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gogrowgo123
all the same

Registered: 10/18/05
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my GF doesnt know.
#5619215 - 05/11/06 10:01 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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hey everyone
i figured id post this. ive been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. the first year i wasnt into drugs or anything, but then rediscovered pot and began growing shrooms (in my dreams). i tripped and i loved it. since then ive loved altered states of conscious. everything from booze to salvia. she has no clue about any of this.
anyone in a similar situation/want to call me an asshole?
its just she wont understand. i try to educate her about responsible use of things like mushrooms, but theyre just illegal drugs to her. bah!
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InTheFlesh714
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yeah its tough, just never force these drugs upon her. educating her sounds like something i would do but it never works. your not a bad person or an asshole haha, my advice is moderation with pot, most girls dont wanna go out with a pothead and im sure she doesnt want anything to do with it.
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Animals
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If I were you, I would fill her in on your substance use before she accidental finds out on her own. That could end up a lot worse. Also is she is important enough to you, maybe take a break from drugs for awhile.
My girlfriend usually has a policy that goes something like... If you do [X] I will [Y]. [Y] meaning, I'll leave you, be mad. Luckily I do what I want and she never actually gets mad. 
Hope everything works out for you.
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gogrowgo123
all the same

Registered: 10/18/05
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yeah bro, i only wish that she could experience just 1 minute of my best mushroom trips. it would change her.
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Quote:
gogrowgo123 said: want to call me an asshole?
Don't feel bad, it's not your fault she's close minded.
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Silversoul
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You can try to educate her, and maybe she'll open up about it, or maybe not. If not, then you're going to have a tough decision to make: Do you want to stay with a girl who doesn't accept what you do, or is it time to start looking elsewhere? I guarantee you that there are girls out there who will understand you(or at least this aspect of your life).
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Mezcal
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Re: my GF doesnt know. [Re: Silversoul]
#5619401 - 05/11/06 10:55 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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here's a method to broach the subject:
watch a movie like 'waking life' or read a book like huxley's doors of perception, together. discuss the implications of psychedelia and get her perspective on what she sees as inherent to psychedelic drug use. if she doesn't know much about them, tell her what you know and if she's open to hearing more, discuss what drug experiences you've had (key: keep things timeless, i.e. "once, i did this").
i'll tell you right now though... nothing can beat being balls deep in an LSD trip with your favorite girl hehe
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makaveli8x8
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Re: my GF doesnt know. [Re: Mezcal]
#5619449 - 05/11/06 11:09 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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here's another aproach, and i only recommend this to those who have been saverly brain washed into thinking drugs are the anti-christ.
prepare a nice meal for your young lady. I would think some porterhouse steaks with some mash potatos, and a little gravey. A very small glass of wine and candle light diner. While your eating you start talking to her about some dreams you have been having, at about this time she should be very understanding with you due to the fact that you also include with the meal saute'ed mushrooms and onions!!! hehe
gl
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Skunk420


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light up a spliff in front of her and smoke a hit and offer her one. if she doesnt like it, tell her you like it. Be yourself, only way it will work.
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RandalFlagg
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Whatever you do don't delete her from your Myspace friend's list!
(winks at skunk)
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Jfisher
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I'm in the same boat as you. I started smoking weed a couple of months after we started going out. She was ok with it, but pretty wary. I never pushed her into anything, but she eventually decided she wanted to try it. She's still not huge on it, but couldn't care less about my usage.
Anything else is a different story. She's completely freaked out about psychedelics. I ate mushrooms twice before telling her, and waited for months to reveal it. She completely lost it when I finally told her. I felt horrible, but everything she hated about them was wrapped in her own ignorance towards them. It took weeks before I could actually tell her about my experiences.
I wish she was more open to it. I hate keeping secrets from her, we get along amazingly other than that.
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