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females are as superficial as males
#5611002 - 05/09/06 11:33 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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What's up with this bullshit myth that women aren't as superficial as men? It's total garbage. If anything they are even more materialistic and superficial than guys, they just don't admit it.
I'm intelligent,generally very nice to women, and am alright looking (at least I think...don't have any wierd things growing out of my head or anything),but the "nice guy" thing has NEVER gotten me laid. The few times I have gotten some action, it was basically because I was the "dominant male" at the time.
My friend who is a good looking guy (at least that's what chicks say) treats women like total shit and he has to beat them off with a stick practically. And I'm the nice guy who actually pays attention to what they're saying and stuff, and it gets me no where.
And chicks spend like half their time/money on clothes and shit like that. They say it's because they want to make guys happy, but that's total bullshit. As long as you are dressed a couple notches above hobo status and you look good in the first place, dudes don't give a fuck that you don't have that particular skirt and pair of ear rings on.
So...fuck that myth in the arse.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611034 - 05/09/06 11:41 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Superficial implies their knowledge. Maybe they don't understand the behaviour that you label as shallow.
Most of how people see you, especially women, is your body language. The next most important thing is how your voice sounds. And the least important thing is the words.
Think.. emotions are not necessarily logical. If a guy can make a girl tick, then he will get alot of girls.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611044 - 05/09/06 11:43 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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A bitch is just a whore, and if shes not a whore shes a slut. And if shes not a slut?? then shes a bitch!! A BITCH I TELL YOU!!! 
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Ginseng1]
#5611060 - 05/09/06 11:48 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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monamine said: What's up with this bullshit myth that women aren't as superficial as men? It's total garbage. If anything they are even more materialistic and superficial than guys, they just don't admit it.
I'm intelligent,generally very nice to women, and am alright looking (at least I think...don't have any wierd things growing out of my head or anything),but the "nice guy" thing has NEVER gotten me laid. The few times I have gotten some action, it was basically because I was the "dominant male" at the time.
My friend who is a good looking guy (at least that's what chicks say) treats women like total shit and he has to beat them off with a stick practically. And I'm the nice guy who actually pays attention to what they're saying and stuff, and it gets me no where.
And chicks spend like half their time/money on clothes and shit like that. They say it's because they want to make guys happy, but that's total bullshit. As long as you are dressed a couple notches above hobo status and you look good in the first place, dudes don't give a fuck that you don't have that particular skirt and pair of ear rings on.
So...fuck that myth in the arse.
Couldnt agree with you more. 
Its funny because ive had the same experiences when I act like a badass fuckface, confident asshole, the girls love it.
But whenever I get into a nice conversation about life and whatnot, getting beneath this whole "i have a dick, you have a pussy" ego bullshit, I find either the girl is a total deuce, or simply not bright enough to understand what I just said, so they change the subject or something. Or if she actualy carried the convo with me, it turns out she already has a frieken boyfriend.
Its true that the materialistic girls are just as, if not more, materialistic than guys.
But the chillin girls are just as chillin as the chillin guys, if not more. 
They have been nearly impossible for me to get my claws on though...
Every time I do I blow it because in the end, because all I really wanted in the first place was to get laid , and so I distance myself, for I am a complete dumbass.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611092 - 05/09/06 11:56 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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that is because a lot of women like that bad boy shit. and besides, we may be materialistic, but majority of men can only think with their dicks, no matter how nice.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Chairman Meow]
#5611094 - 05/09/06 11:57 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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and personally i think the only guy who can call women a trick or a hoe is dre. anyone else probably can't get laid to begin with.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Ginseng1]
#5611096 - 05/09/06 11:57 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Preach on brother. I can't stand dumb ass whores. There must be some cool,smart chicks out there, I just can't seem to find them.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611100 - 05/09/06 11:57 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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females are as superficial as males
le durrrrrrrrr
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Chairman Meow]
#5611107 - 05/10/06 12:00 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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sadsappysucker said: that is because a lot of women like that bad boy shit.
I'm really beginning to think most women are like that. I'm going to start opening conversations with a pimp slap from now on. Or maybe the "I've been in jail 38 times" and "sell coke to little kids".
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Silversoul]
#5611112 - 05/10/06 12:02 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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females are as superficial as males
le durrrrrrrrr
So it's not just me being paranoid? *lowers Thorazine dose*
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611124 - 05/10/06 12:06 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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monamine said:
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sadsappysucker said: that is because a lot of women like that bad boy shit.
I'm really beginning to think most women are like that. I'm going to start opening conversations with a pimp slap from now on. Or maybe the "I've been in jail 38 times" and "sell coke to little kids".
