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Soo was I in the right?
#5570741 - 04/29/06 03:41 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I got pissed off at this guy who I used to smoke with all the time, and no matter what, he would always start fucking rapping to the song, he'd get up and start fucking dancing and rapping in everyones face, and all I want to do it just fucking chill and sit and have a good time, and it really annoyed me. So yesterday he comes over with some cool people I like to chill with, and I hang out with them and before I knew it he was doing his same old stupid shit. I don't know if I can stress the stupidity of the situation... but yeah, he got all butt heart because I told him to chill out for just one song, I even gave him all the cigs he wanted so he could just sit and not put on another episode of his never ending performance.
I can only really enjoy rap when there isn't some 17 year old dancing, rapping, sideways hat, white kid performing along.
I vent a lot, but I just never meet anyone who is anything more than a stupid pothead. I mean some of them are cool, but I have no one in my town to connect with intellectually, it really gets me down sometimes. I was really at peace with the world until yesterday, it just still bugs me that 1) I hurt his feelings, and 2) He doesn't realize what he's doing and why its stupid. I could go more into how stupid the kid is, but I know that this is just some venting I'm doing, trying to figure out how to feel about and how to respond.
Comments, Suggestions, etc are appreciated.
Edited by TheMadConductor (04/29/06 03:42 PM)
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5570767 - 04/29/06 03:53 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have similar situations a lot. It really sucks, doesn't it? No one is right, sadly. There is no right or wrong. I wish there was, because things would be so much easier. But there is not a right, there is not a wrong. There is only reality.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5570807 - 04/29/06 04:04 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sometimes you gatta lay it on the line for some people, or else no change will happen.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5570817 - 04/29/06 04:06 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thats a very funny situation you're in
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: LuNaTiX]
#5570819 - 04/29/06 04:07 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Find a cute mellow chick and hang out with her instead of going to sausage parties all the time.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#5570831 - 04/29/06 04:11 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
TheFakeSunRa said: Find a cute mellow chick and hang out with her instead of going to sausage parties all the time.
Haha, thanks, but thankfully, I already have that, and it really is nice.
But yeah, I have 3 fucking video's of it, and all he does is call me a dick and get all pissy whenever I show him.
Edited by TheMadConductor (04/29/06 04:11 PM)
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5570842 - 04/29/06 04:14 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't hang out with people I don't like. Actually, I don't even hang out with people I do like.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#5570856 - 04/29/06 04:19 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Since you already tried letting him know how much of a fool he is to little or no avail, knock him in the temple next time he's in your face rapping like an idiot.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#5571136 - 04/29/06 05:29 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
TheFakeSunRa said: I don't hang out with people I don't like. Actually, I don't even hang out with people I do like.
wanna hang?
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: Ginseng1]
#5571159 - 04/29/06 05:36 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: Ginseng1]
#5571173 - 04/29/06 05:40 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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it really irritates me when people cant just listen to a fuckin song and have go to say every single word to it. i dont know what they get out of singing along like that, if your at a concert i could understand cuz the music is live, but just repeating a recording is kinda pointless imo...
but then again, ive been told im an asshole. so maybe somethings just wrong with me.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: PurpleKush]
#5571207 - 04/29/06 05:48 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I sing along if I am by myself, but not when I am around other people because it is annoying and I have an awful singing voice.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: Deadmaker]
#5571245 - 04/29/06 06:07 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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(salute), i wish more people were like that..
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: creamrocks]
#5571296 - 04/29/06 06:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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It just seems like a tweaker thing to, to not be able to resist an urge to sing and dance after 3 hits
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571320 - 04/29/06 06:30 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571375 - 04/29/06 06:49 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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My friend sings along to songs all the time. We're good friends and all so I told him I can't enjoy the song when he sings along with it.
