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InvisibleBuddahKillah
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Im in a BAD situation
    #5533085 - 04/19/06 10:30 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Ok, so I have been with this chick for about 4 months now. The big problem is that im 20 and she is only 17. Her mom knows I date her and her mom is cool with it. Here is the really big problem, my GF always gets into these stages where she breaks down and starts saying "im just a bad person" and it really creeps me out. So, of corse I ask her "why ... why do you say that" and she looks like she is about to awnser me ... then she makes up some lies. She tells me that she went to a mental hospital and when she was there she told lies about people and got them sent to jail for a long time. When I asked her how she got them sent to jail.... thats when she started lieing ... she said she told them people robbed burger king and they got put away for it, which is not true. I remember her telling me one time that she got some dude sent to jail because she said he has sex with her. I think she told them that he raped her. Ok so you see the problem, I want to break up with this girl because she is a compulsive lier but im scared to now becuase I think she might send me to prison ... what the fuck should I do?


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5533135 - 04/19/06 10:43 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

How much do you love her or if any at all. If shes carrying that much bullshit and you can't seem to get through I'd get out. Theres nothing wrong with protecting yourself.

And if you are that worried she will try to put you in jail for something you didn't do then before you break it off get her to talk about how she lied to put somebody in jail and record it to save your own ass if worse comes to worse.


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: barfightlard]
    #5533233 - 04/19/06 11:15 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Well, this is really the first girl if have every loved. I love her alot. She really has a problem with lieing though. She lies all the time, not so much to me any more but, only because she knows I can see through it... not because she dont want to. She lies becuase she is scared to tell the truth because she thinks I will get mad at her. She lies and gets away with it alot so she thinks its better to lie. She is carrying a HUGE wheight on her shoulders and there is something about her past she is not telling me. Like I said... from what I can piece together, She got put in a mental hospital and she was mad... mad at everyone. And she told the people there that some older guys that she has sex with raped her... and they got sent to jail. And they are still there. This is not what she tells me though. Im almost positive this is what happend though. I just dont know what to do anymore. I dont know if she is ever going to just break down and tell me why she is so fucking guilty about things...


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5534141 - 04/19/06 04:11 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I've been with a similar girl.
In my case, the girl was a manic-depressive. Saying things such as "im just a bad person" plus compulsively lying was her way of fishing for compliments. This is how she tried to make herself feel better.
Although, I can't tell if this is your situation.
Why was she sent to a mental hospital?
Are you the first boyfriend she has had?


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5534415 - 04/19/06 05:25 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

shes just another teenaged girl with low self esteem, i dont believe a word on her skin. Brake up with her, she might go crazy but how else are you going to put it out on her? And all this about girls being manic depressive and shit, its all just ways girls use to make them selfs feel better about there negative believes. If she tries to bring you in jail, fight, dont let a stupid bitch get in your way. You can intimidate her also, just letting you know..


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: DarkFluFFy]
    #5536684 - 04/20/06 07:16 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

She was sent to a "mental hospital" as she likes to call it, because she pretended like she was crazy just to get back at her mom. Last night she told me that when she moved to my state about a year ago she got raped by some kid on her bus. At the same time she loves it when im rough with her. She keeps lieing about her past when I have already told her that I dont fucking care about it. Mabey I should just stop caring so much about her past or something? I think she might be making all this shit up for attention because she already lied to me about having a eating disorder when she never did and she told me she had a cutting problem ... but then later said she did it all for attention. It sucks being in love with a immature girl like this.


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5536739 - 04/20/06 07:59 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

How did you get involved with this basket case in the first place?


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5536956 - 04/20/06 09:49 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I hope the age of consent is 17 in your state


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5536971 - 04/20/06 09:56 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Disappear. Move somewhere far away, where you've always wanted to live. Tell family you're leaving, but not where you're going.

GO GO GO

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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: JacquesCousteau]
    #5539426 - 04/20/06 10:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I agree. Get the fuck out now, and fast!! It ain't worth it. Plenty of fish in the sea.


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5539936 - 04/21/06 01:44 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Yeah seriously move out of that relationship...

