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jmorrison
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Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex
#5678141 - 05/26/06 07:39 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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On thursday night, I took mushrooms with my boyfriend. It was his first time, and I was a bit apprehensive about how he'd cope. he'd taken acid and had a bad experiance, and couldn't smoke pot without getting paranoid. I'd also never had to decide how many mushrooms constituted a trip before and I think I gave us too much. I went and vomited when I felt the trip coming on too strong and too early. So, we took them and started fucking around on the computer looking up weird stuff until I got bored and made him turn it off. He said "well, what are we going to do then?" (it was a cold night, and his parents were downstairs) and I thought "oh, no. you don't get it do you?" It was obvious to me that he didn't understand the concept of tripping. You don't look on a computer all night! As the trip came on, it was increasingly difficult to communicate with each other. I think he probadly took too much and should've had a vomit earlier like I did. As you know, when the communication is lost it can be horrible and really difficult to get back. He was more interested in the visuals, while I was more interested in the mind processes. I was feeling talkative and he very introverted and a bit paranoid I think. At times we felt so distant from each other and i was really worried he wasn't in a good space, but didn't know how to talk to him or bring it up. Eventually, he decided he wanted to go to bed ( he'd been really couch-y and tired all night) which I thought was really strange as I like to talk and bond during a come down. Once in bed I got a little upset that things hadn't gone to plan and we hadn't both had the amazing bonding experiance that i thought we'd have. We tried to talk about it but I still felt bad until he kissed me! At first I was apprehensive and din't want to be kissed because i was feeling both very non-sexual and not very close to him. But it was the most incredible kiss of my life, like I'd never been kissed before and I was learning all over again. We went on to have the best sex of my life. We were very unhurried and in tune with each others bodies, it felt a million miles away from ordinary sex. And it all felt so new and virginal. Neither of us came, I think because of the mushrooms, but it didn't matter, even though i could tell it would've be mindblowing. Anyone got any confimation of this? I'd read about how sex on mushrooms could be great, but didn't really think it could be for me, because i always feel so unsxual on hallucinogens. The contrast between the baddness of the trip and the goodness of the comedown was so great. I'll always know that it's possible to turn a bad trip around now.
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FunkyLoFi
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Re: Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex [Re: jmorrison]
#5678247 - 05/26/06 08:13 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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In my experience, expectations have a way of dragging a trip down. Try to go into your future trips with an open mind, don't expect anything, just let it happen. For me and many others, those trips have been the most memorable and enjoyable.
Also, vomitting is not going to reduce the strength of a trip. I don't think it is good to recommend someone to vomit, or wish that they had. Some people get sick, others don't. There are some people that believe vomitting is the body and mind's way of ridding itself of bad energy. Either way, I would not recommend inducing vomitting or trying to vomit because you think a trip is coming on to hard.
Also, go get a scale so you know exactly how much you are dosing. This is important and will greatly help you determine the strength of your trip.
Gald the sex was good.
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trippinsince89
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Re: Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex [Re: FunkyLoFi]
#5680541 - 05/27/06 02:02 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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The you don't get it probably set him off in a bad direction. Its not some secret that it is to be coveted by a few but should be something you as the experienced one could have shared with him and facilitated his experience better.
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Re: Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex [Re: trippinsince89]
#5684275 - 05/28/06 06:46 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah, the wet, mushy tactile sensations are great, but the equipment may not work well for a guy at times. I've had great sex with my wife, but because of the loss of ego, I'd forget who I was in the sexual equation... until she'd ask me why I stopped. Then I'd be like... oh yeah, shoot, what's this soft thing between my legs?
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Re: Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex [Re: SicnTired]
#5774287 - 06/20/06 09:44 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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SicnTired said: oh yeah, shoot, what's this soft thing between my legs?
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Re: Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex [Re: jmorrison]
#5778517 - 06/21/06 10:44 PM (17 years, 7 months ago) |
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On my last trip my boyfriend and I made le sex. I felt the same way, very un-sexual until we kissed. After that it was exactly as you described, both of us feeling so in tune with each other... =]
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Re: Mushrooms with boyfriend. bad trip , good sex [Re: FunkyLoFi]
#5823541 - 07/05/06 12:59 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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LoFiFunk said: In my experience, expectations have a way of dragging a trip down. Try to go into your future trips with an open mind, don't expect anything, just let it happen. For me and many others, those trips have been the most memorable and enjoyable.
Also, vomitting is not going to reduce the strength of a trip. I don't think it is good to recommend someone to vomit, or wish that they had. Some people get sick, others don't. There are some people that believe vomitting is the body and mind's way of ridding itself of bad energy. Either way, I would not recommend inducing vomitting or trying to vomit because you think a trip is coming on to hard.
Also, go get a scale so you know exactly how much you are dosing. This is important and will greatly help you determine the strength of your trip.
Gald the sex was good.
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