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hybridphil
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After busting the first time, it takes some time before I can usually get hard again. I like the idea of going down on her after busting for some recovery time. I'm sure she wouldn't be complaining...
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Telepylus
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it's not about lasting longer it's about simultaneous orgasm and that takes teamwork
i think it's important for a man to always keep in mind her orgasm is more important than yours
this is both the solution and problem to this sexual dysfunction- when you begin to love her orgasms, you become more sensitive to what is going on inside her mind, the things you're doing to cause them. and if you do this properly, it will nearly always bring you to a point where you are trying your hardest not to orgasm, lol because she is stronger, that is something else you need to know about her. simultaneous orgasm is perfect, and anything else is just silly fun and games.
any sexual dysfunction that arises between two people who claim to love each other, they are both to blame for it- yet tend to blame each other.
if your girl is saying she wants you to last longer. chances are she doesn't really know how to communicate what exactly it is she wants. and she's failing to ask herself if maybe she is part of the problem, demanding you just naturally be able to please her without communicating honestly.
i'm curious how long you do last, lol with foreplay and everything.
i'd say if you only last 5 minutes, but you achieve simultaneous orgasm, well that is perfect. but if you take 5 minutes and she never comes, then, you're kinda mean, lol or maybe she's one of those girls who needs it for a long time, girls are all different.
in that case maybe it works if you bring her to orgasm, then when she's spent, put it inside her, and get off in 2 minutes. some girls like that, lol (it's like getting fucked twice) lol
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hybridphil
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: Telepylus]
#5723741 - 06/07/06 05:41 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well while penetrating her, I don't think I could last even close to 5 minutes. We've had sex easily over 300 times in the duration of our relationship. Sometimes up to 4 times a day. But we almost always orgasm together. It's the weirdest thing. I've always heard that it was hard to achieve but it's always happened with us. Regardless of whether it's the first, second, or 24'th time for her. (ecstasy night...wow what a night) My girlfriend never said that she wanted me to last longer, I'm simply asking for the benefit of giving her more pleasure. If I could, I'd want to fuck her for hours to the screaming of her pleasure. I've always prioritized her orgasm over mine and have always had great sex. She is the only person I've ever had sex with so I can't compare but it's always been amazing.
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Koala Koolio
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Registered: 01/07/04
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Your dingdong tends to swell up before ejaculation, quite a bit. If she's sensitive, which it sounds like, it wouldn't be surprising if that gets her off at the same time.
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funkymonk
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II'd let you take notes, but that would be weird. :thefunkymonkstroke:
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TheCow
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: funkymonk]
#5724071 - 06/07/06 07:28 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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:cough: faking it :cough: 'How rude'
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hybridphil
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Re: prolonging sex [Re: TheCow]
#5725532 - 06/08/06 01:41 AM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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After doing some research and takin some of your advice, I'd say it's been pretty succesful...Every time I've went to pee, I've been doing that muscle thing where you cut it off. Kind of painful if you ask me. Just less than half an hour ago, the deed was done. Started off with some nice oral for her and read somewhere about doing circle eights. Seemed to get her off...Then she screamed fuck me, so by natural instinct, I did. Her feet over my shoulders. I was going at it for nearly double than I have normally. I had to slow down cuz I wanted to keep going but she pulled me towards her and we orgasmed simultaneously. She was kissing me from head to toe after we were done. I think she was more than satisfied...
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