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OfflineCryogenicz
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Cheating - why do men cheat on women?
    #5542966 - 04/22/06 01:04 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Do you cheat on your women
You may choose only one


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5542972 - 04/22/06 01:05 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

"It was there!"


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5542976 - 04/22/06 01:06 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

No.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5542984 - 04/22/06 01:08 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Where's the "She could be a raging bitch so I liked to escape for a night or a couple hours to chill with a chick who is always cool with me coming over with the sole intention to fuck with no strings." option?


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5542986 - 04/22/06 01:08 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5542987 - 04/22/06 01:09 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

i think women cheat more than guys do.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Redstorm]
    #5542988 - 04/22/06 01:09 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

The more women we fuck, the better we feel about ourselves. It is kind of like the more men that stare at a womans tits, the better she feels about her tits.

Just so happens that teh penis is the only thing we really have going for us, and vibrators are slowly erroding that fact.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5542992 - 04/22/06 01:11 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Just don't take it so personally, sometimes you gotta get a nut off and it doesn't matter who takes it.

As long as the love is in the right spot who cares?

You fucking people freak me out.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #5542996 - 04/22/06 01:12 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

FUCKING FLASHBACK

HUMANS.

LOVING.

WHY?


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: SneezingPenis]
    #5542997 - 04/22/06 01:13 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: SneezingPenis]
    #5543004 - 04/22/06 01:16 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

haha... that's funny stuff


I have never cheated.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543006 - 04/22/06 01:17 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I have never cheated on a bitch.

cheating is for people playing games.

I was making an observation about societal behaviour.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: 40oz]
    #5543105 - 04/22/06 02:50 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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40oz said:
i think women cheat more than guys do.



w3rd. They just don't get caught as often.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543126 - 04/22/06 03:05 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Where's the "Only if she's hot enough" or the "Only if I'm drunk so I have a reason to go through with it with out feeling bad"


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Silversoul]
    #5543130 - 04/22/06 03:11 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Never

I'm a horny guy and will drool over sexy people, but to me it's about finding satisfaction in my partner. The instant satisfaction i'd find in other people seems pretty worthless.

After seven years together I still can't wait to get my partner in bed. That's not a given either, you can let yourself become bored, or not I guess.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: VoidOfsPg]
    #5543134 - 04/22/06 03:15 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

The only serious relationship Ive ever been in:

She was completely psycho. She'd call me up.."Whos all there? WHO WAS THAT? Oh, just hanging out eh? Who are you sitting next to? If you had to pick which one of my friends was the hottest..who would it be?"

And she ended up cheating on me. Then when she was with her other boyfriend years later...cheated on him with me!?!

Girls are just emotional and irrational by nature.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: 40oz]
    #5543138 - 04/22/06 03:22 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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i think women cheat more than guys do.




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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: I_was_the_walrus]
    #5543378 - 04/22/06 08:51 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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The only serious relationship Ive ever been in:

She was completely psycho. She'd call me up.."Whos all there? WHO WAS THAT? Oh, just hanging out eh? Who are you sitting next to? If you had to pick which one of my friends was the hottest..who would it be?"

And she ended up cheating on me. Then when she was with her other boyfriend years later...cheated on him with me!?!

Girls are just emotional and irrational by nature.




*The old Randal*: Hell yeah. Speak it brother.

*The new Randal*: I think both men and women cheat and it sucks when it happens. It is hurtful and shitty. If my girlfriend goes out and screws some other guy I would much prefer it if she admitted it. If she lied about it or conveniently didn't mention it....that's when I would get really pissed.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543391 - 04/22/06 09:02 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

But anyway, why do people cheat?  Good question.

In my experience it usually is one of the following reasons:

1.  Boredom
2.  Immaturity
3.  Selfishness
4.  Insecurity
5.  Lust

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5543398 - 04/22/06 09:07 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

good call Randal

The rest of you guys are fucked, seriously guys that cheat and listening to you guys talk about cheating makes me never want to date again.

I think men cheat because their stupid. They think they won't get caught and always do. I've also noticed that guys cheat on hot chicks with ugly girls.

Guys cheat way more then girls do.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543400 - 04/22/06 09:08 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Men "cheat" on their women becuase their women can't satisfy them. Whether it be physically, or mentally, the woman is slacking in some department.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543405 - 04/22/06 09:10 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

if you're going to cheat on someone, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship with that someone


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Gillette]
    #5543426 - 04/22/06 09:23 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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I've also noticed that guys cheat on hot chicks with ugly girls.




