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Osker246
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: Noetical]
#5751752 - 06/14/06 10:59 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Noetical said: affirmative but you need a better line
Agreed.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: Osker246]
#5751755 - 06/14/06 11:00 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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What should this better line be?
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Osker246
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5751809 - 06/14/06 11:12 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I honestly wouldnt say anything like "I remember you when I was boozed up!". Epecially if this is a person your trying to impress; you dont want to make yourself look like to much of a fool. If I ever got a message like that I wouldnt know what to think of the person.
I'd just send a friend request w/ a message starting with some small talk like "hey! I just ran accross your page and thought I'd see how things are goin?" ya know something along those lines. But if you can pull off something comical like a picture and start the convo going then go for it.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5751849 - 06/14/06 11:21 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Mmm you should contact her via myspace, but then throw in "Im not too big a fan of email chat, can I call you?" (or something along those lines. Like email is okay, but the phone is so much better)
It seems like a pretty neutral way of telling her you like her.
Then when she says yes and gives you her phone number, and says to call in 10 minutes --- that's when you can shit your pants with anxiety 
you can do it man
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: Osker246]
#5751922 - 06/14/06 11:43 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I can understand how talking about being all boozed up would be weird.
How about:
1. "Hey! I remember you from the bar." 2. "You're that person from the bar."
Oh man those are bad...help me out here.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5751963 - 06/14/06 11:58 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Just tell the truth...you don't have to flower it all up or anything.
"You are pretty unforgetable...I remember you from when we met at the XYZ bar. Mind if we chat or talk sometime?"
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5751974 - 06/15/06 12:02 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ok lets do some improvising.
1. "Hey! Its (insert name here) from the bar. I just came accross your page and wanted to say hi. How ya been?"
Then just work your way up to something you both talk about.
2."Hey, you look really familiar to me for some reason. Have we meet before? I think we meet at (name of place) but im not sure."
If you use somehting like this just hope she remembers you. If she does remember you, just apologize and say you have a short memory while drinking. Then just continue the convo. from there.
uhhh theres alot more way im just not thinking clearly. But just be yourself and play it cool theres no need to get hyped up about it now. Just wait till your baggin her then you can get hyped up as much as ya want.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: MOTH]
#5753174 - 06/15/06 11:11 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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EllemyshShade said: Just tell the truth...you don't have to flower it all up or anything.
"You are pretty unforgetable...I remember you from when we met at the XYZ bar. Mind if we chat or talk sometime?"
That sounds good in theory...but whenever I try forward stuff like that with women that I am attracted to I fail miserably.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5753199 - 06/15/06 11:15 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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how bout:
"Hey, its me from the bar. Look, I kinda have a little crush on you. If you don't feel the same, please let me know so I can stop thinking about you and spend my time wuing someone else."

could work. I dunno, man, just say something YOU would say. Be yourself.
what you should be hoping for is a good match. Don't hope for one particular chick, instead hope that you find a good match. A good match will be a girl that doesn't make you step outside your comfort zone to get with her.
Its like when I got my aids test. At first, I was praying that I was negative, then I realized that was silly, and just simply prayed that the test would be accurate.
And thats what you want, man. Accuracy. You shouldn't want the chick that you want, you should want the chick that is an accurate match. If that happens to be the chick that you are currently enamoured with, great! If not, don't kick yourself- just keep looking for the lock that fits your key! You won't know who fits unless you TRY a few girls.
Don't get attached to possibilities. They frequently don't pan out in reality. Instead, TRY to make those possibilities a reality. If you fail, move on. Eventually you will find a possibility that CAN be a reality, and when it becomes a reality, be attached to THAT.
A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush, I guess is what I'm saying.
try, try, try again. Eventually, you will be successful, but success tends to come only after the endurance of many failures.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5753486 - 06/15/06 12:49 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
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EllemyshShade said: Just tell the truth...you don't have to flower it all up or anything.
"You are pretty unforgetable...I remember you from when we met at the XYZ bar. Mind if we chat or talk sometime?"
That sounds good in theory...but whenever I try forward stuff like that with women that I am attracted to I fail miserably.
Maybe the more simple the saying the better.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: MOTH]
#5753569 - 06/15/06 01:20 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe the more simple the saying the better.
..Me...want...sex....ugh!
Edited by RandalFlagg (06/15/06 01:23 PM)
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5754368 - 06/15/06 05:24 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fuck it. I just sent her a friend's request. I did not send a message to her though.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5754372 - 06/15/06 05:25 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Your one step closer
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: Osker246]
#5754399 - 06/15/06 05:30 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Osker246 said: Your one step closer
....to getting shot down.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5754485 - 06/15/06 05:47 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dont think so negative of yourself man. Women love men full of confidence. Just give it all you got cause theres only one way to find out.
When I was in highschool there was a time where I had the same problem with you. I was head over heels for one of my friends who is one of those people you meet once in a lifetime. I've never really been good with the ladies either so sadly enough I never did anything about it. Im actually still not all that great with women...shit... 
But turns out she had a thing for me too. But I didnt find this out till after graduation and she was already dating somebody else and moved to NYC. So now I live with the regret of not ever doing anything about it.
Just give it all ya got man. You live and you learn. Whats the worst that can happen?
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: Osker246]
#5754499 - 06/15/06 05:51 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Osker246 said: But turns out she had a thing for me too. But I didnt find this out till after graduation and she was already dating somebody else and moved to NYC. So now I live with the regret of not ever doing anything about it.
Story of my fucking life. In high school I can think of four girls that I had massive crushes on and it turns out that three of them felt the same way about me. I was just too much of a pussy to do anything about it. I ended up only dating/fucking women that threw themselves at me so that I didn't have to do any of the work.
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Osker246 said: Just give it all ya got man. You live and you learn. Whats the worst that can happen?
Complete and utter rejection.
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5754512 - 06/15/06 05:54 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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ok , Jesus
I'll take you on a date if it will shut you up
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Osker246
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5754521 - 06/15/06 05:55 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Osker246 said: Just give it all ya got man. You live and you learn. Whats the worst that can happen?
Complete and utter rejection.
Rejection isnt so bad the week after
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: goobler]
#5754531 - 06/15/06 05:56 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: God, I fucking suck [Re: Osker246]
#5754667 - 06/15/06 06:22 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Drugs were invented to help men forget about the female's rejection.
-------------------- Every mistake, intentional or otherwise, in the above post, is the fault of the reader.
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