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I_was_the_walrus
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Well heres my situation..
#5588601 - 05/04/06 12:23 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ive known this girl for years and have always had the hugest crush on her. Ive gotten into drunken conversations with her about this and she says the same thing. Well we've started hanging out alot lately. Ive pretty much lived at her house for the past week. She even fed me a bunch of MDMA just to give me an experience. She says she loves my company and I love it...we've had the greatest times. In one day we'll go through about 20 texts and work talking and so forth. Im in love with her...always have been, and I cant stand the feeling. I know its gonna end bad like these things always do..
Well today Ive talked/texted her maybe twice? And when we talk its nothing good or serious...just answers or one liners. Looks like Im home for the night and feeling quite down. God I miss her..and I feel its coming to an abrupt stop. I hate to face it but in the back of my mind I know it.
So heres the question...is this common for girls to do? "Alone time" kind of a situation? Man I hate this feeling... Common? What? WHAAAAATTTTT? WHAT THE FUCK?
Input please..
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stefan
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it's just 1 day... maybe she's buisy etc or just not in a good mood, who knows. Just wait a little and see what happens before making conclusions about it. maybe it's not as bad as you think
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well you were just at her house for a week...
give the girl some space.
better yet, dont text her. girls HATE when their dudes dont check in. =] she'll come running back when her phone stops ringing.
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Re: Well heres my situation.. [Re: 40oz]
#5588674 - 05/04/06 12:46 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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40oz said: well you were just at her house for a week...
give the girl some space.
better yet, dont text her. girls HATE when their dudes dont check in. =] she'll come running back when her phone stops ringing.
Agreed. Be cool like you dont care. Are you actually together? If not just ask her, what do you have to lose.
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I_was_the_walrus
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Re: Well heres my situation.. [Re: 40oz]
#5588683 - 05/04/06 12:50 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thats the thing...I dont text her. I wait for her to text me. I dont want to annoy her. She asks me to stay with her. Im very aware of the annoyance kinda thing. Its like a sixth sense. She says she loves it when I stay with her...
Then on the other hand Ive been told by other female friends they want you to come get her...they love it. It lets them know your thinking about them as much as they're thinkin about you. I just hate the feeling is all..Shes made me happier in the past week than Ive been in awhile. I love the smell of her..I love her touch. She drinks as much as I do! Maybe more? I swear I couldnt be happier with any other person.
God I hate this feeling...I knew I was digging my own hole. I didnt care. Better to love than not have loved at all I guess
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Re: Well heres my situation.. [Re: 40oz]
#5588684 - 05/04/06 12:51 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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40oz said: well you were just at her house for a week...
give the girl some space.
better yet, dont text her. girls HATE when their dudes dont check in. =] she'll come running back when her phone stops ringing.
Yea true.
Also just chill out, breathe a little bit. Just be straight with her, tell her how you feel. Shell respect your respect and confidence with her.
I Should practice what I preach more to be honest, but when it comes down to it, its the simple truth. And its always worked for me... until I fuck it up by becoming distant because of my own retardedness and living in the moment attitude.
And when I say tell her how you feel, I mean tell her how sexy you think she is.
Edited by Ginseng1 (05/04/06 12:54 AM)
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I_was_the_walrus said: Thats the thing...I dont text her. I wait for her to text me. I dont want to annoy her. She asks me to stay with her. Im very aware of the annoyance kinda thing. Its like a sixth sense. She says she loves it when I stay with her...
Then on the other hand Ive been told by other female friends they want you to come get her...they love it. It lets them know your thinking about them as much as they're thinkin about you. I just hate the feeling is all..Shes made me happier in the past week than Ive been in awhile. I love the smell of her..I love her touch. She drinks as much as I do! Maybe more? I swear I couldnt be happier with any other person.
God I hate this feeling...I knew I was digging my own hole. I didnt care. Better to love than not have loved at all I guess
may i ask you, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU WAITING FOR?! 
quit being such a pussy & ask her out already. =]
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Re: Well heres my situation.. [Re: 40oz]
#5588738 - 05/04/06 01:06 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Nah..shes not the "going out" kinda girl. She likes to sit at home, drink..and lay with you in bed while the TVs on. I love it.