I believe they like the idea of a guy having a seriously intense life, and they want to be a part of it.... like it was a movie or something.
Some dudes like to proove how bad they are. Some girls like to show off that they can handle a badass... or something to that extent.
Its a game of egos and shit.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611131 - 05/10/06 12:08 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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believe you me, there are some women out there who don't like that. i for one. i'd rather have a stimulating conversation than talk about how many po-pos you've killed and buried. anyway, all you have to do is be patient and just date around.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Chairman Meow]
#5611134 - 05/10/06 12:10 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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sadsappysucker said: believe you me, there are some women out there who don't like that. i for one. i'd rather have a stimulating conversation but then fuck the guy who talks about how many po-pos hes killed and buried. anyway, all you have to do is be patient and just date around.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: TheCow]
#5611138 - 05/10/06 12:12 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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i do not sleep around. thanks. and you guys wonder why you can't get chicks.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Chairman Meow]
#5611167 - 05/10/06 12:19 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Eh it was a joke. But thats probably true, the only girls I date are the really insane ones. Not the normal garden variety insane girl ones. I guess that means im probably also really insane.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: TheCow]
#5611170 - 05/10/06 12:20 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Actually back in highschool I fucked one of the hottest girls in school because she thought I was weird. Thats really my only claim to faim, I bet when Im 40 Ill tell myfriends about how I had sex with the hot chick in school. Like Al Bundy's football career.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Ginseng1]
#5611174 - 05/10/06 12:21 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ginseng1 said: But whenever I get into a nice conversation about life and whatnot,
I'm sorry to break this to you but pouring out your soul and giving a woman your life story as soon as you meet her is never going to get you anywhere. That goes for both men and women. It makes you sound extremely needy and pathetic. Best advice for you is to relax and go with the flow. Don't try to force some shit that's not there.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611175 - 05/10/06 12:22 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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being a girl I know we say we want the nice guy but when it comes down to it we really want the bad boy that acts like a hard ass becuase its a challenge girls love that ... nice guys are too easy to get and there is no adventure in getting someone you already know you ca n have..
Now I am not talking about all females.. just like 90% of them
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: TheCow]
#5611181 - 05/10/06 12:23 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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sorry i snapped. i'm a bit tired.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611197 - 05/10/06 12:27 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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The nice guy thing totally works for me. I'm polite to a fault, nice, and quiet, but I still get hit on all the time.
I think its just that you just can't be too nice, or show that you're really into them, because then they know that they can have you whenever they want, and thats just not a turn on. The thrill of the hunt and the excitement that comes from the "kill" is much more alluring than just being able to have someone at the drop of a hat.
The guys that are dicks but still get girls do so because they are assertive and tend to be very confident, at least on the ouside, and these qualities also happen to be attractive features.
Not to say that physical attractiveness doesn't play a part, but it only really matters for first impressions, its how you act after you first meet someone that will hook them, so to speak.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#5611319 - 05/10/06 01:13 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ginseng1 said: But whenever I get into a nice conversation about life and whatnot,
I'm sorry to break this to you but pouring out your soul and giving a woman your life story as soon as you meet her is never going to get you anywhere. That goes for both men and women. It makes you sound extremely needy and pathetic. Best advice for you is to relax and go with the flow. Don't try to force some shit that's not there.

What are you talking about?
You cant get into interesting philosophical conversations with women now?
I am talking about social problems, fascinating things that exist on this earth, interesting shit about culture and people, or what psychedelics are about, etc...
pouring out my soul? where the hell did you get this from. When did I ever say that I start talking about myself, as If I was searching some sort of comfort from this bitch?
I am talking about not being able to get into a conversation that doesnt has anything to do with what celebrity did this or that. I am a man with a brain, and I use it, and I expect to get brains in return (pun intended).
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Ginseng1]
#5611327 - 05/10/06 01:16 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ginseng1 said: But whenever I get into a nice conversation about life and whatnot,
I'm sorry to break this to you but pouring out your soul and giving a woman your life story as soon as you meet her is never going to get you anywhere. That goes for both men and women. It makes you sound extremely needy and pathetic. Best advice for you is to relax and go with the flow. Don't try to force some shit that's not there.

What are you talking about?
You cant get into interesting philosophical conversations with women now?
I am talking about social problems, fascinating things that exist on this earth, interesting shit about culture and people, or what psychedelics are about, etc...
pouring out my soul? where the hell did you get this from. When did I ever say that I start talking about myself, as If I was searching some sort of comfort from this bitch?
I am talking about not being able to get into a conversation that doesnt has anything to do with what celebrity did this or that. I am a man with a brain, and I use it, and I expect to get brains in return (pun intended).
