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quillini
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Ex is fuckin with my head
#5636841 - 05/16/06 09:41 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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So I'm cleaning out my dorm room Saturday and my ex gives me a call and says "I miss you! blah blah". So we get together and talk both Sunday and last night, and she's kinda leading me on like she wants to get back together. I don't want to be with her right now, but I gave about five years of my life to her, and she's my major weakness.
So last night it becomes clear that she has no real intention of getting back with me, and she's telling me about this dude she's just "friends" with. When I think about it and from what I hear, she and this guy actually get along really well. I know this guy tangentally, and the thought of them together makes so much sense it's nauseating. All of a sudden when I leave reality smacks me in the mouth:
These couple of days were her way of saying goodbye.
-------------------- No; truth, being alive, was not halfway between anything. It was only to be found by continuous excursions into either realm, and though proportion is the final secret, to espouse it at the outset is to insure sterility. Only connect...
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: quillini]
#5636846 - 05/16/06 09:44 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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A bitch is a bitch is a bitch.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: quillini]
#5636852 - 05/16/06 09:47 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Exactly!
At least you recognize it man. Good job. Never allow a girl to talk to you about other guys when you have feelings for her. Nothing good will come from it.
All you can do is be happy for her and hope that someday you find something equivalent.
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DoctorJ


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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: quillini]
#5636924 - 05/16/06 10:15 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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there's nothing exes love more than to fuck with your head like that.
Thats why I became a chaste monk.
sad thing is, I'm actually pretty good in bed. But bitches ain't worth it.
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nunciate
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: quillini]
#5636929 - 05/16/06 10:21 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Dwell on it until you vomit. It's surprisingly refreshing.
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Ginseng1
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: DoctorJ]
#5636969 - 05/16/06 10:44 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
DoctorJ said: there's nothing exes love more than to fuck with your head like that.
Thats why I became a chaste monk.
sad thing is, I'm actually pretty good in bed. But bitches ain't worth it.
bah!
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: Ginseng1]
#5636990 - 05/16/06 10:53 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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well, they could prove me wrong at any time 
indeed, I love being proved wrong because thats when you learn something new!
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drtyfrnk
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: DoctorJ]
#5637002 - 05/16/06 11:00 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
DoctorJ said:sad thing is, I'm actually pretty good in bed. But bitches ain't worth it.
So men are your forte now?
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DoctorJ


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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: drtyfrnk]
#5637011 - 05/16/06 11:03 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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uhhhh... no.
I prefer porn.
porn doesnt ever ask you if its fat
porn doesnt make you sit through lame chick flicks
porn doesn't make you buy it dinner
porn isn't annoying and whiny
porn doesn't try to change you
porn kicks the crap out of women. I think its really funny that one part of my body can replace the entirety of a woman's body
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: DoctorJ]
#5637522 - 05/16/06 01:31 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Restraining order?
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Edited by theolduser (05/16/06 03:00 PM)
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: DoctorJ]
#5637618 - 05/16/06 01:52 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
DoctorJ said: sad thing is, I'm actually pretty good in bed. But bitches ain't worth it.
This statement would be my new signature if there weren't so many great TM quotes during the past 24 hours.
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AngeloWish
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5639188 - 05/16/06 07:58 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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They love to do that. Don't get for fact the goodbye theory maybe she wanted to test you before seriously engaging her other guy's relationship. They love to squeeze our feelings that way.
Or maybe i am just a paranoid prick... be happy for her and forget it... u_u
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quillini
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: AngeloWish]
#5639220 - 05/16/06 08:09 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Today's just been a really sad day for me. It's going to be a long, boring summer with no one to talk to. But then again, it's not like I felt like I could talk to her when we were together. I really miss her right now, and I want to call her, but that would be fucking with my own head, and that's retarded.
I love women; I just wish they didn't act like goddamn women.
-------------------- No; truth, being alive, was not halfway between anything. It was only to be found by continuous excursions into either realm, and though proportion is the final secret, to espouse it at the outset is to insure sterility. Only connect...
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: nunciate]
#5639255 - 05/16/06 08:16 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
nunciate said: Dwell on it until you vomit. It's surprisingly refreshing.

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AngeloWish
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: KaptKid]
#5639277 - 05/16/06 08:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've been through the same. Hold on man i can feel you.
It is always hard to be alone and prolly you don't desire to be with friends right now. Try to distract yourself a little and guide those feelings to a better tomorrow. Try to remember reasons that you had not to be with her even if they don't make sense.
IMHO a man must learn to stand on his own. You might find a lovely woman (or more than one) to spend life with in the future. Yeah, nothing like her cause everyone is different, but plenty of experiences await you on your own way that will make you so rich (morally).
Try to focus on knowledge, find activities / hobbies, read and get over it or just go out with somebody else... it wouldnt work for me cause i'd kept looking for my ex in the eyes of new ones but that is something time washed away.
BEST WISHES!
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quillini
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: AngeloWish]
#5639343 - 05/16/06 08:38 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thanks man. I'll be all right, I just made the mistake of hanging out with her because of this notion of hers that we should be friends. But I say fuck friends; we crossed that line a long time ago. Emotionally I just can't handle being friends with her, and I shouldn't have played along with that bullshit. But I know I'll be fine eventually, once I involve myself with some kind of social circle.
Thanks for the kind word, though.
-------------------- No; truth, being alive, was not halfway between anything. It was only to be found by continuous excursions into either realm, and though proportion is the final secret, to espouse it at the outset is to insure sterility. Only connect...
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Re: Ex is fuckin with my head [Re: quillini]
#5640745 - 05/17/06 02:20 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ex Girlfriend??
Wait until its your ex wife
and shes bitching you out
and telling you how much money
to send back with the kids.
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