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Drain_Bamage
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Weed Moocher....Grrrrr
#5562485 - 04/27/06 11:30 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I just need to vent. If you're in for a mid-length rant then read ahead:
So last night I'm at a party and decide to light up with a few friends. Campus has been kinda dry for the last few weeks and since I only smoke occasionally I still had about 1/8th on me.
Anyway I pull up and pack a bowl and pass it around. The guy next to me (who I know pretty well but is not really my friend) asks is he can borrow .5g of weed because he's out. He says he'll hit me back tomorrow when he gets an 1/8th. So I say sure and toss my bag over to him. That was my biggest mistake.
So then he reaches into the bag as I watch and pulls out easily 1.5-2g. Not cool. Instead of saying something right away I just sit and watch him in disbelief. He puts the weed on the table and then covers it with his hand so I can't see how much he took. Then using one hand he closes my bag and tosses it back to me. He had taken all my good nugs and just left me shake.
After sitting around for 10 minutes he still has his hand over the weed. He even didn't take a hit off the pipe that was going around because he didn't want to use two hands and reveal how much he took. Finally, I stand up like I'm gonna leave and very calmly ask him to just show me how much he took, "just for reference so he can hit me back later". He scowls at me and is trying to joke around asking me whether I trust him or not. I finally make him show me and I don't make a big deal of it after I see how much he took, I just leave. I just wanted to call him out on it a little bit and not be a complete pushover.
I realize this is 2g of weed and that it isn't even worth more than $20. However it's more the principle of the thing. I was helping someone out and he fucking tried to cheat me. It pisses me off so much that he felt it was okay to act that way. Seriously I could give a shit about that much weed, what gets me is that he felt it was okay to disrespect me like that. What also sucks is that experiences like this make me less inclined to share weed with people because I don't want to get the reputation as someone you can mooch off of. Grrrr.
Anyway, I hope this wasn't too long/boring.
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Give them an inch, they will take a mile. Some assholes, arent worth shit.
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Some people are just idiots...next time he needs your help tell him to fuck off....karma is a bitch.
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Drain_Bamage
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: rod]
#5562511 - 04/27/06 11:39 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah seriously. This guy is getting kicked out of school after this semester (which ends in 2 weeks) so I won't have to deal with him for a long time anyway.
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MadSeasonAbove
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well, for one, you shouldnt have given him any if you're not friends, IMO. especially letting him personally take what he "thinks" is a .5
sounds like you're to much of a nice guy. Which isn't entirely bad, but you get taken advantage of easy. And then, you just let it happen and leave. The only person you should be mad at, is yourself. Sorry to sound like a dick, but it's the truth.
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JacquesCousteau
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Drain_Bamage said: Yeah seriously. This guy is getting kicked out of school after this semester (which ends in 2 weeks) so I won't have to deal with him for a long time anyway.
Don't be surprised if he spends the next two weeks telling you he doesn't have any. If he pulls that shit, tell him you want 20 bucks for what he took.
Also, fuck that dude.
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Drain_Bamage
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You know I actually agree with you, you don't come off like a dick. When I get stoned I get all empathetic and dislike being negative and I do things that I regret later.
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Drain_Bamage
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Yeah I know. I'm seriously considering whether it's worth the effort to get it out of him. The guy is just bad news and I'd really prefer not to deal with him again, but if I see him around I'll probably ask about it.
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asshole...
i wouldn't let him take what he want's though! i'd snip off something that seemed reasonable to me and give him... although i've managed to emberress my self like that befor... a good friend asked me for some hash and i gave him just enough for a couple of times... later i felt like an asshole because i realized that my smoking habits a nothing compared to his and what he got was bearly enough for him 
his a good freind though and he knows me enough to not take offence though... i've had a few times to make up for it 
either way though... i hate people asking for their personal use... i can understand if they don't have a hookup but if i didn't have any i wouldn't go around asking people for handouts i'd either buy some or run out for a few days/weeks/months
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HeavyToilet
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If someone did that to me I'd punch them in the face.
Even asking someone for weed without paying them is a no-no in my eyes.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: HeavyToilet]
#5562609 - 04/27/06 12:09 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well said, fellow canadian!
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: HeavyToilet]
#5562619 - 04/27/06 12:12 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Learn to say no, or better yet, you should've taken your shit back. Sure , it's only 20 bucks worth....but why the fuck should you let him get 20 dollars for free, when that could've been spent on yourself.
horray for supported deadbeats!
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Drain_Bamage
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: Chazzersize]
#5562674 - 04/27/06 12:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah, all you guys are right. It's a tricky thing because I don't want to come off as stingy...but this was just too much. I really don't mind sharing weed between my close friends because I like helping people out...this was different though, it just felt malicious...you know? I'm gonna go make a little visit to his place tonight and see if I can get my shit back.
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HeavyToilet
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He's probably going to tell you he smoked it all.
Just remember: it'a never too late to punch someone in the face.