Made some assumptions that are obviously not true.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#5611339 - 05/10/06 01:24 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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5 shrooms for you!
BTW your avatar has scarred me and ive been having nightmares since...
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Ginseng1]
#5611416 - 05/10/06 02:01 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ginseng1 said: and I expect to get brains in return
you, along with the rest of us bachelors, are in search of what we like to call, the holy grail.
others call it homosexuality.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: eligal]
#5611419 - 05/10/06 02:05 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611562 - 05/10/06 04:29 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't think guys that are successful with women can all be easily labeled "assholes that treat women like shit". A lot are but not all. It's a lot more varied and complicated than that.
The way I see it, some guys have "game" and some guys don't. Guys who have game have to beat the women off with a stick. Guys who don't have game end up masturbating a lot. I've seen nice guys who had game and I've seen assholes who had game. I've seen handsome guys who had game and I've seen repulsive guys who had game. I've seen boisterous guys who had game and I've seen shy guys who had game. "Game" is hard to quantify and nail down but it is easy to spot. Some guys just have it. 
I should note that I have about as much game as a parapalegic basketball player.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5611652 - 05/10/06 06:04 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Did you have that vasectomy or decided things were ok as they are?
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Asante]
#5611700 - 05/10/06 07:01 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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The women that arn't like that are not really out there, not round pubs and clubs anyway because there not interested in the whole bullshit of the pulling game. This is why their so elusive, and to me its almost like luck if you happen to connect with one of them !
I hate the pulling 'game'. I think its so fake. Men acting in a certain way so women like them, women only looking for me that act this certain way. wft happened to just being yourself, at least if you find someone being yourself theres a good chance your going to be happy.
Im a nice guy with a rough edge, i used to have alot of girls then i saw the game for what it was and lost alot of faith in it.
I don't want a girl who's like that so i don't need to play that game.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5611944 - 05/10/06 09:10 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Do you actually bother to approach women? Or do you just stare at them from across the room and wish they would talk to you?
Make some kind of EFFORT.
I should also add that not ALL women are superficial, just like not all men are superficial. Generalizing never helped anyone get laid.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5612137 - 05/10/06 10:31 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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females are superficial, but they tend to have different and more diverse standards than men.
for instance, some women find fat bald men attractive.
the standards of male attractiveness are less universal than the standards of female attractiveness.
but yeah, I think the real truth is that PEOPLE are superficial.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: DoctorJ]
#5612149 - 05/10/06 10:36 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: adrug]
#5612164 - 05/10/06 10:42 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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adrug said: Do you actually bother to approach women? Or do you just stare at them from across the room and wish they would talk to you?
Make some kind of EFFORT.
I think unless you approach men yourself you have no business telling someone to approach someone. Now i don't know if you do, I'm just saying because women usually dont.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Mike_yy]
#5612191 - 05/10/06 10:55 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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mikeyyork said: The women that arn't like that are not really out there, not round pubs and clubs anyway because there not interested in the whole bullshit of the pulling game.
Exactly.
If you're not finding what you want, LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE. And can you really expect to have a deep conversation about things with someone you just met a minute ago?
And I bet that the OP only went up to the girls that looked like they were going to say some dumbshit, in the hopes that they'd be cool. Sometimes you have to change what you're attracted to. Yes, it CAN be done.
That girl sitting in the corner kinda quiet, not screeching at the top of her lungs about Britney's Spears new baby, the one that doesn't have 10 pounds of makeup caked onto her face, the one that no guy is drooling over........go talk to her.... you might be surprised...
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: Asante]
#5612700 - 05/10/06 01:19 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Wiccan_Seeker said: Did you have that vasectomy or decided things were ok as they are?
I decided against getting it done now. I might get it done in the future however. My hand and I have had a few pregnancy scares recently though.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5612822 - 05/10/06 01:51 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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yea well I guess I used to try and be 'badass' and that seemed to attract alot of girls to me. Then I really mellowed out and I guess I got 'further out there' and I always bring shit up about space, time, world issues, natural wonders, science/math etc. but that just gets me weird looks and ends the conversation. I finally realized how stupid the hwole 'badass' ego is so i stopped it but that is the only thing that works(for me at least). I need to look at some new places now i guess.
People find it very hard to believe that someone can smoke trip drink and be very intelligent so they assume what I am saying is some made up bullshit even though a lot of the times it is proven. I guess the 'stoner/hippie' label really brings me down in other peoples eyes that is. Out of about 1000 people in my class I am in the top 100 and in a few honors classes such as calculus and honors physics. Time will tell though.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: buckwheat]
#5612979 - 05/10/06 02:21 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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adrug said: Do you actually bother to approach women? Or do you just stare at them from across the room and wish they would talk to you?
