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MOTH
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Yelling
#5753498 - 06/15/06 12:54 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Recently I have realized how uncomfortable hearing 'yelling in anger' makes me. I just hate it. It's the hallmark of conflict. Anytime I hear someone yell in anger, at anything or anyone, it really upsets me. It makes me want to yell at them to stop yelling. Whenever my husband yells at the dogs, I get pissed. There's just no need to yell at the top of your lungs at an animal, or person, for that matter. I mean, there are ways to communicate without resorting to an angry-sounding yell. So much negative energy is carried along with that sound.
Anyway, it bothers me.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753501 - 06/15/06 12:56 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Aw, there is no need to yell at doggies. They get sad when they know you are upset with them.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753507 - 06/15/06 12:58 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I just want to leave the room when people get angry like that
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753510 - 06/15/06 12:58 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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As well it should!
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MOTH
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I know, I just hate yelling! Growing up, I heard A LOT of it. It makes me feel physically violent to hear someone yelling in anger nowadays, like my body shifts into this "flight or fight" mode.
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blacksabbathrulz

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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753532 - 06/15/06 01:06 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'll raise my voice sometimes when I get angry, but I don't yell. I think its normal to raise your voice a little when you get mad, but yelling isn't neccessary.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753537 - 06/15/06 01:08 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I hate yelling also. I raise my voice at my little dog but not yell and I give him a weak spanking. He still shits all over the floor. So for a week I tried being mean and he still shits on the floor. So now I just let him shit on the floor.
I never got mad though. Maybe thats why he still does it, you have to actually be mad for the dog to know.
How do you stop a dog from shitting on the floor. I let them out all the time. He sometimes goes out and comes in and shits on the floor.
Anyway I hate yelling my dad used to yell and hit me a lot, but then I got good genes for the first time in my family history and am calm and peaceful.
Edit: Ok I just had Daisi voo have I ever posted this exact same thing befor?
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blacksabbathrulz

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Quote:
mikeownow said: I hate yelling also. I raise my voice at my little dog but not yell and I give him a weak spanking. He still shits all over the floor. So for a week I tried being mean and he still shits on the floor. So now I just let him shit on the floor.
I never got mad though. Maybe thats why he still does it, you have to actually be mad for the dog to know.
How do you stop a dog from shitting on the floor. I let them out all the time. He sometimes goes out and comes in and shits on the floor.
Anyway I hate yelling my dad used to yell and hit me a lot, but then I got good genes for the first time in my family history and am calm and peaceful.
How old is your dog? It should stop shitting between 6-11 months IMO. After that, I would legitametely be pissed! I normally look at my dog, and say in a mean/dissapointed voice "what did you do" and point at it, and then I crate the dog for 10-15 minutes.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753548 - 06/15/06 01:12 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've never been particularly fond of yelling, when I have to resort to that point, I have failed, I dont do well with anger, mine or anyone elses, I dont like me when I'm angry, it usualy leads to stupid stuff
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753560 - 06/15/06 01:18 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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yea but dogs react to the loudness. Thats how they know something is bad. So its good to yell, because later you wont have to deal with crap. such as dogs shitting in my room!
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Re: Yelling [Re: XUL]
#5753564 - 06/15/06 01:19 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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mine would react to my normal voice or even a snap of my fingers, I rarely had to raise my voice to him
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753594 - 06/15/06 01:30 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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sorry, but. You say that you don't like it when someones is yelling at people or animals.
How about the TV? Remote control? Computer mouse? Flashlight?
Do you mean 'anything' as everything that exists in this world?
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Yeah, that's what I'm saying, there are better ways to communicate. The most I do with my puppy (5 months) is clap my hands.
Oh, you shouldn't punish or yell at your dog for shitting on the floor. Once it happens, it's over with, and yelling at them is just confusing. Just put the dog out of sight, clean it up, and watch them better next time. Dogs give signs like restlessness, sniffing around, whining and pawing if they need to go potty. An unpotty-trained dog needs constant supervision and they need to be praised LOTS whenever they do good and potty outside or in the proper spot.
Potty training isn't hard, you just have to supervise and praise at the right times. And be consistant about it too...my dogs never have accidents inside.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753626 - 06/15/06 01:39 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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i hate yelling.
it doesnt help. it just escalates the situation .
yelling at me usually ends up with me screaming " I CAN FUCKING HEAR YOU DICKWAD YOU DONT FUCKING NEED TO YELL". that usually shuts them up.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753639 - 06/15/06 01:43 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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EllemyshShade said: Oh, you shouldn't punish or yell at your dog for shitting on the floor.
Mine was a very large dobie, on the few occasions he pooped in the floor he knew right away he was in trouble, he's go to the bathroom and grab clothing and towels to cover it up so he wouldnt get into trouble, all I had to do was point and he's go lay down in his corner... of course cleaning it up was a serious chore I'd have to break out the shovel to do it. them was some big turds
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753646 - 06/15/06 01:45 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I agree, it sucks hearing that shit.. I have got a lot of it in the past too.
Did my share of yelling though, so I shouldn't be one to talk.
I usually can't control yelling when I get really mad. I just lose control and can't help it... but I also hit and break things (not people), but I have hurt myself a lot when in rage.
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Liquidkick said: sorry, but. You say that you don't like it when someones is yelling at people or animals.
How about the TV? Remote control? Computer mouse? Flashlight?
Do you mean 'anything' as everything that exists in this world?
I DON'T LIKE YELLING
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Re: Yelling [Re: eris]
#5753656 - 06/15/06 01:47 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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eris said: I agree, it sucks hearing that shit.. I have got a lot of it in the past too.
Did my share of yelling though, so I shouldn't be one to talk.
I usually can't control yelling when I get really mad. I just lose control and can't help it... but I also hit and break things (not people), but I have hurt myself a lot when in rage.
Yeah, my anger goes all internal...sometimes it festers and finds its way out of my skin.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753658 - 06/15/06 01:47 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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i used to yell alot. my parents used to yell alot. i still yell sometimes when me and my brother get into it, but its something im trying to work out of my daily routines. im getting better with it, but when i get angry its just instinct (for lack of a better word) for me to yell. it never helps, it always just pisses off both parties that much more, and i always feel like a dick head afterwards. there really is no reason to yell in anger.
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Re: Yelling [Re: MOTH]
#5753673 - 06/15/06 01:52 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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EllemyshShade said: Yeah, my anger goes all internal...
I rarely get angry, you really have to do something bad to piss me off
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