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Hitman203
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Which girl Should i go For?
#5527548 - 04/17/06 11:20 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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first off sorry for making "This kind" of topic.
Long story short is im working full time this summer and my hours are gonna be 7-4 monday-thursday and im gonna be making $500 or more a week.
So i got loads of cash and im gonna want to cram a lot of fun in the days im not working. Do things like go down the shore and whatnot.
Anyways i know these 2 girls and they both like me. I like hanging out with both but idk which way i should go on this. also the 2 girls are close friends.
1. Shes smoking hot, moderately smart, has had serious boyfriends before. Also shes less talkative then the other. Downsides are that she has a job, her aunt is relatively strict (12:30 curfew and doubt they let her go away with me...), doesnt seem to be into "chilling" (for example i have never done something like go to the movies with her. Its almost all getting food or drinking...), has family issues (mom is a drug addict father isnt in the picture, lives with her aunt), and has gotten emotional a few times when i hung out with her over family issues (while drunk but still not needed)... Also she knows how to push my buttons and make me do things for her (stupid shit like give her a ride but still not good). My Mom likes her a lot though.
2. Shes average looking, pretty dumb, and hasnt ever been in a real relationship. But i get along with her very well and like her personality a lot. Also she will do anything with me even if its boring. This weekend she came with me to buy pants, get job applications, the supermarket, help move things in my grandmas apartment, etc with out me even asking her to. Also she is very easy to impress. I mean shes down sitting around my house watching tv which i like in a girl. Also she doesnt really have a curfew and its in highschool (her parents want her usualy home by 1 tho). And she has been allowed to go away with me before so if im her boyfriend then she definitly would be allowed to go away or whatever. Also she has no job or responsibilitys which i think is cool. Also I tell her to do things like when were drinking i always tell her to make me food and she does. She seems to like me a real lot. Also i think she would be pretty freaky in bed. She is fairly unreliable though (they both are but her to a bigger extent)
Anyways if you were me which girl would you go for? Keep in mind that if i go for one and it doesnt work out it would be inappropraite to do anything with the other... Im leaning towards #2 because im not gonna be able to drink on weeknights and because her parents are more leinant.
What do yall think?
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527564 - 04/17/06 11:24 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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The best choice is to fuck both of them.
And then.... Find another!
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527572 - 04/17/06 11:26 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Also shes less talkative then the other.
+1 to that girl.
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Also she has no job or responsibilitys which i think is cool.
No, No.
Tough situation. Cuz looks aren't everything, but a chick that's around all the time with no responsibilities and no hobbies who wants to be around you ALL THE TIME will get annoying very quickly. And do both girls know eachother? Cuz you could go for both...if you're good enough.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527578 - 04/17/06 11:26 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Number two.
But i throughly agree with toxic.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527590 - 04/17/06 11:27 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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The answer is simple. Get them both to make you a sandwich. Date whichever makes it best.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: jcdangerously]
#5527595 - 04/17/06 11:29 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: jcdangerously]
#5527598 - 04/17/06 11:29 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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damn.....
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Hitman203
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McKennaDMT said: Tough situation. Cuz looks aren't everything, but a chick that's around all the time with no responsibilities and no hobbies who wants to be around you ALL THE TIME will get annoying very quickly. And do both girls know eachother? Cuz you could go for both...if you're good enough.
There actually best friends so its definitly not possible to do both....
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: TYL3R]
#5527605 - 04/17/06 11:31 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Don't get a g/f and save your money. I agree with toxic also.
Edited by Arval (04/17/06 11:32 PM)
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527611 - 04/17/06 11:32 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Wow, so you're going to split up a friendship? How old are you? Just curious.
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Hitman 203 is a mack just like Jason Bourne.
LOL
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: rawtoxic]
#5527617 - 04/17/06 11:33 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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rawtoxic said: i hate to point out the obvious but what about this post:
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/5508281
different girl... I dont even like her as much as either of these girls. Also i called her this weekend and she didnt seem too enthused about it and we didnt even end up hanging out. Also i heard she is fucking some guy at the moment... Fuck that.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527626 - 04/17/06 11:35 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ask them to have a 3-way relationship, then you can get the best of both worlds, and have many a-threesome.