Make some kind of EFFORT.
I think unless you approach men yourself you have no business telling someone to approach someone. Now i don't know if you do, I'm just saying because women usually dont.
I approach men if I'm interested. I'm not scared of a little rejection. However, that is beside the point. We're not talking about everyone or me, we're talking about this one guy here who posted this thread. If he really wants to meet someone, he's going to have to make some kind of effort to talk to people instead of just looking along from the sidelines. If he doesn't, then he either has to wait until the perfect woman just falls into his lap (which of course will never happen), or just go lonely.
Now, I'm not saying that he doesn't approach women or try; I wouldn't know if he did. But from my experience, guys who frequent the internet are not exactly social butterflies, so I'm taking a gamble on being right.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5613039 - 05/10/06 02:33 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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The problem isn't in the claims of superficiality, it's in the GENERALIZATION being made by saying "women are" or "men are" anything. That's fucking ridiculous.
Men and women both come in a variety of personality types, which includes a range from "shallow to deep," so to speak, on both sides of the fence.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: JacquesCousteau]
#5613122 - 05/10/06 02:47 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hallelujah, Jacques! SOMEONE GETS IT!
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: adrug]
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adrug said: Do you actually bother to approach women? Or do you just stare at them from across the room and wish they would talk to you?
Make some kind of EFFORT.
I think unless you approach men yourself you have no business telling someone to approach someone. Now i don't know if you do, I'm just saying because women usually dont.
I approach men if I'm interested. I'm not scared of a little rejection. However, that is beside the point. We're not talking about everyone or me, we're talking about this one guy here who posted this thread. If he really wants to meet someone, he's going to have to make some kind of effort to talk to people instead of just looking along from the sidelines. If he doesn't, then he either has to wait until the perfect woman just falls into his lap (which of course will never happen), or just go lonely.
Now, I'm not saying that he doesn't approach women or try; I wouldn't know if he did. But from my experience, guys who frequent the internet are not exactly social butterflies, so I'm taking a gamble on being right.
I agree you're probably right about a lot of internet people, and i applaud you also for aproaching first. Something most women need to do. not that i have shortfalls with the the kind that do.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5613189 - 05/10/06 03:02 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Of course females are as superficial as males; that's why I hate going to bars, etc. Bars and clubs are where superficial guys meet superficial girls. Due to the noisy atmosphere of these establishments, all one can talk about is superficial shit.
I have had luck by being a little creative. Find an interest club of some sort to join, like a group of people that, for whatever reason, meet regularly and discuss things. Like political groups. Situations in which I can speak extemporaneously are where I shine. Also, any situation that involves me playing music is good. But those are things I'm good at.
You have to be good at something. What makes you interesting? You have to position youself in such a way as to show off your "skills" in front of single females. This takes patience, and patience can be a bitch.
Women aren't attracted to assholes so much as they are attracted to confidence. Some guys are assholes because being an asshole is what makes them confident; they are not good at anything else. I'm not good at being an asshole. I feel like I'm being fake. But I've found that if you aren't good at one thing it's likely you're good at something else. Finding a forum in which you can rock the house is really what it's all about. Female attention is just a natural byproduct of it.
I have no right in the world to be preachy on this subject; basically this post sums up what I constantly tell myself. In reality, I have yet to find my niche.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: adrug]
#5613856 - 05/10/06 05:35 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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adrug said: Do you actually bother to approach women? Or do you just stare at them from across the room and wish they would talk to you?
Make some kind of EFFORT.
I should also add that not ALL women are superficial, just like not all men are superficial. Generalizing never helped anyone get laid.
That may be part of the problem,as I'm kinda shy,but Jesus Christ do I have to do all the damn work? They can't intiate the conversation sometimes?
Yeah I know I'm over generalizing here (please don't give me that lecture), but it seems like most of the girls I've seen the last few years are totally "let's talk about celebrities" and "hey I'm gonna talk shit about this person behind their back because I'm too much of a coward to do it in person (females,or anybody else for that matter please stop that crap).
I'm gonna go jerk off now or something.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5613992 - 05/10/06 06:11 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5614042 - 05/10/06 06:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5614054 - 05/10/06 06:22 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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that image rocks!
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: DoctorJ]
#5614063 - 05/10/06 06:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah, I'm so much of a geek my first thought was "pft...nice case noob".
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5614069 - 05/10/06 06:24 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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that desk he's at is pretty haggard too. My shit is way better than that. yeah.
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: DoctorJ]
#5615092 - 05/10/06 09:55 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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HIs printer is like 8 years old....gawd!!!
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