I know I lied a lot in my life and I still do but it's just to cover up how I'm turly feeling in life... It's not like I lie about things that I do or things that happened in the past...

So your gf is telling you that she has a Eeating Disorder (ED) and is a Self Injurer (SI) just to get attention from you? Wow that's pretty fucked up if you ask me... I've known quit a few people with an ED and I know a few SI'ers including myself... I also know someone that got raped before...

You know this makes me think... Someone that gets raped normally doesn't want to have sex and if she has any at all most of the times it's as fast as they can and they try to hide every aspect of sex... Your gf likes to get rough with you? That's in TOTAL contradiction iwth getting raped... I'm not saying that she didn't get raped or anything cause I wasn't there and I don't know your gf... It's just like this doesn't sound right...


Move out of that relationship as fast as you can!


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5541263 - 04/21/06 02:40 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Yes I sense bad ju-ju, as it were.

Lying in a relationship is a prime reason to move on.

This is always an option:

Have a conversation with her mother sometime when shes not around and voice your fears, tell her that you have feelings for her daughter but your scared of what might happen if you ever break up.

Covering your ass by recording her saying she lied about the rape is important.

PERSONALLY what I would do is:

Tell her she needs to fess up and get those guys out of prison. THATS FUCKED UP and she is feeling guilty for REASON.

I would not be with this person if they continued the lies.


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5541424 - 04/21/06 03:47 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

She sounds like she's really imature, inexperienced at life and has some low self-esteem. It's pretty typical with 17 year girls as far as I remember. That's why I stopped dealing with that bullshit.

How much do you love her? Do you really love her, or is it more of an attachment? That was the kind of deal I had back in the day, I was more or less scared of losing someone than actually being heartbroken. But it was hard to see at the time. Take a step back and look at things from a different perspective. Maybe spend a little less time and think about things, and then see what happens.


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: browndustin]
    #5562163 - 04/27/06 09:38 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

How the hell should I know the difference between attachment and love? Things are going alright now. I told her she has the power to get these guys out of jail but she says its too late and shit. I mean shit... for all I know this could all just be a huge lie for attention... and if it was that would not surprise me one bit. She finally told me she had never even had sex before she moved to FL which was one year ago. Then she met some dude on her bus, she thought he liked her so she took him to this place in the woods to "chill" then they started kissing and he "raped" her. I don't believe this. I once starting having sex with a girl then she said "no" so I went to pull away... then she grabbed me and pulled me back close to her again... this happened like 3 times then I finally just had sex with her.... of course afterwards when I told her I did not want a relationship she went around telling everyone I fucking raped her. Girls fuck around with this rape shit too much and it really piss's me off. My girl tells me she got 4 dudes sent to jail for rape when it never happened and then tells me she got raped for real and I'm supposed to believe her? I don't fucking think so. Why cant people just fucking be honest?


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5563966 - 04/27/06 06:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

No idea man. I agree with you. Girls are just immature like that. I don't fucking get why they do that shit.

I don't know how you can tell if it's real love or attachment. It's hard to tell. You have to take a step back, chill out, get in a different mind set and analyze things. It's real tough. I wish I could step out of my body in past relationships and realize "holy shit, this chick's wack!" and get out before the damage is done. But I stuck around, put up with shit, got hurt.... it's the shits.

I really don't know what to say about this chick. Admittedly I've been too hung up over girls to just leave them. I was their play thing. It sucked and I won't get played again. I don't know if she's playing you or what. To not even know if she's really been raped though. Dude, that's rough. How can you trust her? Tough situation. Everyone else will through in their two cents and I suppose that should help. It sounds like a really tough situation. I'd probably ask myself if I left this girl, how much would it suck? Would it really suck to call it off with her, or is she worth staying with?


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Re: Im in a BAD situation [Re: BuddahKillah]
    #5564461 - 04/27/06 08:34 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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I remember her telling me one time that she got some dude sent to jail because she said he has sex with her. I think she told them that he raped her.




i would have been speechless with fear after hearing that if i was in your shoes  :eek:

sounds like shes just desperate for attention to me. i highly doubt those jail stories are true.


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