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Telepylus
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wow this is crazy-
Huehuecoyotl said: Soulmate = codependancy. A healthy relationship is based on independance...not attachment.
then Dr. J agreed with him.
Love is a codependant situation. Independance is seperatism, and suggests that you are whole outside of the family unit. which is true for some people like hermits and monks.
Love is attachment, by deinition of the word. And i think that thinking otherwise is unhealthy. sounds like setting up walls to hide behind, thinking you are individual or seperate when in fact, you're not.
Love is attachment to the spirit, which is detached from distractions of material things or circumstances.
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Sinbad
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Re: soulmates? [Re: DoctorJ]
#5720202 - 06/06/06 06:53 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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"We live together, we act on, and react to, one another; but always and in all circumstances we are by ourselves. The martyrs go hand in hand into the arena; they are crucified alone. Embraced, the lovers desperatley try to fuse their insulated ecstacies into a single self-transcendence; in vain. By its very nature every embodied spirit is doomed to suffer and enjoy solitude. Sensations, feelings, insights, fancies - all these are private and, except through symbols are at second hand, incommunicable. We can pool information about experiences but never the experiences themselves. From family to nation, every human group is a society of island universes."
- Aldous Huxley, Doors of Perception -
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Edited by Sinbad (06/06/06 07:07 PM)
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Telepylus
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Re: soulmates? [Re: Sinbad]
#5720233 - 06/06/06 07:04 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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it's true at the end there is only One. and you are allOne in your death. your death is between U and God, which may be the same person but we're not certain on that yet.
there is alot happening inbetween here & there though. in eternal heaven i am at one with my family, my ancestors, and my children. and because i know this fact, i love them the same here on earth. my wife and children are not seperate from me, we are one being, and that is the truth. the illusion is that we are seperate and individual. sure our personalities and fingerprints are unique and individual. but those are masks. those are the illusions.
on the earth, your thoughts are private. you are lead to believe that your thoughts are private. but your thoughts aren't private at all. not if you believe in God, or the akashic record. the idea that your thoughts and deeds are private, that is a fear game, and lying to yourself, in DENIAL-don't even know i am lying, lol
and sometimes incommunicable things are mysteriously communicated between minds. (although it might require some LSD inbetween, lol)
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Telepylus
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is having sex to create a living child a co-dependent situation?
if you're doing it properly yes, lol
and it's not a simple dependency between man and wife either, it's a trinity if it be you understand the nature of time, then clearly the unborn child is an equal in the whole process.
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