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Just let it go and know you learned a very valuable lesson: DO NOT LET OTHER PEOPLE TOUCH YOUR SACK. Unless, it is a hot a girl. 
Honestly though, who the hell gives someone a bag and lets them pick some out when they are mooching the shit off you? And an eighth, I might not be you, but if that is what I had, nobody is borrowing shit. Especially if they will get you back tomorrow, that is almost a guarantee that they are full of shit.
I would have called him out when not hitting the pipe. "Did you snatch enough from my sack, muthafucka?" WTF, why didn't he pack any of that? If I let someone borrow, they better pack a fucking bowl of it.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: mecreateme]
#5562823 - 04/27/06 01:22 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah from now on no one touches the sack but me, that's actually a really good idea...thanks!
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Skeevy stoners are the worst. Next its your PS2.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: Adden]
#5562945 - 04/27/06 02:01 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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'Fuck you, get your own weed."
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go back to his place and ask him to hit you up for the ".5" you let him borrow. then tell (not ask) him you are going to pick it out like he did. take out 1.5-2g and say "this looks about right" and walk out.
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Ring his doorbell with your pants already down and then start peeing as soon as the door opens, and hope that it isn't his mom or dad.
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Yeah, never let anyone touch the sack but you. I don't even let my buddies touch mine, it's nothing personal. I'd just rather handle my buds because if something happens, all the blame's on me.
I woulda stared that fucker up and down had I not said something. Fuck him. A nug's a nug. If someone pinches from me, I'm pretty sure that I'll lose it. The chances of me NOT giving someone weed is slim to none. I'll smoke a joint with ya, a bowl, some bong rips, maybe I'll even throw you a nug because I'm nice... but if anything jacks so much as a bowl's worth off of me, I'll shit my pants over it. None of my friends would do this in the first place so it's cool.
I hate shits like that. Mention it around your buddies without particularly gossiping about it. It's not squeeling or ratting a brother out, it should be known. Whenever someone's a weed jacker in our town, we call the fucker out so everyone and their mother knows about it. I don't smoke down with anyone like that anymore and life's great. Karma will get him back.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: browndustin]
#5564013 - 04/27/06 06:33 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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browndustin said: Yeah, never let anyone touch the sack but you. I don't even let my buddies touch mine, it's nothing personal. I'd just rather handle my buds because if something happens, all the blame's on me.
If my friends ask to LOOK at my pot, for pothead connoisueristic reasons, I have no problem letting them. I basically stand there and watch them or look with them though.
That's the only reason my friends would have my pot in their hands... heh. Oh, unless I'm tripping or rolling too hard to pack a bowl... hm...
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Heh, yeah we all started to appreciate pot a little more. Well, I always had because I'm just like that.. but I'll pass around nugs to friends, they'll appreciate better nugs and show theirs to me.
Although I typically keep an eye out, I'll turn away. And even though I trust them, you're still cognizant of the fact that they're taking a gander lol. As long as everyone's sharing and not fuckin jackin your shit, it's all good.
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You did him a disservice by 'acting cool about it', and yourself one too
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: Freeker]
#5564737 - 04/27/06 09:44 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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scavengers suck. we've all got that one friend (not really a friend) who has weed but only smokes it for himself, even though everyone else smokes him out. but when theyre asked to bring bud, they either say they are out or bring like a bowl pack when we're gonna roll a blunt.
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That sucks. Go to his door and get the weed back, like mushie said. Or just pop him in the face, if that doesn't work.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: whatever123]
#5564835 - 04/27/06 10:11 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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that's just part of life. i don't smoke people like that out often, but sometimes we meet people that we think are alright till they start to be selfish fucks.
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"you know we sell this, right?" "damn, i just quit smokin yesterday." 
i used to smoke out anyone who was in the room when i was slingin, just cuz its a nice way to meet people, especially chicks, but not anymore. too much $$ to be givin away.
what really pisses me off is when my actual good friends try to mooch endlessly. we all tend to chill at my buddy's house, and ill burn with him just for lettin me chill there all the time. but one of my friends will sit there with us all day, and if we pass a blunt around, he hits it. if someone smokes with me, i usually roll up or pack a bowl as soon as i start to sober up and smoke with them to keep it goin. but he'll wait till the end of the night, roll a skinny ass blunt, smoke 3/4 of it and pass the roach around. not cool.
that went on for a little while, but these days, i only pass my weed to the homeowner. im all for sharing, but when you dont share with me, im not just gonna keep forkin over my hard earned cash. he always smokes by himself now, which most of us have started doing anyways. i love rollin .4-.7 in swisher cigarillos, theyre the best way to go, imo
anyways, sometimes you just gotta say no. if they say your stingy, fuck em. just remember you earned that shit, you decide who you share with.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: PurpleKush]
#5565190 - 04/27/06 11:26 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't have a problem with paying
I really don't
But if you tell me to pay after we smoke, then go fuck yourself, because as far as I'm concerned it was a nice, free gesture
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Drain_Bamage
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*Update* Just thought you guys would like to know.