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McKennaDMT said: Wow, so you're going to split up a friendship? How old are you? Just curious.
im 19. And no im not planning on splitting up a friendship. Im only gonna go for one of them. I mean I picked up that they both like me but so what? Just cause i go out with one doesnt matter. as far as they know i have no idea about anything.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527637 - 04/17/06 11:38 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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when i was 19 my main objectives in life were: 1) get as fucked up as possible 2) get as much ass as possible 3) get as best grades as possible
oh yes, college was great.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: rawtoxic]
#5527641 - 04/17/06 11:40 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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rawtoxic said: when i was 19 my main objectives in life were: 1) get as fucked up as possible 2) get as much ass as possible 3) get as best grades as possible
oh yes, college was great.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: danamine]
#5527650 - 04/17/06 11:42 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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they both like you and are waiting for you to make a move. Being friends they have already decided that they won't make a move..will wait for you.
my guesses as this is the case.
girl one was crying...she wanted you to hold her.
girl two is desprite...she's your slave girl (slave girl).
girl number two will get old quick...as she will do everything you ask it will leave nothing to be yurned for....in a relatoinship its good to still WANT things...or it just gets old quick...
girl number 1 is my pic...she will add adventure to your life...always trying to please her...get her to do what you want....in the end your just her pawn...but thats all girl number 2 would be to YOU.
with number 1 i bet you could get her to do whatever you want in bed with some effort. number 2 well...she would be boring as fuck in bed...given time...and lots of porno lessens she might not be that bad.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: makaveli8x8]
#5527652 - 04/17/06 11:43 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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have you listened to anything i said.
drop L.
bone the bitches.
have a good time.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: rawtoxic]
#5527661 - 04/17/06 11:46 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah dude, threesome, set that shit up. Tell them they have to fuck for your love.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: rawtoxic]
#5527668 - 04/17/06 11:47 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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rawtoxic said: when i was 19 my main objectives in life were: 1) get as fucked up as possible 2) get as much ass as possible 3) get as best grades as possible
oh yes, college was great.
That was my main objective in life when i was 16... I have grown up man. Fucking a random drunk slut doesnt really do much for me anymore.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: rawtoxic]
#5527670 - 04/17/06 11:48 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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hey dude i just thought of something, you being jason bourne and all. Maybe you should attempt something only a real man would dare.
Get the 2 women together with you, and tell them exactly how you feel about both of them...tell them yes yes my presious...tell them you love them both.
see what they do
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5527690 - 04/17/06 11:54 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Girl #1 only likes you because #2 talks about what she likes about you to her all the time. If you go with #1 it'll hurt their friendship. #2 is out in the open about it so it's understood between them. She's probably already called dibs on you. #2 is easy to please because she's trying hard to be attractive and woo you, haha.
You can have the most fun with her. Keep her on her toes by remaining a challenge. She'll stop trying to impress you after she knows she has you so keep her guessing. Plus since her friend is more likely to give her 'blessing' you won't have her cock blocking or adding any extra drama. Like it would probably if you went with the first girl.
#2 would be my pick.
It leaves the door open for #1. I always go #1 with my #2 anyways.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Cowgold]
#5527769 - 04/18/06 12:14 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: Girl #1 only likes you because #2 talks about what she likes about you to her all the time. If you go with #1 it'll hurt their friendship. #2 is out in the open about it so it's understood between them. She's probably already called dibs on you. #2 is easy to please because she's trying hard to be attractive and woo you, haha.
You can have the most fun with her. Keep her on her toes by remaining a challenge. She'll stop trying to impress you after she knows she has you so keep her guessing. Plus since her friend is more likely to give her 'blessing' you won't have her cock blocking or adding any extra drama. Like it would probably if you went with the first girl.
#2 would be my pick.
It leaves the door open for #1. I always go #1 with my #2 anyways.
OMG Best answer EVER!!! Sounds exactly right.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5528419 - 04/18/06 07:01 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Hitman203 said: Fucking a random drunk slut doesnt really do much for me anymore.
