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am i just being a dick?
    #5755455 - 06/15/06 09:59 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

Long story short my parents are going through a seperation and are still well too 'close" to be considered a seperation and havent gotten through all the legal stuff. And this shit has dragged on for over a year.

Anyways my mom has this "friend" over, I braught up my dissaproval because of the circumstances between her and my dad and she was lying to me telling me he was just a friend, blah blah blah, and when i just met him I got the picture, it was some dude she just met and was in no way a friend.

I want my parents to get through this without too much bullshit, even thought I got backlash when I braught up the bullshit they where doing to each other....but I feel it's too soon for new relationships the way things are right now. Don't get me wrong I want them to be happy and go their own ways, but this feels like an insult to me, or something.

I met the guy briefly, shook his hand and was in no way friendly other than that, kind of gave the vibe that he wasn't welcome too me. I have nothin against him, but I don't know know if he understands the entire situation, yet I hold myself back from teeling him to get the fuck out. Maybe it's just myself wanting to vent on the situation, but it in no way feels right at this time.

ok...maybe just venting, but I guess I'm looking for some advice/support...


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5755509 - 06/15/06 10:17 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

I can understand your feelings and your desire to make sure things are "OK", but these are your parents. It never works when kids try to tell their parents what to do.

I say if they want to fuck their lives up...let them.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5755528 - 06/15/06 10:22 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

I will never tell them to do certain things, but I will voice my opinion on occasions. I don't want to see things get worse and they way they are handling the situation pisses me off. I have a little sister too and she does NOT need to deal with their shit more than is necessary.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5756266 - 06/16/06 04:34 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

No, your not being a dick about it at all.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5756337 - 06/16/06 05:46 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

so your pissed you mom is slobbin some others guys knob?


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5756634 - 06/16/06 09:16 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

You have every right to voice your opinion. After that, let it go because they will do exactly what they want to. Take care of yourself throught all of this and watch and learn. Maybe then when it's your turn you will handle things better than they are.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: Icelander]
    #5756696 - 06/16/06 09:41 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

Not being a dick at all.  It's your opinion and you can state it anytime you want....just don't expect them to make any decision like that based on your opinions. 

Be careful how you act towards these new guys, they could be your new stepdad.  :smirk:


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5756759 - 06/16/06 10:06 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

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Not being a dick at all.  It's your opinion and you can state it anytime you want....just don't expect them to make any decision like that based on your opinions. 

Be careful how you act towards these new guys, they could be your new stepdad.  :smirk:




I'm not going to take any shit from these new guys, I'm really fucking mad right now and any excuse they give me to knock their heads in I'm going to take it.

Just hopefully my mom will rethink what shes doing "at this point" and wait untill the other water has settled.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5756787 - 06/16/06 10:18 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

no offense intended here Belly

how old are you?


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5756880 - 06/16/06 10:56 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

20(still milkin from the parents  :tongue:)


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5756979 - 06/16/06 11:31 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

say what you feel, you are an adult...just be prepared to live with the reprecussions


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5757010 - 06/16/06 11:39 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

I did just talk to my mom about it and I feel a little better about it, but I just get the feeling this has the potential to make the entire situation worse.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5757021 - 06/16/06 11:43 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

it could get worse for who?


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5757079 - 06/16/06 12:02 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

I don't think you're doing anything wrong. I think it's unfair to you and your sister that your parents can not wait to get through the actual separation until they find new partners. I know how much it sucks to have to deal with parents divorcing, and it is an unnecessary additional amount of stress to have to accept this as well right now.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: Redstorm]
    #5757090 - 06/16/06 12:05 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

new partners more often than not is the reason for divorce


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5757130 - 06/16/06 12:27 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

Belly,
there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. Especially if you have a younger sister who has to take witness to this shit. You are definitely in the right here.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5757222 - 06/16/06 01:01 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

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new partners more often than not is the reason for divorce




Exactly.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5757693 - 06/16/06 03:08 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

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it could get worse for who?




everyone. my dads mental state isn't the greatest right now and if he gets wind of this "friend" theres no saying whatr he'l do.

my dad was going to go camping with my sister but she didn't want to go and in his current state he sees that as abondonm,ent and what not, so I asked him if he was still going he said no, so I told him I would bullshit my work and get a couple days off to go with him and he said hed probably go then. I think itl be a good escape for him and myself as well.


hmmm now what to tell work??


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Edited by bellylard (06/16/06 03:27 PM)


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5757762 - 06/16/06 03:38 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

tell work your dad is ill and you need to take care of him


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5757769 - 06/16/06 03:42 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

that would work, because it's partially true.

thnks goob


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: barfightlard]
    #5757777 - 06/16/06 03:44 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

you're a good son


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: goobler]
    #5759389 - 06/17/06 12:12 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

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you're a good son




I was just about to say the same thing.

Bellyard: You sound like a real stand-up guy. It's great what you're doing for your dad. Make sure you're there for your sister. She may act like this whole mess isn't a big deal, but there will be a time where she'll need you.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: Redstorm]
    #5759627 - 06/17/06 02:15 AM (17 years, 7 months ago)

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Make sure you're there for your sister. She may act like this whole mess isn't a big deal, but there will be a time where she'll need you.





And why wait for that time, make yourself available and helpful now so that she knows and is comfortable talking about it with you.


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Re: am i just being a dick? [Re: eligal]
    #5761311 - 06/17/06 05:43 PM (17 years, 7 months ago)

I do talk to her about it once in awhile, and I think it's good that I try too. My mom really isn't making the seperation go as easy as it could, shes still to involved in his life and it's really not helping him. I think she needs to make an effort to just not be so involved in a way that gives him any idea of a chance they may get back together, but he also has to take some control in not letting that happen and try and give up that false hope and move on.

I'm tired off seeing him in the condition he's in, hes really bottomed out.


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