:lol:  So true.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Gillette]
    #5543428 - 04/22/06 09:26 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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seriously guys that cheat and listening to you guys talk about cheating makes me never want to date again.




Let's both turn gay. I could get some big hairy guy as a boyfriend who would treat me right and you could get some big butch chick who would treat you right.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Chairman Meow]
    #5543441 - 04/22/06 09:32 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Most men aren't fortunate enough to end up with a woman who is a "total package". In a relationship with one that does a lot of things well, but sometimes has to look elsewhere to fulfil other needs.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543448 - 04/22/06 09:37 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

That's terrible daimyo. I'm not joking either.

If I make a commitment to a woman then that's it...I commit. Yes, of course I am going to see hot women in my daily life and I'm going to check them out. Hell, I might even flirt with them. But, I won't cheat on my significant other.

I think honesty in a relationship is paramount. If you are the kind of person that has a difficult time not "straying", then you need to tell the other person up-front so they won't be shocked when you go out and bang someone else.

You do have a point though; you will never find a perfect mate. The person you are with will always be missing at least one thing or have one flaw. If you feel like looking elsewhere for something that is missing at least be honest with your significant other about it. I get pissed when people lie about it and are all sneaky. It's just shitty.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543450 - 04/22/06 09:37 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

if you want to see other people, then you should let a woman know what kind of relationship you want. toying with ones emotions is never a good idea.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Chairman Meow]
    #5543470 - 04/22/06 09:45 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I don't see how telling the other person is a good idea. It will most likely ruin the relationship. If you keep it quiet, the old adage "what they don't know won't hurt em" applies.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543483 - 04/22/06 09:51 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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I don't see how telling the other person is a good idea. It will most likely ruin the relationship. If you keep it quiet, the old adage "what the don't know won't hurt em" applies.




I would never do that to a person. It sucks. A woman did that to me. You can see the fallout from that by browsing all of my misogynist threads from 2003-2005. Practically every one of my threads was tainted by my anger over the things she did to me.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543498 - 04/22/06 09:57 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

how old are you?


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Chairman Meow]
    #5543506 - 04/22/06 10:01 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

wheres the option "I was high"


Edited by AliceDee (04/22/06 10:01 AM)


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Chairman Meow]
    #5543510 - 04/22/06 10:02 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Resorting to personal attacks is a sign of weakness in argument, or personality.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543515 - 04/22/06 10:04 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Women cheat more than men because women can get sex WHENEVER they want. It's that simple.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543519 - 04/22/06 10:07 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Yeah you feel awesome when you are dating a hot chick and still have the guts to go out and bang another. Meanwhile your chick is busy fucking someone else without you not even knowing it. Blows my mind.

Now after you do it and you find out your woman has cheated on you it hurts. Which totally blows me away. I learned to not get attached to any woman. Even if she is the coolest, once you start having sex it's all over with.

My heart is torn.

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543522 - 04/22/06 10:08 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Cheating is dishonesty. Simple as that. If that doesn't bother you*, I feel sorry for the people in your life.

*using the general "you" here


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Octavius]
    #5543525 - 04/22/06 10:09 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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once you start having sex it's all over with.




That's the exact moment that the train wreck starts to happen.  :smirk:


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543527 - 04/22/06 10:09 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

i wasn't personally attacking you. it was a serious question. everyone knows that guys usually don't get past the cheating phase until 25. me knowing if you are under 25 would help me understand your reasoning behind cheating.
that's all. no need to feel threatened.
also, you personally attacked me with your comment.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Octavius]
    #5543531 - 04/22/06 10:10 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Even if she is the coolest, once you start having sex it's all over with.




Yep.  Exactly.  :thumbup: 

Once you stick it in, her mind goes to puddy.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Chairman Meow]
    #5543532 - 04/22/06 10:10 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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sadsappysucker said:
if you're going to cheat on someone, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship with that someone




this is how i've always felt. cheating is for those who want to play mind games, and that's something i don't want when dating someone. hence, i've never cheated on a girl. i've been on the shafted end a couple times, but whatever, i always found out and ended the relationship. excuses like alcohol, boredom, or even more lame, that the girl you're seeing is lacking something and you have to fuck someone else to be satisfied...complete cop out.
on a side note, i think girls cheat just as much as guys...there may be a certain group of men that will cheat every time, but most will stay faithful. women are harder to predict, i've found.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: unbeliever]
    #5543536 - 04/22/06 10:11 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Cheating entails dishonesty only once you've been asked about it and deny.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543546 - 04/22/06 10:15 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Cheating entails dishonesty only once you've been asked about it and deny.