Send them to my house willing and naked.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Cowgold]
#5528865 - 04/18/06 10:28 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: Girl #1 only likes you because #2 talks about what she likes about you to her all the time. If you go with #1 it'll hurt their friendship. #2 is out in the open about it so it's understood between them. She's probably already called dibs on you. #2 is easy to please because she's trying hard to be attractive and woo you, haha.
You can have the most fun with her. Keep her on her toes by remaining a challenge. She'll stop trying to impress you after she knows she has you so keep her guessing. Plus since her friend is more likely to give her 'blessing' you won't have her cock blocking or adding any extra drama. Like it would probably if you went with the first girl.
#2 would be my pick.
It leaves the door open for #1. I always go #1 with my #2 anyways.
What do you mean by the last sentence?
And yea im pretty sure im gonna pick #2. seems like it would be pretty relaxed all around and i wouldnt have to put much effort in. Its tough to pass on #1 though because shes so hot
Edited by Hitman203 (04/18/06 10:29 AM)
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5528866 - 04/18/06 10:29 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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potty humor
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Cowgold]
#5528999 - 04/18/06 11:18 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Also she has no job or responsibilitys which i think is cool. Also I tell her to do things like when were drinking i always tell her to make me food and she does. She seems to like me a real lot. Also i think she would be pretty freaky in bed. She is fairly unreliable though (they both are but her to a bigger extent)
She's unreliable, and doesnt have a job or responsabilities --- thats a upprise. And why is not having a job 'cool', wouldnt it be nice if she could pay her own way now and then?
the 2nd girl sounds like she's more of a 'needy' person who attaches onto you for lack of having her own friends/life/etc to define herself by and will probably end up in a very 'needy' relationship which is NOT cool.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: kaniz]
#5529156 - 04/18/06 12:00 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Here's what I think you should do. Distinguish which girl you can keep steady conversations with, and consider that one. It sucks having a girlfriend whom you don't really know how to talk for extended periods of time. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
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^^ Yep.
Things I look for in a 'relationship'.
a: Compatability, b: Enough things in common to have common interests c: Enough differences to keep things interesting, if they are 100% clone of you, thats just damn boring d: Has a job, has responsabilities : I want someone that knows whats going on in their life and where they are going, I have a pretty good idea myself, and dont want no slacker riding on my coattails e: Ability to carry a conversation with, nothing sucks more when after the 4th date, you spend most of the time going 'hrmm'.. and 'uhh, so, uhh.. nice weather'
Theres alot more on my list than that of course, but really, it still confuses me to why having no job and no responsabiltiies is a 'good thing', thats a major turnoff in my book.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: kaniz]
#5529478 - 04/18/06 01:11 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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kaniz said:
Theres alot more on my list than that of course, but really, it still confuses me to why having no job and no responsabiltiies is a 'good thing', thats a major turnoff in my book.
cause shes 17. look at it from my perspective. Im gonna want to be doing things on the weekend and i would like to have sex while im doing it. If the girl has a job thats not as possible. Also like if i go to the movies with a girl im gonna pay for her anyways... I see other guys dont but thats not who i am. So really it would just be a deterent to doing what i want to do. thats how i see it at least.
Cause im gonna have a full time job, then school full time so if she has a lot of her own shit going on then theres only so much time to be together....
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5529605 - 04/18/06 01:43 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ok then, I guess considering the age I could understand.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: kaniz]
#5529627 - 04/18/06 01:51 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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this is what id do, fuck them both and tell each one not to tell the other one because it would hurt thier feelings
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Hitman203]
#5529633 - 04/18/06 01:54 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I don't know if I could ever be with a girl I considered dumb. I'd have to go with #1.
If you're worried about her manipulating you, just stand up for yourself a bit more, if she doesn't like that, then fuck it, it was worth a try.
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Re: Which girl Should i go For? [Re: Phluck]
#5529990 - 04/18/06 03:47 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Phluck said: I don't know if I could ever be with a girl I considered dumb. I'd have to go with #1.
If you're worried about her manipulating you, just stand up for yourself a bit more, if she doesn't like that, then fuck it, it was worth a try.
true. not so much manipulating but the fact that i never really hang with her unless im drinking makes it seem to me that its more like what i can do for her rather then her wanting to be around me you know?
And honestly her being dumb doesnt bother me at all lol. Im in it to have fun not discuss politics or something
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