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 Banez
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 Re: Relationship shit  [Re: Banez]
#5602101 - 05/07/06 06:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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if they made like a virtual pussy, that was close to realistic,.. women would be fucked.. i mean.. then we could all just live with our buddies and not have to worry about all that "emotional" shit.. ahh that would be the day
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Gumby
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Banez]
#5602110 - 05/07/06 06:42 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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A fake pussy doesn't moan and squirm and cling to your neck and whatnot. Nor do they have tits. Nothing would ever beat being with a real woman.
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Banez
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5602112 - 05/07/06 06:43 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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::sighs:: ur right.. but god damn.. that would be the day.
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5602294 - 05/07/06 07:33 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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The correct choice is DO NOT CALL HER! Turn off your phone, go do something to distract yourself, and forget talking to her today. Give yourself some peace, think about what you want.
I believe your best bet is to break things off before she cheats on you, because that's going to suck x10. You're not in the shit yet, and you don't want to be in the shit, although sooner or later you'll probably have to be in order to learn your lesson.
End things on good terms, maintain respect for yourself, and maintain a high opinion of her.
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
Don't call her. Let things fester and hopefully the whole situation will explode into an emotional mess
That kind of made me sick
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5602401 - 05/07/06 08:04 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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From everything you are saying it sounds as if your relationship is dead. It is more of a habit or a chore than it is a fulfilling endeavor.
I am not going to say it is a lost cause...but I have never seen relationships come back from the stuff that you are saying is going on.  I think it's time to move on man.
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5602414 - 05/07/06 08:08 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Definately don't call. That will put you in the weaker position and it will be downhill from there. Show some strength now.
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Definately don't call. That will put you in the weaker position and it will be downhill from there. Show some strength now.
I've been in similar situations. It becomes a battle of wills. Who will break down and make the first call? It is childish, but it is necessary sometimes. You have to prove you have balls.
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5602433 - 05/07/06 08:13 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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And if she comes over, immediately start hammering like you have been working on the house the whole time. 
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if i were you, EVENTUALLY call her and talk to her if she doesnt call you, but not within 3 or 4 days. i mean you do not want this relationship turning horrible, at least be friends with her, it doesnt have to be you guys just completely dont talk any more and hate eachother u know? u should try the old friends with benefits thing
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Microcosmatrix
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She'll call, beecause if he don't she'll call because she's pissed off. But that still gives him the higher perch. He should then just say he's been buzy as fuck working and didn't even realize the 2 weeks were up, lol
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5602450 - 05/07/06 08:18 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Does she have a sister you could have sex with?
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Microcosmatrix
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That would put him out with a bang fer shure. 
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Quote:
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Does she have a sister you could have sex with?
If I was a chick, that might be a possiblity... get my drift 
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5615621 - 05/10/06 11:40 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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So last night I sent her a text asking if she was done with her exams. Never got a response. 
Called her today, no answer. Left a message just checking if she was doing alright. Never got a response from that either. I'm 98% sure this relationship is over. 
Fuck it all, like I said I don't mind either way. Sucks that it is over, but I will move on. Surprisingly, this doesn't hurt at all. Guess that's just more of a sign that things are over. Oh well. Like I said, it was a learning experience.
Only thing I'm worried about is loosing her as a friend. She is BY FAR my best friend ever. I don't know how to approach that. Maybe not talking to her for a few weeks/months will make things easier. 
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Banez]
#5615689 - 05/10/06 11:56 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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yeah my last relationship (the chick was 28 with 2 kids so it was akward ne wayz) ended with me saying "how bout we just be friends".. and she said "friends with benefits>?".. that shit made my day and of course i accepted
Fellow pimp right here!
28 aint shit though. Try 36. I was 20 at the time. Boom shakalaka.
And Gumby, she tested you and you lost, you cracked and contacted her...it's over. Move on.
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36? Try 82! Nothing beats the sure, steady gums of DECADES of experience.
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Gumby
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Re: Relationship shit [Re: Gumby]
#5621481 - 05/12/06 02:26 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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If any of you were wondering the outcome of this... We're done. Relationship is no more as of today, I broke it off with her but she said she was going to do the same thing.
I'm going out drinking tonight to celebrate  Maybe even hook up with someone
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