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peace_n_love
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slightly confused.
#5682448 - 05/28/06 02:32 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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So I met this girl at a club about 2 weeks ago, we hit it off and we've been going out since. I'm still a virgin, and I kind of want to keep it that way untill I'm in love with somebody and the girl i'm seeing wants to have sex with me, so how do I let her know that i'm still interested in her but I just don't want to have sex with her...right now. In a kind way though too. Anyways thanks a lot for any posts!
Peacefulness. 
P.S to those who have lost their virginity, was it in a worthwhile relationship, if so do you feel better knowing that you didn't lose your virginity in a somewhat meaningless relationship? I guess i'm just wondering if i'm making too much of a deal about this whole virginity thing, thanks again.
Edited by peace_n_love (05/28/06 02:37 AM)
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Microcosmatrix
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Re: Never thought I would say this. [Re: peace_n_love]
#5682452 - 05/28/06 02:34 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Allow her to hold your erect penis, that should send her a strong message.
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KaptKid
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Re: Never thought I would say this. [Re: peace_n_love]
#5682456 - 05/28/06 02:36 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Tell her the truth. If she doesn't understand
What a bitch
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Microcosmatrix
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There's not really any good reason I can think of right off hand why you shouldn't just fuck her brains out.
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king_cobra
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Quote:
Microcosmatrix said: There's not really any good reason I can think of right off hand why you shouldn't just fuck her brains out.
yep.
once you hit it you will ask yourself "what was i so scared of again?"
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Rhysaboveit
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if it really means that much to you, sit her down and explain whats the deal. I can understand why you want to wait if its for love and what not , but for me it didnt happen that way, and now.. it doesnt really bug me or anything . If she's bitchy about it, ditch her. But then again she might take it as a challenge, and try to work her way into your pants.. i mean heart.
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Microcosmatrix
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It's idiotic and counter-productive in my opinion to reverse the typical sex roles to where the male doesn't want sex. Typically that means he gets his wish and gets no ass.
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Brainiac
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Go up to her with an erect penis and say."As you can see my little friend likes you, Do you won't to met him ?.
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king_cobra
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Re: slightly confused. [Re: Brainiac]
#5682494 - 05/28/06 02:57 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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no, man.. just no.
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peace_n_love
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Re: slightly confused. [Re: king_cobra]
#5682501 - 05/28/06 03:01 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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"Go up to her with an erect penis and say."As you can see my little friend likes you, Do you won't to met him ?. "
hahaha. That would be an easy way of taking the possibility of sex out of the equation...
Peacefulness.
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InTheFlesh714
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Microcosmatrix said: It's idiotic and counter-productive in my opinion to reverse the typical sex roles to where the male doesn't want sex. Typically that means he gets his wish and gets no ass.
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cApTaInCrAp
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It's all up to you...i lost mine a young age to a girl i didnt care about and wasnt going out with, now that im older i wish it would have been with someone i cared about..o well tho
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DirtMcgirt
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once you hit it you will ask yourself "what was i so scared of again?"
That's about it right there. You are just scared and you will feel this way no matter how long you are with somebody. That is how it worked for me and everybody i've spoken to about this sort of thing. Your making too much of that first time. Once it is over with than it won't be a constant thorn in your interaction with the opposite sex.
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Ginseng1
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Re: slightly confused. [Re: DirtMcgirt]
#5682949 - 05/28/06 09:46 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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sex is a raw and simple act.
dont be afraid of it man theres nothing better.
When the world is all fucked up and we dont have tv and computers and cars and shit to play around with have fun with... the pussy will always be there for you. 
And mushrooms too. 
Just got for it dude why are u still a virgin?
Also i just wanna let u know I respect you if thats the way you are you know its all good. Its up to you. 
DirtMcGirt

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Brainiac
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Re: slightly confused. [Re: Ginseng1]
#5682956 - 05/28/06 09:50 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ask her to sit on you lap and talk about what pops up.
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Microcosmatrix
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Buy her a "love seat": 
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