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quillini
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5613189 - 05/10/06 03:02 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Of course females are as superficial as males; that's why I hate going to bars, etc. Bars and clubs are where superficial guys meet superficial girls. Due to the noisy atmosphere of these establishments, all one can talk about is superficial shit.
I have had luck by being a little creative. Find an interest club of some sort to join, like a group of people that, for whatever reason, meet regularly and discuss things. Like political groups. Situations in which I can speak extemporaneously are where I shine. Also, any situation that involves me playing music is good. But those are things I'm good at.
You have to be good at something. What makes you interesting? You have to position youself in such a way as to show off your "skills" in front of single females. This takes patience, and patience can be a bitch.
Women aren't attracted to assholes so much as they are attracted to confidence. Some guys are assholes because being an asshole is what makes them confident; they are not good at anything else. I'm not good at being an asshole. I feel like I'm being fake. But I've found that if you aren't good at one thing it's likely you're good at something else. Finding a forum in which you can rock the house is really what it's all about. Female attention is just a natural byproduct of it.
I have no right in the world to be preachy on this subject; basically this post sums up what I constantly tell myself. In reality, I have yet to find my niche.
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monamine
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: adrug]
#5613856 - 05/10/06 05:35 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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adrug said: Do you actually bother to approach women? Or do you just stare at them from across the room and wish they would talk to you?
Make some kind of EFFORT.
I should also add that not ALL women are superficial, just like not all men are superficial. Generalizing never helped anyone get laid.
That may be part of the problem,as I'm kinda shy,but Jesus Christ do I have to do all the damn work? They can't intiate the conversation sometimes?
Yeah I know I'm over generalizing here (please don't give me that lecture), but it seems like most of the girls I've seen the last few years are totally "let's talk about celebrities" and "hey I'm gonna talk shit about this person behind their back because I'm too much of a coward to do it in person (females,or anybody else for that matter please stop that crap).
I'm gonna go jerk off now or something.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5613992 - 05/10/06 06:11 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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monamine
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5614042 - 05/10/06 06:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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DoctorJ


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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5614054 - 05/10/06 06:22 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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that image rocks!
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monamine
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: DoctorJ]
#5614063 - 05/10/06 06:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah, I'm so much of a geek my first thought was "pft...nice case noob".
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DoctorJ


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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: monamine]
#5614069 - 05/10/06 06:24 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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that desk he's at is pretty haggard too. My shit is way better than that. yeah.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: females are as superficial as males [Re: DoctorJ]
#5615092 - 05/10/06 09:55 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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HIs printer is like 8 years old....gawd!!!
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