Cheating is also when the other person expects commitment...and you don't give it.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543555 - 04/22/06 10:20 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Cheating is funny. The other person loves it when you cheat deep down inside..


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Octavius]
    #5543559 - 04/22/06 10:21 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

getting bogged down with relationship problems is a great way to waste years off of your life. If you know you're not ready to get married and have kids, you shouldnt allow yourself to get in a girlfriend/boyfriend situation. Seriously, you'd probably be better off with finding a nice hooker(and spend less money too) or have one night stands (if you have enough game)Just watch out for STDs. STDs are like instant sexual karma.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543565 - 04/22/06 10:22 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

dating someone implies that it's an exclusive relationship, unless you actually talk about it with the person and agree to keep it open. the dishonesty begins as soon as you're with another person, continues when you don't tell them, and truly becomes a serious problem when you deny it when confronted.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Microcosmatrix]
    #5543572 - 04/22/06 10:23 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

It promotes growth. Forces the other person to figure out what they need to fix to be better.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5543573 - 04/22/06 10:24 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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RandalFlagg said:

If I make a commitment to a woman then that's it...I commit. Yes, of course I am going to see hot women in my daily life and I'm going to check them out. Hell, I might even flirt with them.





That's it right there. It's easier to get laid once you're in a relationship because you're not serious about really following through or worried about the consequences of flirting, you're just having fun with it, because in the end you've got a girl at home.

I've never cheated in my adult life but I swear when I'm with a girl I get more oppurtunities for strange than I ever do while single.

And about head games... They are unavoidable. People play them unknowingly all the time. If you catch on to them and figure out how they are played, then it's up to that individual to decide what they will do with what they learned. You have to know what the games are to avoid them.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543586 - 04/22/06 10:28 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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It promotes growth. Forces the other person to figure out what they need to fix to be better.



i can't wait to find out how you'd discipline children.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543591 - 04/22/06 10:29 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

No children for me, but if I were to raise them it would be in military school.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cowgold]
    #5543629 - 04/22/06 10:51 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

another thing, never let a gurl know youve completely
fallen for her.
gurls love the game, once you are no longer a challenge, she will find someone else.

with that being said, never get lazy with your relationship.
there are a million guys out there after your gurl who
would fuck her in a heartbeat,
regardless if she has a boy or not.
keep your relationship just as alive as the day you hit it off.

also, women get lazy with their relationship too.
more often then not,
they tend to get unhealthy when they fall in love.
they gain weight, dont care to 'doll up', dont care for
social functions, & would rather spend time with you alone
at home doing nothing.
women, this WILL drive a man insane
& make him more prone to cheating.

now with all that being said,
im NOT saying to be a sneak, paranoid/controlling lover or a player.
people, regardless of sex will cheat if they want to cheat,
no matter what there partner says.

what i AM trying to say is,
know that your partner is with you
& only you for a reason.
if you give your partner reasons to cheat,
you will be cheated on.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: 40oz]
    #5543637 - 04/22/06 10:54 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I've never cheated on someone in my life. Though I'm sure I've been cheated on. :|


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: 40oz]
    #5543640 - 04/22/06 10:55 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
    #5543650 - 04/22/06 10:59 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Another one of the bad aspects of cheating is the STD's. Not only do you have potential emotional issues, maybe a nasty break up because your s/o cheated on you.. but as a consolation prize you might wind up with herpes or aids or whatever. Not cool.

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: unbeliever]
    #5543665 - 04/22/06 11:05 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

females do it more often i would reckon.

and with guys its more just giving into temptation with girls its more sinister...


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Hitman203]
    #5543729 - 04/22/06 11:27 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Girls definitely cheat more than men.

In my case, I've been really tempted to cheat. But that's because of the problems my woman brings into the relationship. I've always sworn off cheating, but I'm thinking that it's not even so bad. I would cheat with a very hot girl in a heartbeat, so long as it didn't break my gf's heart. It'd make her feel like dogshit, so I wouldn't.... if that changed though, I'd let loose and hump anything with a nice ass and tits.