Basically, approach the situation tactfully and ask him to stop and why you would like him to stop. Most people are rational if you treat them with respect and communicate your gripes properly.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: TODAY]
#5571419 - 04/29/06 06:56 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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My friend replys, "What I can't sing and be happy, I like to have a good time and enjoy myself!" Too put it straight, he's retarded. He was stupid before he started smoking, and now hes just too far gone to think about anything but his stupid self.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571437 - 04/29/06 07:01 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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personally i love to sing along to songs (especially in the car). dancing is good too (not in the car). but moderation is obviously needed, when you get in peoples faces and annoy them then it needs to stop. when he says "What I can't sing and be happy, I like to have a good time and enjoy myself!" notice that he is only talking about his own amusement and doesnt care whether everyone else is also having a good time...
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: eligal]
#5571469 - 04/29/06 07:06 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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exactly, nor does he care about anyone else. He's been a dick to all his friends constantly, pretty much ruined his chances with all girls who have ever liked him (hes still a virgin), and yet he still smokes and he claims hes "Not fucking depressed, I'm a happy person, because I smooooke weeeed" depsite what I tell him all the time. He has issues that hes masking with drugs, and its fucking pathetic, especially since he wont take the help I offer him.
He just smokes to get fucked up and forget, and then he dances because hes tweaked out on life.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571546 - 04/29/06 07:35 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Here's an idea. Listen to some real music, rap fucking sucks.
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Haha nevermind, thanks. Thats pretty nuts
Edited by TheMadConductor (04/29/06 07:39 PM)
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571578 - 04/29/06 07:41 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
TheMadConductor said: Haha nevermind, thanks. Thats pretty nuts
Is that the same guy? BTW, I wasn't trying to be a dick with my comment about rap music, but when I read it, it sounded kinda dick.
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Its all good, I really don't like it too much either, but its what everyone else listens to, so when I'm with them, I try to spare them my musical taste.
I don't think its him, but whos knows, its a small world.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571588 - 04/29/06 07:46 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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It is one hell of a coincidence. Seems to coincidental to not be him.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571604 - 04/29/06 07:54 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Your friend is an asshole
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571707 - 04/29/06 08:19 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Let's see here now....
Your friend likes rap
He thinks he is a rapper
Your friend likes rap
There is only one solution
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: gregorio]
#5571717 - 04/29/06 08:21 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: Wysefool]
#5571727 - 04/29/06 08:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Bob Dylan has a good rap song.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: gregorio]
#5571767 - 04/29/06 08:34 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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yea when i was reading this post i was thinking about the other one that guy posted but, u just need to stop smoking with him i mean u dont reall y need to smoke with him do u, i found out that smoking with people that makes you comfortable is better then smoking with people that u think u like
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: Ikon07]
#5571844 - 04/29/06 08:49 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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And if you really do not enjoy his company then just don't invite him over your house. It's that simple.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#5571942 - 04/29/06 09:11 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's not the same guy....he just read this thread and thought it'd be funny to make the other one to mock this thread in a way. That's all.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5571947 - 04/29/06 09:12 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Both of you need, and deserve, the space to do what you like to do when smoking pot. Take that into consideration before you smoke. You should tell him that you want the space to have intellectual conversations to figure stuff out, but that doesn't discredit his interests. You should also let him know that what he likes to do is fine as well, but it can't be like that all the time.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#5571966 - 04/29/06 09:17 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why invite him along?
If he comes with a larger group that you do enjoy, see what you can do about making sure he doesn't come along from time to time.
If that's not possible, then just decide if his presence is worth dealing with. If yes, so be it. If no, find new friends.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: ClammyJoe]
#5572053 - 04/29/06 09:37 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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You two need to sit down. Do some lsd and talk about it or just don't let him in your place.
I had a friend like this. We are no longer friends. Shit Happens.
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Re: Soo was I in the right? [Re: KaptKid]
#5572364 - 04/29/06 11:03 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah, but the other guy has an interest too, and they're his friends too, I'm guessing. It isn't right to just cut a guy out, those times might be something good to him. Just organize things so that everyone knows where everyone's at, and everyone gets their space.
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