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DoctorJ


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why is it that...
#5649671 - 05/19/06 10:41 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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why is it that a lot of women can't seem to own up to their own behavior?
case in point:
about a week ago, I was having a drink at a bar with a few female friends.
This one chick goes: "J, you know I'm a very loyal girl. I'm not a slut."
And I was like: "Yeah, right bitch! You came onto me and basically asked me to eat you out while you had a boyfriend! Your ex-boyfriend has complained to me about you sleeping with other guys while you and he were together! How can you just sit there and lie to me like that with a smile on your face?"
and she was like: "You're crazy. None of those things ever happened. I'm insulted."
WTF??? I know what I saw and heard, and I know several people who will back it up, both men and women! You are the crazy one, bitch! The craziest women believe their own lies.
Another example:
Recently, a chick basically asked me out right in front of her boyfriend. So I called her out on it. "Why are you coming onto me in front of him? He doesn't need that, he's had a hard life already. Is that supposed to impress me, you being a slut with no concern for the feelings of those around her?"
And once again, the chick called me crazy, and denied all bad intention.
How come many women can't seem to own up to their mistakes? Why can they not take responsibility for their behavior?
man, I need to get outta Dallas. Nothing but whores here.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: DoctorJ]
#5649678 - 05/19/06 10:44 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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why is it that a lot of people can't seem to own up to their own behavior?
Because people want to protect their egos.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: Silversoul]
#5649685 - 05/19/06 10:46 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't even have an ego
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Re: why is it that... [Re: Silversoul]
#5649690 - 05/19/06 10:48 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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leggo my ego
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: why is it that... [Re: goobler]
#5649695 - 05/19/06 10:49 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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HOLY SHIT
I kept saying say in my head after reading that, and I was going to post it.
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DoctorJ


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Re: why is it that... [Re: Silversoul]
#5649697 - 05/19/06 10:50 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Silversoul said:
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why is it that a lot of people can't seem to own up to their own behavior?
Because people want to protect their egos.
the only reason I say women is because I have never persued a man romantically, and thus have little experience in this area.
However, I have often found that when a man fucks up, he will eventually stand up and have the balls to admit it and accept responsibility for it. I see this in men more than women. Of course, men hide, cheat lie, and try to get away with stuff too, but ultimately they almost always repent. I wish I could say the same for women.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: goobler]
#5649698 - 05/19/06 10:50 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I guess that's what happens when you put that shit out into the universal consciousness.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: DoctorJ]
#5649700 - 05/19/06 10:51 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Have you never met a stubborn person or something?
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DoctorJ


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I can be quite stubborn at times.
"In matters of style, swim with the current. In matters of principle, stand like a rock." - Thomas Jefferson
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Re: why is it that... [Re: DoctorJ]
#5649704 - 05/19/06 10:52 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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DoctorJ said: However, I have often found that when a man fucks up, he will eventually stand up and have the balls to admit it and accept responsibility for it. I see this in men more than women. Of course, men hide, cheat lie, and try to get away with stuff too, but ultimately they almost always repent. I wish I could say the same for women.
I knew this guy in High School who was a kleptomaniac. One night, when he was over at my house, this one guy's mini-disc player suddenly went missing. We can't prove it, but we all know who took it. He still hasn't fessed up.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: Silversoul]
#5649749 - 05/19/06 11:07 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't know... but it's probably the same reason a guy can cheat on his wife and still insist he has a "great" marriage. (yeah, great for him maybe... )
Most people look at themselves through rose-colored glasses (boys and girls alike). I try not to though. I make a point to own all my wickedness.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: Sihaya]
#5649756 - 05/19/06 11:10 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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But you know... I think the whole cheating thing is blown out of proportion (especially when it's only in a gf/bf relationship). I guess I'm a little "old fashioned" in that I still think anyone not engaged is fair game (unless there's obvious life-long committment there... like you have kids and have been living together for 10 years and marriage is really just a little paper work away)
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Re: why is it that... [Re: Sihaya]
#5649812 - 05/19/06 11:31 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Most people look at themselves through rose-colored glasses (boys and girls alike).
oh yeah!~
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DoctorJ


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Re: why is it that... [Re: Sihaya]
#5649839 - 05/19/06 11:40 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sihaya said:
Most people look at themselves through rose-colored glasses (boys and girls alike). I try not to though. I make a point to own all my wickedness.
very admirable.
I have done many things I am not proud of, but still I try to be honest, and bear my burdens like a man. Most men I know are able to do this. How come most women seem unable or unwilling to do this?
I truly believe that women and men are equals. But unfortunately, that belief is in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary
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Re: why is it that... [Re: DoctorJ]
#5650044 - 05/19/06 12:34 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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DoctorJ said: very admirable.
I have done many things I am not proud of, but still I try to be honest, and bear my burdens like a man. Most men I know are able to do this. How come most women seem unable or unwilling to do this?
I truly believe that women and men are equals. But unfortunately, that belief is in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary
Ok Doctor J, read this:
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Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate the dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents...but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
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Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.
Read the rest here man, http://openseduction.org/get_laid/ Hopefully it will open your eyes a little.
And of course The Ladder Theory.
Edited by Pirate_Patrick (05/19/06 12:38 PM)
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HELLA_TIGHT said: I guess that's what happens when you put that shit out into the universal consciousness.
Yeah, man, and without your ego to distinguish yourself as yourself you just tap into that collective consciousness and THAT's what happened here today, man.
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DoctorJ


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I am a man.
I like astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc. I am in touch with my feelings and consider them very important. However, where I differ from women is in knowing to balance my feelings with the feelings of OTHERS! For ultimately, my self is not important.
Women can realize this too. They just don't want to.
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Re: why is it that... [Re: DoctorJ]
#5650108 - 05/19/06 12:51 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I believe some of what that's saying.
You just have to understand the biological basis for their behavior. Cater to it, slightly, excite it... very much.
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HELLA_TIGHT said: I don't even have an ego
...taps foot.
now I'm in no position to call people out, as I've probably just as many problems as you. but why are you all ranting on others behavior. is it really that important to talk about it online? if it really bothers you or who ever so much, then just don't assosciate yourself with people like that. people like that are stupid.
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Pirate_Patrick
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Feelings are just that, feelings. I have feelings and emotions. I don't live by what I feel, I live by what I know. I always ask myself "Whats the best way to handle this situation intelligently and with common sense." I never ask myself "How do I feel about this." Feelings and emotions aid my life and make it more exciting, not run it.
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