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Herbus
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5671260 - 05/25/06 01:37 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Biological impulse; emotional satisfaction-
Morality, sexual ethics-
I don't care I wanted an excuse to use smileys
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Roadkill
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5671262 - 05/25/06 01:37 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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If you go after your friends girl...
you will break the buddy law.
Friends don't go after friends old ladies.
no matter what!~
not even if they break up!~
and if you do...
read what Hella_tight posted!~
thats a big ditto from me too!!!~
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blacksabbathrulz
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Roadkill]
#5671278 - 05/25/06 01:46 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't get it. In one part of this thread, you say he isn't your friend and he is a douche. In the title, you say that he is a "good friend"
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LloydChristmas
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: blacksabbathrulz] 1
#5671316 - 05/25/06 01:56 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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fuck this I'm out.
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Herbus
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5671333 - 05/25/06 02:03 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah boys he's a free-spirit, none of that half-assed persuasion is gunna work on this one!
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KidgardFromSRQ
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Herbus]
#5671343 - 05/25/06 02:07 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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As this thread goes on, your gonna get an array of useful opinions for your situation. But, why don't you just say it. If she doesnt like it, make things better so long as you dont have to sacrafice anything truely of yourself or another.
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Krishna
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5671774 - 05/25/06 07:22 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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"well my number one occupation is stealing women from their men"
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CaRnAgECaNdY
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#5671841 - 05/25/06 08:11 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
HELLA_TIGHT said: Don't do shit
DON'T EVEN LET HER COME OVER
If you do, you're an ass.
Agreed.
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PurpleKush
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
#5671917 - 05/25/06 08:45 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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speaking from personal experience, don't fuck with her. i fucked one of my best friend's long time girlfriend and lied about it for months until it finally came out. i still feel like shit about it almost 2 years later. my and my friend are still friends, but its not the same. i take the blame for it, but in my defense, the girl is a slut. she's fucked 4 other friends of his behind his back, and i wasn't the first, but he always comes back. he's completely stuck on her, and she treats him like shit.
but anyways... i learned my lesson: don't fuck with your friends girls. period.
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LloydChristmas
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: PurpleKush]
#5672943 - 05/25/06 01:03 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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In her defense, she's not a slut at all. Very sweet girl. I'm just gonna tell her and see what happens, not like I'm gonna jump on her. If it blows up in my face.....lesson learned.
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40oz
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5674200 - 05/25/06 06:49 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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its a dog eat dog world. if her current relationship is shit enough for her to question it, then that relationship has run its course.
if this friend of yours isn't really a good friend & more like someone of just acquaintance, i say go for it, but be aware, things usually end just how they started, but with someone else in your current position.
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5674264 - 05/25/06 07:05 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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when you do this to others, you are only inviting it to be done to yourself. If you've ever had it done to you, then you would know that it is not to be wished upon any man.
do the honorable thing, and NOT make the move. if she tries to make her moves on you, then stop her, explain it to her, and do the right thing.
like roadkill said, even after they are broken up, it's pretty much off limits.
get your friends permission before you persue, because your not treating her like a piece of meat, your checking to see if your friend will be crushed to the fullest extent of the law. if he says go for it, double check, and if he says no.. then say alright, and find a new girl. .. .
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LloydChristmas
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Phychotron]
#5674347 - 05/25/06 07:32 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ok yall are talkin about loyalty and stuff to a friend. What about being loyal to myself. Who is gonna change my diapers when I'm old and lose control of my bowels? A guy friend or the love of my life?
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5674359 - 05/25/06 07:35 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Neither, because she'll be your age too....what about her own diapers?
And what are the odds of you actually being together that long?? Be realistic here.
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LloydChristmas
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
#5674368 - 05/25/06 07:38 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hey you never know. My mom was engaged to this guy at one point but realized that she wouldn't be happy with him. She then met my dad and they have been happily married with 4 kids since.
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notapillow
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5674372 - 05/25/06 07:38 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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fuck loyalty fuck morality wait till she comes over then if shit gets heavy talk to her. DO NOT BONE! i cannot stress this enough let her deal with her fucked up relationship. if she really feels the same way she will go with you
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
#5674373 - 05/25/06 07:39 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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If shes willing to just jump from her boyfriend to you, thinking you are a better guy, then what happens when a guy who is "better" than you comes along? She'll drop your ass quick. If she doesn't even display the tact to break up with him before getting involved with you its not only your loyalty that would be in question, but hers also.
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40oz
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: LloydChristmas]
#5674375 - 05/25/06 07:40 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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you already know what yer going to do about the situation. you dont need to justify anything to anybody here. do your thing man.
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notapillow
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Twister]
#5674379 - 05/25/06 07:41 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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not nessisarily. she dosent get what she wants from this relationship aparently. shes not a backstabing hoe just because she feels she can have a better relationship with someone else
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domite
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Re: I'm in love with a good friend's girlfriend. [Re: Twister]
#5674381 - 05/25/06 07:43 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Twister said: If shes willing to just jump from her boyfriend to you, thinking you are a better guy, then what happens when a guy who is "better" than you comes along? She'll drop your ass quick. If she doesn't even display the tact to break up with him before getting involved with you its not only your loyalty that would be in question, but hers also.
Exactly.
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