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rawtoxic
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My girl says I don't listen enough
#5772585 - 06/20/06 01:57 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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OK so yeah... the title says it all.
I'm scattered all over the place with a short-attention span, she even knows this as I've told her many times. She says my lack of listening is ruining our relationship. Her nagging is ruining it for me.
For example yesterday: I forgot what hours she was working and asked again I didn't listen to her go on and on about her childhood best friends wedding and she caught me watching sports over her shoulder.
I've told her I'll try and listen harder but I know I really can't. Maybe I should just dump her revive my 19year old fuck slut and screw the relationship stuff. Why do you girls have to be so umm... convoluted?
WTF do you do?
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Silversoul
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772592 - 06/20/06 01:58 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
rawtoxic said: WTF do you do?
listen
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ClammyJoe
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: Silversoul]
#5772599 - 06/20/06 02:00 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Try to understand that she is also a person, and that she requires respect and attention, especially since she is your partner.
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AliceDee
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772608 - 06/20/06 02:02 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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im just like you dude, if you stop smoking weed it helps alot, atleast for me it did...
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durban_poison
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772624 - 06/20/06 02:04 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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sounds like every relationship i have been in. the worst is when they get you on the phone and keep talking and talking and talking...
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772713 - 06/20/06 02:34 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
rawtoxic said:
I didn't listen to her go on and on about her childhood best friends wedding and she caught me watching sports over her shoulder.
WTF do you do?
Tell her you will listen more if she starts talking about interesting stuff.
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durban_poison
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: Rambel]
#5772726 - 06/20/06 02:39 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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lol..............
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rawtoxic
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: durban_poison]
#5772768 - 06/20/06 02:55 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Listening just isn't happening. I think being stoned plays a large role, AliceDee.
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AngeloWish
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772830 - 06/20/06 03:18 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
im just like you dude, if you stop smoking weed it helps alot, atleast for me it did...
Better smoke more weed, then look at her and pretend ur listening.
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badchad
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: AngeloWish]
#5772841 - 06/20/06 03:21 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Welcome to the wonderful world of women. Unless you plan on dating men, your choices are:
1. Actually listen. 2. Do a good job of pretending do to #1
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772857 - 06/20/06 03:24 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Tell her, "I don't want to know how the damn clock works. Just, tell me what time it is. "
She realizes you're not listening probably about the time she realizes what she's saying is boring.
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Triad
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772858 - 06/20/06 03:25 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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It would be funny if you pretended to not pay attention, while she was yelling at you about not listening.
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: rawtoxic]
#5772865 - 06/20/06 03:26 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Does she swallow? If not, then you don't have to listen.
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: Cowgold]
#5773146 - 06/20/06 04:45 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Listen to cowgold.
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: Cowgold]
#11043222 - 09/11/09 10:04 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Cowgold said: Does she swallow? If not, then you don't have to listen.
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: blazenn]
#11043316 - 09/11/09 10:21 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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(3 years, 2 months ago)
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: gzuf]
#11043325 - 09/11/09 10:22 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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meatcakeman
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: blazenn]
#11043377 - 09/11/09 10:32 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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Way to resurrect a fuckin' dinosaur of a thread.
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: meatcakeman]
#11043387 - 09/11/09 10:34 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh fuck i was looking at the thread i forgot i saw it from similar threads on the bottom >< fuck hahahaha my apologies :P
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: blazenn]
#11043527 - 09/11/09 11:01 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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its pretty fuckin funny though
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: igwna]
#11043619 - 09/11/09 11:19 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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When she yells at you next time, say to her, "I'm sorry I wasn't paying attention. What were you saying?"
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Re: My girl says I don't listen enough [Re: TrancedShroom]
#11043707 - 09/11/09 11:34 PM (14 years, 4 months ago) |
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If she's not worth at least feigning interest, then she's not worth your time.
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