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Corporal Kielbasa

Registered: 05/29/04
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Just smoke up and hour or two earlier every time you see her. Then she will never know. Then when you like WHAT i been high since i met you!!! You liked me the whole time!!!!!
Thats what i do with my jobs any ways. The boss just thinks im an idiot!
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zenman223
The last Mohican


Registered: 10/23/05
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i only read half of these bulllshit posts befor i thought id say like some said it depends on the girl. i gave up somkin for my girl for like 9 months till she finally came around and now i dont smoke much and she does. but if u really like her or love her than dont smoke cuz she will make u feel better than the weed will. i mean i tryed gettin high behind her back and gettin caugth till i realized it hurt her and i didnt want to hurt her so i quit. then gradually through friends we started smokin 2 gether.
-------------------- "I think I am, therefore I become." "In the beginning of a change the patriot is a scarce man, and brave, and hated and scorned. When his cause succeeds, the timid join him, for then it costs nothing to be a patriot." - Mark Twain
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sensesreal
trippinnn.


Registered: 06/29/06
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im in the same boat as you are, except im a girl, and my guy wants me to give up EVERYTHING.
and all i can say is, which do you enjoy more?
i quit for a week, but it drove me to crazy. i love bud, so much. and i mean, if you love bud as much as i do, then you should find someone who shares the same love as you do.
don't change yourself for the one you like/love. they should love you for who you are, and if blazing makes up the person you are, then why change that????
you know?
good luck. =]
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splifner180
Student


Registered: 03/24/06
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I have an EXTREMELY similar problem right now.
If you change for a girl you will regret it. Plus, she won't be getting the same guy she liked in the first place. So you have to ask if weed is a part of you.
I see it happen all the time. A woman makes a man change all his habits and then says "he isn't the man I fell in love with." Well no SHIT, you beat it out of him!
If you're responsible, if you go to work, love your kids, pay your taxes, fuck that.
splif
-------------------- First Grow: Ecuador -> LC -> HPoo/Straw -> Monotub Build a Do-It-Yourself Magnetic Stirrer in thirty minutes with no money.
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Nashbar
just strange.... on drugs

Registered: 07/16/05
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I got 99 problems, but a bitch ain't one
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Icelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery


Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 95,368
Loc: underbelly
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Quote:
thegatewaydrug said: i dunno, if i found the right girl id give up anything
You mean, like your balls?
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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some1whoisntme
Stranger

Registered: 09/21/05
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Re: Girl problems [Re: Icelander]
#5804326 - 06/29/06 07:00 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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A wise man once told me "Anything with tits or wheels is gonna give you nothing but trouble."
-------------------- "Ignore the distortion you're forced to percieve and believe that what supercedes is love, but who agrees?"
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Rhysaboveit
Day Tripper


Registered: 05/26/06
Posts: 218
Loc: Miami Fl
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Having been in a similar situation once , i sat my boyfriend down and explained to him very clearly.
(this is just a paraphrase)
"I like you alot, but this is part of who i am. I do these things for X reason. If you cannot accept that, then you arent accepting me as a person. And you accepting me is what allows us to have a relationship. I want you to share with me why you don't like my drug use the same way i shared with you why its important to me. ( and then when she gives you her reasons , either dispell the misinformation or if she has valid points accept them ) I am not willing to quit, because that would be changing something i dont feel is wrong, but i can compromise with you. ( i.e not smoke when shes around yadayada) "
if smoking is part of who you are, you shouldnt change, but you shouldnt just give up the girl just because she has trouble getting past that fact. Help her see your point and if she still cant deal with smoking around her then compromise. But if she still wont budge , then she's not the girl for you.
-------------------- No point in mentioning these bats, I thought. Poor bastard will see them soon enough "There's a uh, big machine in the sky, some kind of, I dunno, electric snake, coming straight at us." "Shoot it." "Not yet, I want to study its habits. "
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Boglyn
Put them on theglass


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You could tell her that if you dont get your medicine, you might cheat on her.
-------------------- The sun, with all those planets revolving around it and dependent on it, can still ripen a bunch of grapes as if it had nothing else in the universe to do. ---Galileo
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KaptKid
Spaced Pirate


Registered: 12/11/03
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Quote:
some1whoisntme said: A wise man once told me "Anything with tits or wheels is gonna give you nothing but trouble."


-------------------- Child of the 60's, Tripping ever since.
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bhamlaxy
Shroomerite


Registered: 01/23/05
Posts: 714
Loc: Nevada
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Re: Girl problems [Re: KaptKid]
#5804609 - 06/29/06 08:43 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Personally i dont think its a question of girl and grass. If this girl is going to force you to quit other things to be with her, then she sounds kind of like a bitch. If she maybe said something like dont be high around me, dont smoke near me, or be careful, that would be fine, but she seems pretty controlling
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KaptKid
Spaced Pirate


Registered: 12/11/03
Posts: 6,252
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Re: Girl problems [Re: bhamlaxy]
#5804624 - 06/29/06 08:49 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Come on and take a free a ride
-------------------- Child of the 60's, Tripping ever since.
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capliberty
Stranger


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Re: Girl problems [Re: KaptKid]
#5804662 - 06/29/06 09:04 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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smoke behind back; issue resolved
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DarkFluFFy
Vapid Soul

Registered: 01/04/05
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Girl, you can always smoke weed.
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distgre1
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Registered: 05/10/05
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Perfect Girl >>>>>>> Weed
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splifner180
Student


Registered: 03/24/06
Posts: 1,288
Loc: USA, East Coast
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Re: Girl problems [Re: Boglyn]
#5804902 - 06/29/06 10:37 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I think the best two lines in this entire thread have been
"You mean, like your balls?" - InvisibleIcelander
"I want you to share with me why you don't like my drug use the same way i shared with you why its important to me." - Rhysaboveit
capliberty writes: "smoke behind back; issue resolved "
That works if you don't respect the girl or if you're ashamed of what you do.
splif
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Newbie
User of semicolons.


Registered: 07/18/04
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Loc: SoCal
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Do it behind her back. Don't let her tell you what you can and can't do. If you can remain the same person and keep your composure when high, then there's no reason you shouldn't be able to smoke when dating her.
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nookjohn
Nooker


Registered: 08/26/03
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Re: Girl problems [Re: Newbie]
#5806045 - 06/30/06 05:31 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Stoner chicks need love, too. Migrate her to the friend zone until she wises up.
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