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Gumby
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Re: until death do us part? (poll) [Re: Asante]
#5786342 - 06/24/06 11:21 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I went with get upset but not end it. I'd probably flip my shit big time, but in the end I'm a sucker for love
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Acinaxuz
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Re: until death do us part? (poll) [Re: Jfisher]
#5786368 - 06/24/06 11:28 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Man that's a rough one. I totally agree with most of ya'll on this one. It was a blatent lie, and with all of the education regarding AIDS--a condom isn't fool proof, and what about foreplay?
I would end the relationship as well. She knowingly put someone she loved and cared about at risk as well as puting her child at risk.
But then, it's also a cruel world. When WOULD it be ok for her to tell you? Would you look at her differently being that you don't fully know her? Would you pass her over because she came clean about having AIDS? And if telling you up front would scare you, when would be the right time? (Just as an example--Imagine your first night, going to her apartment, thinking you're about to get some ass--but she stops you and tells you she has aids--do you run screaming into the night, stay and continue to get to know her with an open mind, stay so that she doesn't feel badly but know you wouldn't want anything with her, or do you continue and trust in protection?)
I'm pretty sure these are all the most common worries when it comes to dating with AIDS--No casual sex, worried about what people think of you, deal with people's fear of the disease... Its really hard to find someone you really click with--Just imagine for a moment YOU had to find someone you clicked with as well as accepting AIDS as a part of their lives now. I'm sure this is (if even a small part) a reality for them, so in a sense I understand where the girl would have been coming from--but love should overpower that desire to hide it. You do everything you can to not hurt the people you care about, and that in the long run trumps any excuse or explanation.
**edit--typos irk me.**
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Edited by Acinaxuz (06/24/06 08:03 PM)
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Re: until death do us part? (poll) [Re: Asante]
#5786402 - 06/24/06 11:45 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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The likely hood of a guy catching aids or hiv though normal sex is very small. If he is doing her in the ass with a shaved ball sack area then his risk is higher.
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kake
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Re: until death do us part? (poll) [Re: Asante]
#5787192 - 06/24/06 06:22 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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To me, that's as good as using someone. Lack of honesty, on top of endangering their lives, and then risking getting pregnant and leaving Dad to raise the kid on his own and explain to the kid why Mommy had to die.
This story disgusts me. What the fuck are people thinking?
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Acinaxuz
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actually--they're not that small. (you can find this at u-n-t-i-l.org without the dashes.)
- An estimated one million people are currently living with HIV in the United States, with approximately 40,000 new infections occurring each year.
- 70 percent of these new infections occur in men and 30 percent occur in women.
- By race, 54 percent of the new infections in the United States occur among African Americans, and 64 percent of the new infections in women occur in African American women.
- 75 percent of the new infections in women are heterosexually transmitted.
- Half of all new infections in the United States occur in people 25 years of age or younger.
- There are 14,000 new infections every day (95 percent in developing countries). HIV/AIDS is a "disease of young people" with half of the 5 million new infections each year occurring among people ages 15 to 24.
- Over 22 million people have died from AIDS.
There is a reason that people are fighting so hard to prove that anyone could get it under various circumstances... Use some common sense for your own safety, just because you may test negative, does NOT mean that you are in the clear. Take herpes for example, even if you get a negative, you don't know for sure--look it up, hell this too... especially if you think you're even the slightest bit safer... it's just not true.
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Re: until death do us part? (poll) [Re: Asante]
#5787500 - 06/24/06 08:20 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Take it back to the old days and dust the skeezer across the mouth.
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Re: until death do us part? (poll) [Re: daimyo]
#5787516 - 06/24/06 08:29 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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if there was no kid involved, i'd be out that shit and never speak to her again.
with the kid, i would make some relationship work for their sake, but i'd be pissed. really upset. it would be very weird, and id end up cheating or just always having someone else to fuck. i dont know, its a crazy situation
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