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Toddo
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self conscious
#5817740 - 07/03/06 09:21 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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hey guys. Its now the eve of the fourth. I'm heading over to the beach tomorrow.. which I haven't been to for a while. I wont get into what I'm so self conscious about because I thinks irrelevant.. the point is I'm worried whats going through peoples mind when they see me without my shirt on. which sucks, alot. (im at the bloody beach) SO.. I would like some ideas about getting over this.. I really dont want to bitch out tomorrow and ruin my fourth by being alone.
Thanks for reading.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5817753 - 07/03/06 09:24 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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If you are worried the ladies (?) I would say that you use a magic marker to draw a big happy face on your chest, nipples being the eyes, and craft a story.
could be a nice icebreaker, and should make ladies laugh
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5817773 - 07/03/06 09:29 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I say as long as you're not the 350lb hairy blob in a speedo you're fine.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5817780 - 07/03/06 09:30 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Don't give a fuck. Simple. Who cares? You're a dude (I think), as long as you ain't showing your knob, you're good.
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Toddo
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Re: self conscious [Re: Adden]
#5817796 - 07/03/06 09:33 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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402lb 
alright, thanks everyone. I dunno.. I'm just weird about things. I'm not even trying to impress any ladies.. bah. Fuck it, ill be fine. Thanks for slappin some sense into me.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5817799 - 07/03/06 09:35 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Wear a wife beater? Eat some Xanax? Pre-game with a 6er and continue to finish the other 24 while on said beach?
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5817822 - 07/03/06 09:39 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I knew someone with Pectus excavatum and he was always so self conscious about it and always thought people were thinking things about him. Of course no cared or thought differently of him and eventually he realized this.
Moral of the story: just forget about it, everyone else has.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Adden]
#5817825 - 07/03/06 09:40 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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no..i was kidding about the 402 thing.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Adden]
#5817829 - 07/03/06 09:40 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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no worries. i just moved and i dont know anyone here. i have no plans and it sucks. enjoy yourself.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5817902 - 07/03/06 10:02 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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leave your shirt on then and dont worry about it, be nice and high and nice and happy
the marker idea sounds better though
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Re: self conscious [Re: d33p]
#5818030 - 07/03/06 10:36 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
d33p said: Moral of the story: just forget about it, everyone else has.
hehe, I used to get this way everytime I'd hang out with a group of new people (and still do to some extent)... Although not in terms of having my shirt off, I would always worry what they were thinking about me, my appearance, and the things I said...
Then I realized that it doesn't matter... Life is what you make of it, and even if you find yourself in a situation where someone is judging you, just ask yourself how much this person's opinion really means to you... Is it going to matter 2 weeks from now? 2 years? 20 years? Focus on the things that are important to you, let the rest slide...
Sticks and stones, eh?
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5818398 - 07/04/06 12:13 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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The trick is to work out. I lift, when i jog i do it without my shirt off so i get somewhat tan.
Being ripped is a huge confidence builder, trust me. Its easy.
Only thing i hate is the dudes giving me shit cause i look so good. knowing deep down they are jelous. Like i give a shit, its the pussy i want.
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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5818599 - 07/04/06 01:26 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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as arrogant as he sounds, subgenius is right. if there's something you don't like about yourself that is able to be changed, change it! find a secluded spot to lay in the sun for an hour a day, get tan, remove some body hair, lift some weights, do some sit ups, jog a mile a day. seriously, a mile takes like 15 minutes tops. ...honestly, nobody at the beach is going to care what you look like, but doing these things will make YOU feel better about it, and that's what matters. and hell, it's the 4th..everyone will be wasted, including you. and you're on the beach...i'm jealous.
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Re: self conscious [Re: SubGen1us]
#5818614 - 07/04/06 01:34 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
SubGen1us said: The trick is to work out. I lift, when i jog i do it without my shirt off so i get somewhat tan.
Being ripped is a huge confidence builder, trust me. Its easy.
Only thing i hate is the dudes giving me shit cause i look so good. knowing deep down they are jelous. Like i give a shit, its the pussy i want.

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Re: self conscious [Re: Toddo]
#5818620 - 07/04/06 01:37 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I just went to the nude beach yesterday. I'm pretty fucking self conscious as well, but you just have to put your inhibitions to the side sometimes. Plus, if the beach is crowded, whatever it is you're worrying about is probably going to be shadowed by someone else that has more reason to worry.
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