I dont want to overstay my welcome. I dont want to annoy her. I want her to come to me when she wants my company. And when she doesnt want my company...well Im sure you know the feeling. Shes the young partying type, but no sex without a relationship. Sex isnt casual with her. Which confuses the fuck outa me. She'll go out...drink...strip...shake her ass and so forth. But Its all in good fun. Nothing more I guess?
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40oz


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she wont have sex without being in a relationship, but she isnt the relationship type gurl?
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I_was_the_walrus
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WOOT!
She just sent me a picture of her naked. WELL looks like Im signing off for the night...man do I feel like an asshole.
God I love this feeling...
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I_was_the_walrus said: Nah..shes not the "going out" kinda girl. She likes to sit at home, drink..and lay with you in bed while the TVs on. I love it.
I dont want to overstay my welcome. I dont want to annoy her. I want her to come to me when she wants my company. And when she doesnt want my company...well Im sure you know the feeling. Shes the young partying type, but no sex without a relationship. Sex isnt casual with her. Which confuses the fuck outa me. She'll go out...drink...strip...shake her ass and so forth. But Its all in good fun. Nothing more I guess?
So fuckin go to her place one day, have some drinks and fuckin bang her man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I_was_the_walrus said: WOOT!
She just sent me a picture of her naked. WELL looks like Im signing off for the night...man do I feel like an asshole.
God I love this feeling...
You feel like an asshole because you made that up right?
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I_was_the_walrus
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Re: Well heres my situation.. [Re: Ginseng1]
#5588777 - 05/04/06 01:17 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, not totally naked. The other day we were talking about going to shops and this and that. She was talking about this "outfit" she had bought. She brought it out and showed it to me. I told her before I die I must see her in it...I dont care how old or drunk I am...I MUST.
Well she put it on, took a picture and sent it to me.
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I_was_the_walrus said: Then on the other hand Ive been told by other female friends
don't let women tell you what women want... they delude themselves and delude you.
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I_was_the_walrus said: Well, not totally naked. The other day we were talking about going to shops and this and that. She was talking about this "outfit" she had bought. She brought it out and showed it to me. I told her before I die I must see her in it...I dont care how old or drunk I am...I MUST.
Well she put it on, took a picture and sent it to me.
Bro this girl is obviously feeling you. 
Dont waste any more time thinking... just plan your next simple move. fuckin bang the shit out of her.
Edited by Ginseng1 (05/04/06 01:23 AM)
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Re: Well heres my situation.. [Re: Ginseng1]
#5588831 - 05/04/06 01:33 AM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Eh..I replied. If she wants me to come over she'll let me know. Honestly, Ive been drinking. Im drunk and tired. I could care less. I suppose if she does and I dont text back because I dont really wanna drive..she'll want it more or be frustrated? What the fuck?
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Is this feeling a gut feeling? Cuz if it is, what you feel is going to happen....WILL. I went through the same thing last year. Got this incredible gut feeling taht I shouldn't start seeing this chick, but I did anyway....pretty big mistake, learned a lot though.
Go through with it, but be prepared for the worst you can already see coming...
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I suppose if she does and I dont text back because I dont really wanna drive
you could also text back that you can't drive because you're drunk...
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I_was_the_walrus
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But what if it isnt a mistake Im making? What if Im missing out on a golden opportunity of happiness? I guess I just have to. If it ends awfull its a lesson learned. If it goes right I couldnt be happier..
But for how long? It could end years...months, even weeks from now. Then Im back to square one.
I fucking hate this shit. Im just gonna drink and lay back. Have fun. If it ends it ends. Good riddance. At least I had a good time...
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If it ends awfull its a lesson learned. If it goes right I couldnt be happier..
indeed, it's worth a try!
but if it doesn't work don't fool yourself for too long though
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