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Gillette
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Some things never change
#5591230 - 05/04/06 07:33 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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So one of my bestfriends from highschool came by the bar I work in last night, we're cool, or I suppose I had assumed we were.
So she happens to have this picture and info of a house shes buying with her boyfriend, huge beautiful house, starts going into detail about how happy she is, how this is just where she expected to be in her life and I'm happy for her, cuz you know, thats cool.
And then she tells me about this other friend we had Amy, thats getting married, now this girl was the most fucked up, bitchiest, fat chick I have ever known, but we were friends so whatever. But still I'm a little taken a back that shes actually getting married, but good for her.
So then my friend is like "So whats knew with you?"
And I'm feeling kinda shitty now, cuz well I'm not buying a house or getting married or doing anything special at all and I hear myself saying, "well I broke up with my boyfriend, I'm working full time at the bar, and basically getting drunk every night"
And she just looks at me all smug like and says "somethings never change" and then back peddles a bit and says "but you know thats good" all sweet like.
I didn't know if I should punch her or cry.
I feel like a total loser.
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HeavyToilet
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591251 - 05/04/06 07:36 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Don't worry.
You'll be the one laughing when they have to file for bankruptcy and file for divorce.
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KingOftheThing
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591260 - 05/04/06 07:38 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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it could be worse...i mean you could be a car salesman
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mikeownow
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Re: Some things never change [Re: HeavyToilet]
#5591275 - 05/04/06 07:40 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
HeavyToilet said: Don't worry.
You'll be the one laughing when they have to file for bankruptcy and file for divorce.
Indeed and there is absolutely nothing to feel bad about. Be for that you were just as happy as them until they poo pooed on you so just forget about it. Don't worry be happy. I just decided to quite my education and start "living life" instead of droning my self around in this big line of people from one class to another learning about Indian graves getting dug up and how that wasn't legal and that we all used to be lactose intolerant. Boring I wanna live in the present not the past.
So rock that bar up and drink that shit down.
Cheerers
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mikeownow
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KingOftheThing said: it could be worse...i mean you could be a car salesman
I was concidering that because I subliminaly am good at conning people. But I am not clean cut but I could do that maybe.
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591288 - 05/04/06 07:42 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I love how people judge their so called sucess on a marriage(that probably will fail) and a house.
Don't worry. Like buddy said above, odds are very good the marriage won't last long and either will the house.
I see all my friends getting houses and ready to get married soon...and here I am, on the verge of bankruptcy, tons of debt and I'm stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in. All the while, my friends are talking about how happy they are. But they don't try to be an asshole about it by being rude.
When she said, "some things never change' you should of been like, "you know, your right. Your still the snobby stuck up bitch you always have been"
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591300 - 05/04/06 07:43 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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As long as you're enjoying life don't let others comments bother you. If you're not enjoying life you can always change that. After all it's your life.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591310 - 05/04/06 07:45 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Gillette said: SSo she happens to have this picture and info of a house shes buying with her boyfriend, huge beautiful house, starts going into detail about how happy she is, how this is just where she expected to be in her life
And then she tells me about this other friend we had Amy, thats getting married, now this girl was the most fucked up, bitchiest, fat chick I have ever known, but we were friends so whatever. But still I'm a little taken a back that shes actually getting married, but good for her.
So then my friend is like "So whats knew with you?"
I hear myself saying, "well I broke up with my boyfriend, I'm working full time at the bar, and basically getting drunk every night"
I feel like a total loser.
Just wait three years. Those happy young couples will probably be at each other's throats in divorce court.
Let these people get burdened with all of this responsibility. There's nothing wrong with having little responsibility and not being attached. It can be a lot of fun actually.
You will graduate soon and you'll get a decent job. You are on your way and you're having fun at the moment. You have nothing to be ashamed about.
If it makes you feel any better I just got dumped a few days ago. I'm way more loser-ish than you. 
Keep your head up.
Edited by RandalFlagg (05/04/06 07:54 PM)
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mikeownow
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Re: Some things never change [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5591315 - 05/04/06 07:46 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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LOSERS UNITE!
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Re: Some things never change [Re: mikeownow]
#5591358 - 05/04/06 07:52 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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you have nothing to feel bad about. does a house and a relationship make you a decent person?
fuck no.
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591367 - 05/04/06 07:53 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Athena, sweetie, you have nothing to be ashamed of or upseet about. Your ex-highschool friend is a jerk for saying that. Let her take her upitty-nosed self and drop into whatever she likes for a drab, self-centered, holier-than-thou bitch that she is.
Keep on keeping on and know that you'll be a happy person because you're a quality person.
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TheDude
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591415 - 05/04/06 08:00 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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i bet she doesn't have a gaggle of loyal internet perverts who will cater to your every whim and whine.
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591420 - 05/04/06 08:01 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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You have no one but yourself to blame. If you feel like a loser, change yourself so you're not blaming yourself for being one.
As for the girl...how do you know she's REALLY happy? Could be some bullshit.
Don't judge your happiness based on other's supposed happiness. Do whatever makes you feel happy and FUCK everybody else.
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mikeownow
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Re: Some things never change [Re: TheDude]
#5591425 - 05/04/06 08:02 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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TheDude said: i bet she doesn't have a gaggle of loyal internet perverts who will cater to your every whim and whine.
Yes we are all internet pervs.
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TheDude
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Re: Some things never change [Re: mikeownow]
#5591458 - 05/04/06 08:07 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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gag·gle n.
1. A flock of geese. See Synonyms at flock1. 2. A cluster or group:
does not mean all, you tard
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Some things never change [Re: TheDude]
#5591462 - 05/04/06 08:08 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
TheDude said: i bet she doesn't have a gaggle of loyal internet perverts who will cater to your every whim and whine.
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mikeownow
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Re: Some things never change [Re: TheDude]
#5591495 - 05/04/06 08:13 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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TheDude said: gag·gle n.
1. A flock of geese. See Synonyms at flock1. 2. A cluster or group:
does not mean all, you tard
The people viewing this are a cluster?
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Re: Some things never change [Re: mikeownow]
#5591502 - 05/04/06 08:15 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Let it go!!!
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TheDude
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Re: Some things never change [Re: mikeownow]
#5591508 - 05/04/06 08:17 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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notice how it says "or group"? now go back to my original sentence and replace "gaggle" with "group" unless that will fry your feeble little monkey brain.
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Re: Some things never change [Re: Gillette]
#5591510 - 05/04/06 08:17 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Buying things to show yourself and others a fasle sense of accomplishment is not what defines a loser from a winner.
Some things never change,and that would be the cost of happiness.0$
A marrage to someone you dont love or a house you cannot afford are not going to make you any less of a loser.
You are only a loser if you view yourself that way.Who gives a fuck if other people think your a loser.I assume people think that about me anyway.
As long as you remember that you are happy.You may not be happy art this exact moment.But you were happy in this same situation you are in now and you will become happy again.
Dont let stupid obnoxtious decisions like marage or a house define your happiness,because all they define for someone like your friend is how they arent happy with their life and they are making drastic irrational decisions to prove to themselves that they are happy.
blah blah blah blah blah....smile
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