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Gumby
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I have no game anymore
#5636178 - 05/16/06 01:45 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ok, so if any of you read that post I made called "Relationship shit," you know what's going on.
If not, heres the short story: I've been in a relationship for the past 3.5 years(various girls, one was 3 years straight more or less).
Now that I'm a single man, I've realized that I've forgotten all of my game. I haven't had to try to get new chicks for the past 3.5 years, and I've pretty much forgotten how.
I need to get my game back so I can proceed with a bunch of random hookups(as most guys once they're single again).
What I'm wondering is how the hell do I get it back? I went to a bunch of bars last weekend and that made me realize I have no clue what I'm doing. I'm thinking more bars might help. Do you have suggestions?
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jcdangerously
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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Gumby]
#5636184 - 05/16/06 01:47 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Clearly, you need a motorcycle, an RV, and a puppy.
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Taco Chef
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after a break-up you need to change some things just b/c the stench of death is on you, killing your confidence and your game w/o one even knowing it.
buy some new clothes, get a new hair style, change something outward about you, which will make you feel new and different and will help you get your confidence back.
and at first, forget game: just say hi and make her laugh
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jcdangerously
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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Gumby]
#5636193 - 05/16/06 01:52 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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On a serious note, i'm going to agree with novum. Women dig a guy who can make them laugh, which explains why inexplicably aesthetically challenged people are able to breed.
Be comfortable, casually distant, and make light of things. The chicks will be falling all over you.
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Helge
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You need Ruffies, booze, and a place to crash...
lol, no, but seriously, you and a buddy should go out to some nicer bars, especially if you live near a city, have a few drinks, be social. Just get out there, sitting around isn't going to get you chicks... Well, you could attempt myspace, haha, good luck with that -Helge
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Taco Chef]
#5636201 - 05/16/06 01:55 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Good advice. 
IF that doesn't work, insult her appearence. But not overly insult, bring her self confidence down and make her wonder why you are being a dick. You gotta be halfway decent looking for this one to work. It works though.
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StanleyPain
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just relearn how to have a good time with some girls [Re: Gumby]
#5636613 - 05/16/06 07:56 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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its not really that hard, you just have to get back into your groove. Alcohol helps [=
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Corporal Kielbasa

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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Gumby]
#5636742 - 05/16/06 08:56 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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The best game is no game! Just keep it real.
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DoctorJ


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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Gumby]
#5636792 - 05/16/06 09:22 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've been witness to the line, "Wanna Fuck?" working on several occaisions.
didn't work on me though, cuz the bitch who asked was an ugly, stupid whore.
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Redstorm
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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Gumby]
#5636943 - 05/16/06 10:29 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I am in the exact sam boat as you. In Dec., I got out of a six year relationship and realized that I have no idea what I'm doing. I still pretty much don't, either.
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RandalFlagg
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Quote:
jcdangerously said: Clearly, you need a motorcycle, an RV, and a puppy.
Instant babe magnet.
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Gumby
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Re: I have no game anymore [Re: Taco Chef]
#5637682 - 05/16/06 02:08 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
novumorganum said: after a break-up you need to change some things just b/c the stench of death is on you, killing your confidence and your game w/o one even knowing it.
buy some new clothes, get a new hair style, change something outward about you, which will make you feel new and different and will help you get your confidence back.
and at first, forget game: just say hi and make her laugh
I'm actually not bothered by the break up at all. I'm happy about it. Feels good to be "free."
I definately plan on changing my image. I've been working out a lot lately. Because of my body type, I can work out just a little bit and bulk up very fast. I'm also going to start running. I want to drop the 30lbs I've gained since I moved back home from college a year ago. It's a lot easier to be confident when talking to chicks when you're confident about your image.
And as far as "game" goes, I didn't really mean it in the sense that I've forgotten how to "run game," I've never done that and never will. I've really just forgotten how to approach new chicks. Hopefuly it will come back to me now that I'm going out and being social.
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