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Sporetacus
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Staring, sexuality and aggression
#5609070 - 05/09/06 02:44 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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A cute young thing was working out in the all-male section of my health club. Perfect make-up, hair and outfit and the only female near-by, she got all the male attention that she wanted until she turned and barked at one guy, 'DO YOU HAFTA STARE?!'
I thought to myself, 'Yes, we do. It is hard-wired as you already know. Do you hafta parade? Of course!'
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Diploid
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5609160 - 05/09/06 03:08 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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This reminds me of the woman who is raped while walking through the 'bad' part of town while dressed provocatively. It's been the case where she's accused of deserving the rape.
Well of course she didn't deserve to be raped. She has the right to dress any way she wants, but duh, if I walk in the same part of town wearing a $2000 suit, gold chains, and a Rolex,I'm gonna get mugged and not deserve it either.
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Veritas

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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5609169 - 05/09/06 03:10 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I like staring AND parading. (But not in the bad part of town.)
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Sporetacus
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Diploid]
#5609173 - 05/09/06 03:11 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sort of like a ban that one saw coming even though it was undeserved?
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OldWoodSpecter
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5609181 - 05/09/06 03:14 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sporetacus said: A cute young thing was working out in the all-male section of my health club. Perfect make-up, hair and outfit and the only female near-by, she got all the male attention that she wanted until she turned and barked at one guy, 'DO YOU HAFTA STARE?!'
I thought to myself, 'Yes, we do. It is hard-wired as you already know. Do you hafta parade? Of course!'
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that reminds me of the time I...wait, no it doesn't, I'm ugly, nobody stares at me
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5609258 - 05/09/06 03:40 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sporetacus said: Sort of like a ban that one saw coming even though it was undeserved?
Now who on earth could this be referring to?
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Silversoul]
#5609297 - 05/09/06 03:50 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'd stare at her ass and tits, and if she confronted me, i'll most like still peak at her bod.
Nice sweaty women.
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Icelander
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5609324 - 05/09/06 03:55 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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lovely sporetacus.
Just because you're wired to stare doesn't mean you have to. If you become aware of your programs then you have a choice to go with them or not.
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Edited by Icelander (05/09/06 03:55 PM)
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Moonshoe
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Icelander]
#5609349 - 05/09/06 03:59 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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^ truth
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Moonshoe]
#5609386 - 05/09/06 04:10 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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spore = swami
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5609502 - 05/09/06 04:56 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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fresh, are you not ? 
So, what is the solution of this misery ? Everyone gets self aware and respectfully enjoys his/her natural wireing instead of refusal ? That would surely be fun and just
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MushmanTheManic
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: BlueCoyote]
#5609535 - 05/09/06 05:05 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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BlueCoyote said: Everyone gets self aware and respectfully enjoys his/her natural wireing instead of refusal ?
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fireworks_god
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: fresh313]
#5609598 - 05/09/06 05:27 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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fresh313 said: spore = swami
Learn some respect, you fool. 
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: fireworks_god]
#5609728 - 05/09/06 06:14 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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suck my dick, beyaaaatcchhh
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fireworks_god
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: fresh313]
#5609734 - 05/09/06 06:16 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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As soon as your mom finishes up....

 Peace.
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fresh313
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: fireworks_god]
#5609744 - 05/09/06 06:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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why wait , start teabaggin
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MushmanTheManic
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: Sporetacus]
#5612856 - 05/10/06 01:59 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Edited by MushmanTheManic (05/10/06 02:00 PM)
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leery11
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you have to realize that when you engage in staring, you qualify women as objects to please you for a few fleeting moments, which are then to be disposed of.
you could set the example by being mature and maybe some of the other guys wouldn't feel a need to be stuck in the "compelled to stare" collective conscoiusness.
this nation is sexually depraved because of our puritan values mixed with sexual exploitation through the media. we are constantly urged to objectify women and to be complete morons in the process. There are many men who don't want to take part in it, and when you stare, even if you think it's just YOU that are doing it, you are playing a part in keeping things the way that they honestly shouldn't be.
That woman had more to offer than her body, which she was not going to give to anyone in the first place. She has a mind, a soul, emotions, thoughts, opinions. Things that fulfill rather than deplete and drain.
sex is not about sex. sex is about union of two people who are already united on all other levels, emotional, psychological, mental, conversational.
the way we view sex, is the way animals view sex, which is not productive to being a human and leads to overpopulation and an extreme over-abundance of sexual diseases. 1/4 of college kids have herpes after all......
Don't ogle..... at the same time, the sex drive can be powerful...... just keep in mind what you are doing and indicating when you stare at body parts. If you have to stare stare into her eyes and get to know the real her, not some flabby pieces of body that will be un-beautiful in a few years.
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: leery11]
#5638089 - 05/16/06 03:43 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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leery11 said: you have to realize that when you engage in staring, you qualify women as objects to please you for a few fleeting moments, which are then to be disposed of.
Please demonstrate the difference between the act that is being discussed and the act of walking through an art museum, stopping and gazing at all of the pieces, appreciating the beauty for as long as you can?
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you could set the example by being mature and maybe some of the other guys wouldn't feel a need to be stuck in the "compelled to stare" collective conscoiusness.
Being mature equates into making a choice to not look at someone? 
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we are constantly urged to objectify women and to be complete morons in the process.
Yes, everywhere I go, someone is shoving me, screaming into my ear "Do it! Stare at those thighs!".
I would highly doubt that this "constant urge" that suspossedly exists isn't the result of the natural, constant urge inside of us, though, right?
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There are many men who don't want to take part in it
The gay ones? 
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and when you stare, even if you think it's just YOU that are doing it, you are playing a part in keeping things the way that they honestly shouldn't be.
Honestly, it is what it is.
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That woman had more to offer than her body, which she was not going to give to anyone in the first place. She has a mind, a soul, emotions, thoughts, opinions. Things that fulfill rather than deplete and drain.
She also offers the oppurtunity to gaze at her body. This is not a negative thing.
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sex is not about sex. sex is about union of two people who are already united on all other levels, emotional, psychological, mental, conversational.
Sex is about what the people involved with it want it to be. Your personal preference does not negate others' personal preference, nor should it, and your personal preference is not the true interpretation of sex. Sorry. 
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the way we view sex, is the way animals view sex, which is not productive to being a human and leads to overpopulation and an extreme over-abundance of sexual diseases. 1/4 of college kids have herpes after all......
Not productive to being a human? The fact that, as human beings, we are able to make conscious choices (even if they are influenced by subconscious desires ) implies that it is up to us and our choices what productive means. Sex, and certain views of sex, do not, in themselves, lead to overpopulation and sexual diseases. Being a fucking moron and not using a condom seems to be the most prevalent cause of that. 
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Don't ogle.....
You haven't exactly proposed effective moral reasoning for us to not do so.
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If you have to stare stare into her eyes and get to know the real her, not some flabby pieces of body that will be un-beautiful in a few years.
All the more reason to stare right now. Obviously, women are living, multi-dimensional beings, and yet, one of those dimensions is a physical body. You assert that we should not objectify women, and yet, there they are, objects, just as we are. We are all more than that, but that is certainly no reason to not enjoy that level on that level.
 Peace.
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Re: Staring, sexuality and aggression [Re: fireworks_god]
#5640041 - 05/16/06 10:49 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I like to stare. Makes me feel potent.
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