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shroomer44
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Soul mates
#5781717 - 06/22/06 07:51 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Who here beleives in soul mates? About a month ago i met this girl, we just both knew instantly that we were meant to meet. The first day i met her we talked for like 6 hours straight and guessed everything about each other, it was creepy. I have such a strong feeling that this girl is my soul mate, who else beleives in that kind of stuff? Or am i just being fooled by the chemicals in my brain that want me to reproduce...
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ZippoZ
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eh.... most times those relationships dont last, atleast with their intensity......
my friend is in a situation like this right now, we shall see...
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No such thing as a soul mate. If there is, what's the chance of ever meeting your soul mate out of the 6+ billion people on Earth? Who's to say that the perfect match for you is even alive right now?? They might have been born 500, 1000 years ago, 500, 1000 years in the future.
That's the way I think about it anyhow. Doesn't mean she's not right for you, just that the soulmate thing is a bit ridiculous from the start.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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I think that in this day and age we live in, soul mates is an impossibility. Everyone is too busy and everyone's ego is too large to be humbled by the idea. There isn't enough to culitivate the time required for a soul mate kind of relationship to work.
My $.02
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be wary of relationships like this. Spend a lot of time getting to really know her on all levels before jumping in really seriously. I dated a girl who waxed poetic about being my soul mate yadda yadda yadda, a year later she cheats on me and dumps me after our 1 yr anniversary (of which i had just rescued a kitten for her).
I do believe that you can find someone who is your perfect match, i dont believe it happens instantly or that you know right away. Like lots of things in life good relationships take time and work, two things that just dont happen after a few long conversations watching the sunrise.
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shroomer44
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Maybe not ONE PERSON, but just the way me and this girl met, was just so coincidental, so out there, and so CLOSE to not happening that i think its impossible for it to be a coincidence. But i definitely think it is going to turn into something serious.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Good luck man.
Don't be blinded by the bullshit though, make sure you see that as well. Never close your eyes to it or it will hit you like a sack of shit up side the temple.
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soul mates, no. perfect matches, yes. a soulmate would mean theres only one person that would work for u in the entire world and the odds of finding that person would be hella small
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shroomer44
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Trust me, ive fell completely in love with a girl before and she broke my heart, so i am guarded against becoming attached to people. But there is something different about this, it just feels so right, i dont know how to describe it. She guessed my favorite color, favorite classic rock songs, a whole bunch of random stuff, all perfectly correct.
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Enjoy the peak while it lasts and then enjoy the valley when it comes.
GL!
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Exactly.
All one can hope in life is to be able to see the valleys as they come approaching.
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