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hybridphil
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prolonging sex
#5723006 - 06/07/06 02:24 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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I had a quick question on any drug-free ways to make a guy last longer in sex. Recently my girlfriend mentioned that I don't last very long. I kind of took it as an offense but she said it's a good thing because she knows she is satisfying. More often than not, she will orgasm twice before I even go. I was wondering if there was any...tips and tricks for lasting longer. I'll show her quickie...
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The "million dollar spot" is in the area you might have heard called the 'grundle' or the 'taint', which is that strange stretch in between the scrotum and the anus.
The optimal pinpoint to push varies slightly from person to person, so start somewhere dead in the middle and adjust accordingly. Sufficient pressure on this area preceding ejaculation will prevent the semen from shooting up the vas-deferens, and will cause it to harmlessly return to the source, allowing you to continue lovemaking at your leisure. It is normal to feel your perineum contracting, just continue to apply the pressure until the contractions cease. It will have the sensation of orgasm, without the ejaculation, so you'll be able to keep going. And you thought that area was worthless.
ADVANCED TIP Try sitting on a chair with a racquetball (or similar) pressing up against the spot. Have your lover straddle you and she is ready to ride all night long.
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: BLAST_420]
#5723027 - 06/07/06 02:31 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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DXM helps... ohh, drug-free...
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hybridphil
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: BLAST_420]
#5723108 - 06/07/06 02:59 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah I know a lot of drugs that could make you last a lot longer in bed, but I don't want to be fucked all the time. Not drug-wise that is.
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Think about baseball. Count backwards from 100.
Do some kegel exercises (google is your friend).
If you're really worried get an over the counter analgesic (it will numb you so you can't feel anything). Some condoms come with the analgesic inside them (trojan EXTENDED PLEASURE).
Do not believe your girlfriend when she says: "it's a good thing because she knows she is satisfying"
Anything else?
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: badchad]
#5723133 - 06/07/06 03:04 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Atheist]
#5723143 - 06/07/06 03:06 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jerk off 20 minutes before you go at it. Should help somewhat.
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Atheist]
#5723155 - 06/07/06 03:09 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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there is a way to orgasm without ejaculating(and without having to shove your finger up your ass )
it's all about holding a kegal as you come to climax.
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Atheist
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its at the base of the penis
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Atheist]
#5723166 - 06/07/06 03:10 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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i think
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Atheist]
#5723249 - 06/07/06 03:32 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Practice cutting off the piss when you're taking a leak, if you can stop the flow, you have good kegal muscles. Which means you should be able to prolong the time before the orgasm.
Or when you masturbate, just grip your penor so hard each time that after a few weeks you won't have much sensitivity and won't feel a thing and will last all night. Hopefully you don't like blowjobs if you use this technique.
I'm available for professional in-home consultation at a nominal fee, by the way.
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Once you come just go down on her for ten minutes or so and you should be ready to go again. Anyways shes having twice as many orgasms as you as it stands so what's she moaning about??? The fairer sex's lucky fucking multiple orgasms capabilities 
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hybridphil
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Who doesn't like blowjobs...personally I don't want to kill the sensitivity to my penis. So I'll pass on your second tip...no offense. I will definitely do those kegal practices though.
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Quote:
hybridphil said: Who doesn't like blowjobs...personally I don't want to kill the sensitivity to my penis. So I'll pass on your second tip...no offense. I will definitely do those kegal practices though.
No offense taken at all.
I don't like blowjobs when teeth are involved...
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hybridphil
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Haha never thought of that but I suppose that would be an understandably undesirable circumstance.
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: BLAST_420]
#5723518 - 06/07/06 04:47 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
BLAST_420 said: The "million dollar spot" is in the area you might have heard called the 'grundle' or the 'taint', which is that strange stretch in between the scrotum and the anus.
