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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
What What?

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I just told the person I've loved more than anything else
#5807296 - 06/30/06 05:04 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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that I don't want to see her anymore, that I don't even want to hear her voice again because I'm suffering too much for her  It was hard, and now I feel at the fucking edge of an empty life
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807300 - 06/30/06 05:06 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sometimes it's best to just let go. Good luck man.
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#5807308 - 06/30/06 05:09 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ouch...I won't ask for details but if it's what you feel you had to do, let her know that. I've been hurt by random, out of nowhere-break-ups and I never get closure, or even a reason for that matter. Give her some closure.
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Nashbar
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#5807309 - 06/30/06 05:10 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
What What?

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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Newbie]
#5807320 - 06/30/06 05:15 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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What do you mean by closure?
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Nashbar
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807332 - 06/30/06 05:21 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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break-up sex? It's great...
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Newbie
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807337 - 06/30/06 05:25 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Deepman said: What do you mean by closure?
I mean let her know that it wasn't all just a game. When I get really close to a girl, I feel like I've connected with them on a pretty deep level, and so do they (or so they say). Then that day comes where they just sit me down and break it off with the "I need a change" or whatever their pre-generated excuse is and I'm stuck wondering what happened to that connection.
If you really loved her more than anything else, let her know that. Let her know that you're not after someone else, you're not tired of her, that you're grieving and are unable to give in a relationship. Let her know that she didn't do anything wrong and it's what you needed to do.
(If you already did that though, good job .)
Edited by Newbie (06/30/06 05:27 PM)
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Newbie]
#5807358 - 06/30/06 05:34 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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We were together for 2 years She knows. Actually we've been separated for 6 months now but we stil love eachother so much that we're still trying to get over eachother... to no avail as it would seem.
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807361 - 06/30/06 05:36 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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If it's mutual you WILL get back. You'll run into each other somewhere, somehow and it'll happen. If it means that much and you truly want her back, take that leap of faith. Pour your heart and leave NOTHING unsaid.
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Newbie]
#5807396 - 06/30/06 05:50 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's some uplifting advice, thank you kindly
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807455 - 06/30/06 06:15 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Pleasure's all mine. I hate seeing good things go to waste like that. People need to really consider others' feelings before taking certain actions anymore. I wish the best for both of you
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807514 - 06/30/06 06:36 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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If you love someone, set them free, if they return, set them on fire.
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
#5807628 - 06/30/06 07:32 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Penguarky Tunguin said: If you love someone, set them free, if they return, set them on fire.
I almost laughed out loud at that.
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Colonel Kurtz Ph.D]
#5807659 - 06/30/06 07:47 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am reminded of something I read recently:
"Passion has little to do with euphoria and everything to do with patience. It is not about feeling good. It is about endurance. Like patience, passion comes from the same Latin root: pati. It does not mean to flow with exuberance. It means to suffer."
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Revelation]
#5808276 - 07/01/06 12:21 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Very good quote.
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Re: I just told the person I've loved more than anything else [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
#5808572 - 07/01/06 01:29 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hey that's rough. Hang in there man. Later on, when you look back on it, you'll probably realize it worked itself out.
In my case, I kinda get a kick out of how long I was "out of it". I didn't shave or shower for a week. Blech.
To quote a wiseman: "time heals all wounds" To quote a wiseguy: "I can't wait till I'm old enought to feel ways about stuff"
I fall more into the Fry category.
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