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OneMoreRobot3021


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Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum.
#5624824 - 05/13/06 02:19 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Really, there's nothing that rubs me the wrong way more than skeevy guys. And it doesn't just have to be my girlfriend they're being skeevy towards. I wonder why I grew up this way and it's likely because my dad treated my mom shittily and when they divorced I was raised mainly by my mother and two sisters. So I've always had a pretty profound respect for women. (This also had other effects on my ideas of masculinity but hey, that's for another time, another thread.)
I just don't get why so many men have to be such animals. I don't get why they think that being sneering predatory vulture-like leering mongrels is what's going to get them what they want. I suppose it's because at one point in our natural history long ago in the ape days, and in the ape-man days, it did get you what you wanted. But I tell ya, nothing makes me sick more than skeevy guys.
And when a guy is skeevy towards my girlfriend, I don't get annoyed out of some sort of possessive "no, she's mine!" attitude, because I know I have nothing to worry about. What it comes down to is respect, and I don't know why she, or any woman for that matter, should have to put up with that shit.
Older skeevy guys are the worst. Guys who try to weasel the young ladies into their lives and get into their pants through charm and money. I wonder if they know how transparent they are, how see-through it is. (Of course, some women are quite ready to give themselves over to this particular situation...that's their choice.)
Just was pondering this in the shower, thought I'd get a discussion going.
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I agree. I can't stand scumfuck guys like that. I can understand having casual sex with women, but you don't need to be sneaky and manipulative to get it done.
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buckwheat
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You got a good example of what you consider a skeevy guy?
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: Older skeevy guys are the worst. Guys who try to weasel the young ladies into their lives and get into their pants through charm and money.
Agreed. I hate skeevy guys in general, but older skeevy ones who are dillusional and try to pick up women less than 1/2 their age are just gross.
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OneMoreRobot3021


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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: buckwheat]
#5624851 - 05/13/06 02:28 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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If you can't summon a thousand examples from moments of your everyday life from that post, I don't know what to tell you.
I'm talking about guys who have no idea of class and respect when it comes to flirting with/hitting on women. It can be a fun game - it doesn't need to be nasty.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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OneMoreRobot3021


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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: Liz]
#5624853 - 05/13/06 02:28 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Liz said:
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: Older skeevy guys are the worst. Guys who try to weasel the young ladies into their lives and get into their pants through charm and money.
Agreed. I hate skeevy guys in general, but older skeevy ones who are dillusional and try to pick up women less than 1/2 their age are just gross.
You know what's sad?
My father is one of these men.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: buckwheat]
#5624854 - 05/13/06 02:29 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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buckwheat said: You got a good example of what you consider a skeevy guy?
*Randal runs and hides in order to avoid incrimination*
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I doubt you'll find anyone who feels differently than you on this particular topic, OMR. Everyone other than skeevy guys dislike skeevy guys, and the guys acting that way don't even think they're doing it.
The question is, how many of YOU people are / have been skeevy guys?
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OneMoreRobot3021


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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: jcdangerously]
#5624882 - 05/13/06 02:40 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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jcdangerously said:
The question is, how many of YOU people are / have been skeevy guys?
The worst thing is that skeevy guys leave such an indelible impression on women that their natural mindset is to assume that guys are being skeevy. And so you might just be looking at a girl, and when she makes eye contact with you her first assumption is that you're...one of them!
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: jcdangerously]
#5624884 - 05/13/06 02:41 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ok...I'll get serious here.
I don't like skeevy guys. There are two different types:
1. Skeevy guys that can get women.
-Watching these guys in action is infuriating. They treat women like pieces of meat or like outright garbage, yet women throw themselves at them.
2. Skeevy guys that can't get women
-These guys are just downright creepy.
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I mean there's ass grabbing perverts and then just guys that yell sexual things at women just plain out in the open "animal" male sexuality. I really don't see nothing wrong with the latter. It's not how i deal with women but it works. Obviously these guys usually get tons of pussy.It depends on what the guy looks like I guess, a ugly balding man has no buisness taking this aproach to women
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OneMoreRobot3021 said:
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jcdangerously said:
The question is, how many of YOU people are / have been skeevy guys?
The worst thing is that skeevy guys leave such an indelible impression on women that their natural mindset is to assume that guys are being skeevy. And so you might just be looking at a girl, and when she makes eye contact with you her first assumption is that you're...one of them!
Oh man thats the worst! Assumtions and preconceptions are horrible attributes though.
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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: buckwheat]
#5624960 - 05/13/06 03:04 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've cavemanned a girl or two in my day. But that only works with certain kinds of women (usually the semi-dumb but fun-loving party girls). But guys shouldn't rely on just one tactic to attract all women. Every chick is different and will look for different things in a guy, so you have to be smart and adapt. You can be skeevy to some and win their heart (or more likely just get into their pants), but for others you have to be suave and intelligent.
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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: moog]
#5624973 - 05/13/06 03:10 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Exactly if both the girl and the guy want a quick fuck.What are they suppose to do talk about puppies? The problem lies in guys that cant tell what women would dig that or not.
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RandalFlagg
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Robot, why the acrimonious ejaculations about skeevy guys? Did something happen?
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!slap a hoe!
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Heh... Well, as an older guy, who has in the past, on this very board, been described as "creepy" (I don't know if that's a synonym for "skeezy" or not)... Let me put things in perspective for you a little;
As a guy gets older, he doesn't change his values as to what is attractive. A cute 20 y/o girl is just as cute to a 50 y/o guy as she is to a 17-30 y/o guy. The eyes never age. Just as you look at a 50 y/o woman and think 'ewwww... I don't think I could get it up for that'... Same thing here, bud. You'll see when you're older and still lookin' at the hotties with a passion that'll never die.
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OneMoreRobot3021


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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: TM]
#5625030 - 05/13/06 03:30 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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There's a difference between looking and appreciating, and the way you act upon that.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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OneMoreRobot3021


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Re: Skeevy Guys. What a pack of scum. [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5625032 - 05/13/06 03:30 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said: Robot, why the acrimonious ejaculations about skeevy guys? Did something happen?
THis is something always on my mind.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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