The optimal pinpoint to push varies slightly from person to person, so start somewhere dead in the middle and adjust accordingly. Sufficient pressure on this area preceding ejaculation will prevent the semen from shooting up the vas-deferens, and will cause it to harmlessly return to the source, allowing you to continue lovemaking at your leisure. It is normal to feel your perineum contracting, just continue to apply the pressure until the contractions cease. It will have the sensation of orgasm, without the ejaculation, so you'll be able to keep going. And you thought that area was worthless.
idk, somehow that just doesn't sound healthy
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: cybrbeast]
#5723541 - 06/07/06 04:52 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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i agree with you. That really dosent sound good for you.
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beat off before you have sex.
squeeze the tip of your cock when you're about to cum. hold it high for about 10 seconds.
get used to having sex.
think of non-sex stuff during sex (forget you're having sex).
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Vvellum]
#5723576 - 06/07/06 05:00 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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^that totally ruins sex though. just bust a nut before or get her to suck on your weewee first. the second nut always takes forever, sometimes to the point of just giving up.
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hybridphil
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After busting the first time, it takes some time before I can usually get hard again. I like the idea of going down on her after busting for some recovery time. I'm sure she wouldn't be complaining...
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it's not about lasting longer it's about simultaneous orgasm and that takes teamwork
i think it's important for a man to always keep in mind her orgasm is more important than yours
this is both the solution and problem to this sexual dysfunction- when you begin to love her orgasms, you become more sensitive to what is going on inside her mind, the things you're doing to cause them. and if you do this properly, it will nearly always bring you to a point where you are trying your hardest not to orgasm, lol because she is stronger, that is something else you need to know about her. simultaneous orgasm is perfect, and anything else is just silly fun and games.
any sexual dysfunction that arises between two people who claim to love each other, they are both to blame for it- yet tend to blame each other.
if your girl is saying she wants you to last longer. chances are she doesn't really know how to communicate what exactly it is she wants. and she's failing to ask herself if maybe she is part of the problem, demanding you just naturally be able to please her without communicating honestly.
i'm curious how long you do last, lol with foreplay and everything.
i'd say if you only last 5 minutes, but you achieve simultaneous orgasm, well that is perfect. but if you take 5 minutes and she never comes, then, you're kinda mean, lol or maybe she's one of those girls who needs it for a long time, girls are all different.
in that case maybe it works if you bring her to orgasm, then when she's spent, put it inside her, and get off in 2 minutes. some girls like that, lol (it's like getting fucked twice) lol
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Telepylus]
#5723741 - 06/07/06 05:41 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well while penetrating her, I don't think I could last even close to 5 minutes. We've had sex easily over 300 times in the duration of our relationship. Sometimes up to 4 times a day. But we almost always orgasm together. It's the weirdest thing. I've always heard that it was hard to achieve but it's always happened with us. Regardless of whether it's the first, second, or 24'th time for her. (ecstasy night...wow what a night) My girlfriend never said that she wanted me to last longer, I'm simply asking for the benefit of giving her more pleasure. If I could, I'd want to fuck her for hours to the screaming of her pleasure. I've always prioritized her orgasm over mine and have always had great sex. She is the only person I've ever had sex with so I can't compare but it's always been amazing.
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Your dingdong tends to swell up before ejaculation, quite a bit. If she's sensitive, which it sounds like, it wouldn't be surprising if that gets her off at the same time.
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II'd let you take notes, but that would be weird. :thefunkymonkstroke:
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: funkymonk]
#5724071 - 06/07/06 07:28 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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:cough: faking it :cough: 'How rude'
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: TheCow]
#5725532 - 06/08/06 01:41 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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After doing some research and takin some of your advice, I'd say it's been pretty succesful...Every time I've went to pee, I've been doing that muscle thing where you cut it off. Kind of painful if you ask me. Just less than half an hour ago, the deed was done. Started off with some nice oral for her and read somewhere about doing circle eights. Seemed to get her off...Then she screamed fuck me, so by natural instinct, I did. Her feet over my shoulders. I was going at it for nearly double than I have normally. I had to slow down cuz I wanted to keep going but she pulled me towards her and we orgasmed simultaneously. She was kissing me from head to toe after we were done. I think she was more than satisfied...
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