I've always been the good guy, the gentleman.... but I think that with the rise in testosterone, chicks generally getting hotter, and my social skills getting increasingly better I sometimes want to be the jackass who fucks all the fine girls. My girlfriend's beautiful imo, but there's a few girls at work and around town that always give me the look. It's a 110% guarantee that I can woo them over and score on the first date, then go back for more any time I'd like. I see it in their eyes. But ahh well, I'm a nice guy. No cheating for me, even though my woman's pissed at me right now lol


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
    #5543749 - 04/22/06 11:32 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I couldn't imagine being tied down to just one girl for the early years. There's so many fine bitches to lay it to, why have just one? Makes no sense.

Get out there and get in them other guts. Knowing you could have got with those girls but didn't will be lame when you're older.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
    #5543757 - 04/22/06 11:32 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Go sleep with her best friend.

She'll love that!


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
    #5543858 - 04/22/06 11:46 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I know dude, it's such a dilemma. There's a girl at work that I'm in lust with, and some chicks at the gym that I always catch looking at me. I'll stare them up and down and they'll just blush.. fuuuuuuuuuck I could almost spring one right there and jump them in public. It would be so hot that no one would really mind us rallying right there.

Hella, I want to sleep with her best friend. Her body's so tight!! They highschool my gf went to had a lot of hot girls a few years back. Oh my. But.... I'm with my gf so I guess I have to live with it. She's worth it.... but just by a little bit dammit, if we break up I'm going absolutely wild. I think I'll just court girls and date them a few times, having endlessly wild sex until I find another clean, take home to mom but pound furiously kind of girl. Sounds like a good plan eh


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
    #5543863 - 04/22/06 11:48 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

For every beautiful woman you see, there's a man that's tired of fucking her.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
    #5543877 - 04/22/06 11:52 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Hahahaha, so true.

Woman taunt me. My ass almost wants to get dumped some times.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Gillette]
    #5544657 - 04/22/06 05:15 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Gillette said:
good call Randal

The rest of you guys are fucked, seriously guys that cheat and listening to you guys talk about cheating makes me never want to date again.


I think men cheat because their stupid. They think they won't get caught and always do. I've also noticed that guys cheat on hot chicks with ugly girls.

Guys cheat way more then girls do.




i TOATALLy disagree. i have a lot of female friends, i know they cheat on their bfs. i know a lot of my guy friends who never cheated got cheated on... i personally think chicks cheat more. i think guys get caught more because they are sloppy and stupid about it. i really think girls are better at cheating and lying. i also think girls cheat for attention. girls thrive on male attention. which is why every girl says "i hate other girls" and "i just get along better with guys". which are lies. you dont hate other girls, u just dont like competition (this is also why some hot chicks only have ugly fat friends). you also dont "get along better with guys" you like male attention more than female attention.

guys cheat too i know...but they dont do it for the same reasons. guys just cheat because sometimes banging the same girl over and over again gets old and something new is needed. i think women tend to have more powerful emotional bonds with the peole they cheat with then guys do.... for guys its just about new stimulation and getting off.

i dont think people who cheat have ever been cheated on. just because ii crushes you when uve been cheated on. i mean it really fucks your world up. its probably the most emotionally devstaing thing ive ever been through (probably because it was with sum1 id been with for 3yrs)
...second only to losing a loved one.


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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #5546939 - 04/23/06 09:39 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I knew you'd disagree with me.

I think some chicks may not have girlfriends, because of competition, but what if you just don't like girly things? Like I have girlfriends (now, I didn't have any besides Bom for a long time) and its cool I guess, but like they cry alot and theres alot of giggling and stupid gossip and drama, like the drama is unreal and all they ever want to do is go to the club, or shopping are like sit around and gossip and thats not really my thing, you know? like sometimes I like to chill, or do something thats normal to me, like you know, maybe go outside, get a little dirty once in awhile....thats why I don't have alot of girl friends

I think your right in the thought that guys will bang whatever, whereas a chick will most likely sleep with someone she knows and chances are you've heard of him.

Yeah once you've been cheated on, I don't think you could go out and cheat on someone, your right it sucks.


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    #5547090 - 04/23/06 11:08 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Tamadragon]
    #5547095 - 04/23/06 11:10 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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so i may just try to convince the girls to have a three-some with me. that's not cheating right?




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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5547382 - 04/23/06 01:08 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Quote:

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so i may just try to convince the girls to have a three-some with me. that's not cheating right?




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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Gillette]
    #5547424 - 04/23/06 01:24 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Is flirting considered cheating? Just for the sake of a laugh or to keep the party lively.....

My grandpa was a big flirt, my gram loved him she didnt caire if he talked to and hit on other ladies, she knew he was going home with her.


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