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eh sometimes its good to vent and rant, and this is a damn god place to do it.
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adjust said:
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paradis said:
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OneWhoHasSeen said: One thing that worries me however is popular black culture (mostly rap). It seems they have moved towards a new level of objectifying women that scares me and threatens to beat back years of progress. Even women singers buy into this new objectivity "My milkshakes bring all the boys to the yard", etc.
Oh yeah, cause it's those damn black people making women express that they like sex. I mean, women liking sex???? THE WHORES.
Shut up.
I objectify women all the time, most men do. Women objectify me all the time, most women do. You know why? Cause what's the first thing you notice about a person? HOW THEY LOOK. Men and women have about equal sex drives, no woman wants an ugly man, no man wants an ugly woman. BUT, women in general are more known to treat an ugly dude like shit, most guys dont just completly be an ass to some ugly bitch. But the majority of bitches who see an ugly dude who tries to talk to them do that little thing where they draw their neck up and make the nasty face, and "ignore" the dude, hahahahahaha.
So anyway, yeah. And the reason why these bitches are bored is cause despite what they say, they don't want someone to treat them well. Seriously. At least not at first. Bitches take what they know they can have for granted, that's basic human nature in general, but it's especially a bitch's nature. That's why the "nice guys" (even attractive ones, who generally posess all the traits women SAY they want) bore bitches. Because it's right there, in their face for them to have. Oh it might be great for thema t first, but they'll get bored soon enough. In our society pussy is worth gold, and dick is worth dirt. Why is that? Women and men have equal sex drives, so dick and pussy should be of equal value. And they are, bitches dont want you to know that though cause for the most part they have been conditioned to be manipulative and use pussy and sex/sex appeal in general to try to get what they want. I turn that shit around and do the same thing to bitches though. A little different "psychology" behind the shit though.
Basically, dont treat a bitch like shit, but just always put yourself first and do whatever the fuck it is that YOU want to do regardless. And don't tolerate any bullshit or arguing or drama either. Cause that's pointless. Yhe bitch has to go is she tries to fight with me. And i'm never calling again, she'll have to call and make up.
And never "make love" or cater to her sexually. You just fuck how you want to, tear that shit up if that's how you like it. Make sure you get her off, cause that's the tie that binds all this together, but eating pussy and making love and shit will just make the bitch feel like she owns you. And as long as you have a good attitude, and are charming, and keep up your appearances, then you're okay, just do what the fuck you want to. If the bitch doesn't like it, then it's bye for that bitch. If you're taking care of all this and have some good genes then there's gonna be a bunch of other bitches in line anyway. That other bitch will be back anyway, and then you let her come back on stricter conditions, if you even do at all, and then you dont have to worry about her having an atittude as much, cause she's trying to win you over again or she wouldnt be their in the first place. Hell sometimes she finds a boyfriend, then still comes back, that's a bonus cause usually these cats out here these days are spending all kinds of money on a bitch so a bitch can bring me a little piece of that money, or at least pay for some meals or buy me some clothes or some shit, baby.
Anyone who trusts a bitch in a monogomous relationship in 2006 is a fucking fool.
That is a really good post.
Seriously he pretty much hit the nail in the head.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: buckwheat]
#5823525 - 07/05/06 12:53 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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buckwheat said:
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adjust said:
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paradis said:
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OneWhoHasSeen said: One thing that worries me however is popular black culture (mostly rap). It seems they have moved towards a new level of objectifying women that scares me and threatens to beat back years of progress. Even women singers buy into this new objectivity "My milkshakes bring all the boys to the yard", etc.
Oh yeah, cause it's those damn black people making women express that they like sex. I mean, women liking sex???? THE WHORES.
Shut up.
I objectify women all the time, most men do. Women objectify me all the time, most women do. You know why? Cause what's the first thing you notice about a person? HOW THEY LOOK. Men and women have about equal sex drives, no woman wants an ugly man, no man wants an ugly woman. BUT, women in general are more known to treat an ugly dude like shit, most guys dont just completly be an ass to some ugly bitch. But the majority of bitches who see an ugly dude who tries to talk to them do that little thing where they draw their neck up and make the nasty face, and "ignore" the dude, hahahahahaha.
So anyway, yeah. And the reason why these bitches are bored is cause despite what they say, they don't want someone to treat them well. Seriously. At least not at first. Bitches take what they know they can have for granted, that's basic human nature in general, but it's especially a bitch's nature. That's why the "nice guys" (even attractive ones, who generally posess all the traits women SAY they want) bore bitches. Because it's right there, in their face for them to have. Oh it might be great for thema t first, but they'll get bored soon enough. In our society pussy is worth gold, and dick is worth dirt. Why is that? Women and men have equal sex drives, so dick and pussy should be of equal value. And they are, bitches dont want you to know that though cause for the most part they have been conditioned to be manipulative and use pussy and sex/sex appeal in general to try to get what they want. I turn that shit around and do the same thing to bitches though. A little different "psychology" behind the shit though.
Basically, dont treat a bitch like shit, but just always put yourself first and do whatever the fuck it is that YOU want to do regardless. And don't tolerate any bullshit or arguing or drama either. Cause that's pointless. Yhe bitch has to go is she tries to fight with me. And i'm never calling again, she'll have to call and make up.
And never "make love" or cater to her sexually. You just fuck how you want to, tear that shit up if that's how you like it. Make sure you get her off, cause that's the tie that binds all this together, but eating pussy and making love and shit will just make the bitch feel like she owns you. And as long as you have a good attitude, and are charming, and keep up your appearances, then you're okay, just do what the fuck you want to. If the bitch doesn't like it, then it's bye for that bitch. If you're taking care of all this and have some good genes then there's gonna be a bunch of other bitches in line anyway. That other bitch will be back anyway, and then you let her come back on stricter conditions, if you even do at all, and then you dont have to worry about her having an atittude as much, cause she's trying to win you over again or she wouldnt be their in the first place. Hell sometimes she finds a boyfriend, then still comes back, that's a bonus cause usually these cats out here these days are spending all kinds of money on a bitch so a bitch can bring me a little piece of that money, or at least pay for some meals or buy me some clothes or some shit, baby.
Anyone who trusts a bitch in a monogomous relationship in 2006 is a fucking fool.
That is a really good post.
Seriously he pretty much hit the nail in the head.
I have to agree, that was very well said.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: ZippoZ]
#5823593 - 07/05/06 01:15 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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zippoz said: Just a question i would like t.o throw in the bramble, a general inquiry.
Has anyone else found, that while you have a girlfriend, or boyfriend that others seem more attracted to you?
Several times in the past i would go for a long streak single, and then when i got a girlfriend, i would have 2 or 3 other girls suddenly interested in me...
anyone?
Too bad that doesn't work with ugly bitches. I could trade up a few times to a hot girl kinda like that guy with a paper clip. I bet I could trade a 1 into a 10. But, I don't feel like getting my balls busted for eternity from my friends for poking fat chicks.
I just got out of a relationship where the girl was up my ass. She was cool and all (very attractive girl), but the more she was into me the less I was into her. I was in total control and it gets old calling all the shots. Now, I need some pussy. It's fucked up but I kinda wished I strung her along longer than I did.
The person least interested in the relationship controls the relationship.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: Cowgold]
#5823598 - 07/05/06 01:17 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Holy shit. This thread exploded.
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Re: Warning: dating rant inside [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5823607 - 07/05/06 01:21 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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shroomery guys make dating theads constantly, and nobody cares.
Shroomery girl makes dating thread, and its like midnight at the Apollo in here.
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