Well I saw the guy today...and he's avoiding me. I saw him today and went over to talk to him and he was all sketchy and made some bullshit excuse about having to be somewhere and left within about 30 seconds of me saying hi. I know he's gonna be at this party Saturday night so I'm gonna confront him about it then and make him pay me back.
On a better note I was talking about this with some stoner friends of mine and they smoked me out cause they felt bad for me.  I'm feeling reeeeaaallll good right now.
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corner him next time, leave him with no escape
im off work! bout to go pick up some really good bud and get baked.
everybody knows that friday is high-day!
im out, peace!
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IM pretty bad for bumming weed, but i never take over what the say and i always reture the fav
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You should have pinched out what you wanted him to have and handed him it in a cellophane, it would have been a done deal. Live and learn.
As soon as you let him rip you off though, you should know you're going to have to fight him if you want to be paid back now. Because you already showed him you don't stand up for yourself or your property when you didn't step to him immediately when he molested your bag before your eyes in the first place. Now he will expect to be able to walk overtop of you anytime without any resistance.
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next time they want free weed lace it heavily with pcp.
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You should've said something the second you saw he took too much. You paid for that weed, he didn't. You have every right to be an asshole about the situation and put him in his place.
Reminds me of a time when I brough over like 6 small nugs to a friends house. I go to the bathroom, get back and there's only 4 nugs in my bag. I'm just like "Um, "Tim" I'm pretty sure there were 6 nugs when I left to go to the bathroom, now there's only 4"
He tried to play stupid, not knowing what I was talking about but I just stared at him. He gave them back. We're still really good friends hah (This was back in the ol grade 9 days of smokin pot heh)
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: adamj]
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Live and learn. 1. Gifts should be given, not taken.( No touch bag). 2. Going after him after the fact is pointless. This should have been taken care of on the spot. 3 I always used to keep stash out of sight, and only bring out what is too be used.
Now I buy wholesale, and stay home with my Dogs!!
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Quote:
deadheadjpc2000 said: Live and learn. 1. Gifts should be given, not taken.( No touch bag). 2. Going after him after the fact is pointless. This should have been taken care of on the spot. 3 I always used to keep stash out of sight, and only bring out what is too be used.
Now I buy wholesale, and stay home with my Dogs!!
A+ man!
My buddies use to just expect me to let them use my pot. Fcuk that. 
I paid for it. I smoke it unless I SAY IT'S OKAY.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: theuser]
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I used to be complacent like that when I was younger. Now, it's a lot easier for me to call people out. I probably would have used humor to call him out. I would have said something like "Look at you trying to hide how much you took from me. Damn, man it's not like I don't know my own sac! You get enough, bro? Thanks for leaving me some shake off my own weed!" Then I would have just reached back over and taken most of it back and said someting like 'This pine's so kind you'll be fine with this much man. Trust me' The shitty thing though is even though you're giving him some weed he put you in a situation where you kind of had to come off a bit prickish to straighten it out. It sounds like he may have been spoiled by his folks or something. No gratitude and completely selfish. Anyway, I think the way you handled it was cool as hell, man. You called him out on it but decided that you're cool enough to let it slide. I say fuck trying to get your payback. If he comes through then you'll know he's actually got a goodside and if he doesn't then he'll avoid you and there will be one less dick in your sphere.
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Heh, you are nice. I would get in my friends faces about it. Then again I no longer have friends.
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: theuser]
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Yep...Humor can be a great faciilitator to solve problems. I have used that tact alot to rectify disagreements. I also no longer have friends. I find animals much better to relate to( with the exception of my wife). Most people my age have too much shit going on, and I have enough shit of my own, thank you!!
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Re: Weed Moocher....Grrrrr [Re: theuser]
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theolduser said: Heh, you are nice. I would get in my friends faces about it. Then again I no longer have friends.
Well, as for me, I wouldn't just hand my bag over to the guy, I'd have pinched him off a bit myself or more likely just laughed and said 'Nah man'. The thing is after he just passed his bag over the dynamics changed a lot. It shows how much generosity the original poster has.
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theuser
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Yeah, wife and pets, fuck the rest.
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deadheadjpc2000 said: Yep...Humor can be a great faciilitator to solve problems. I have used that tact alot to rectify disagreements. I also no longer have friends. I find animals much better to relate to( with the exception of my wife). Most people my age have too much shit going on, and I have enough shit of my own, thank you!!
Same here. How old are you?
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Well, I coming up on my 40th real soon. Damn, that looks wierd to me in writing. I just turned 21 the other day.... or was it last week? As a retired chef, I can't count the times humor has been a stress reliever, as well as a conflict resolution tool. Almost required for any management position, IMHO. No kids, so my animals are my posse.
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25. We moved here to SLC and were only living here for a year (moving near NYC soon) so we didn't bother making new friends.
We have work friends but those never turn out to be great friends in my experience. For right now it's mainly just us our pets and planning for the future.
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