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I don't know why she calls me.
    #5498237 - 04/09/06 10:06 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Ok, so i have a friend, she is super hot, i like her a lot, but i never made a move. So i am in the friends zone, so be it. Whatever...

But the wierdest thing she does.

She gets crazy drunk and then goes like places with people, or leaves with them, and then she calls me up and is like crying and scared cause she doesn't know where she is, and she wants me to pick her up. So i ask her where she is and she doesn't know. So shes is going to call me back when she finds out. So i am like wtf. She doesn't ever call back either. So i call her back and am like shit maybe shes being raped or something right now, no answer. This has happened a few times now. These types of calls.

The thing is, she has a BF! i don't understand why she doesn't call the BF! The BF lets her party and what not with others, hes not a controlling punk, and is ok and reasonable. I know she doesn't cheat and stuff, but its like everytime she is in situations like this, she calls me.... and not him.

I don't understand it.

I have known her for 6 years now. This is puzzling me.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498249 - 04/09/06 10:10 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Maybe she just really likes fucking with your head? Women are good at that. Don't worry about it man, she's probably fine, if not she should have read "the boy who cried wolf" when she was younger. :wink:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5498257 - 04/09/06 10:12 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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mattzdope said:
Maybe she just really likes fucking with your head? Women are good at that.




:lol:


Also, I would tell her that she really worries you with these phone calls, and that in the future, if she calls, tell her to know where she is first, if she actually needs help.  It's not that difficult to find something like that out, and her leaving you hanging like that is rude.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5498258 - 04/09/06 10:13 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I mean yeah, i don't worry about it to much, cause everytime she has made it home safely some how.

But why call me? You know? Shes got a BF. Would you not call the BF if you were in trouble?
Or GF if you were a guy?

I mean, I am willing to help her, if needed, i wouldn't want to see her getting hurt.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498264 - 04/09/06 10:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Simple answer to that. You probably enable yourself to be her personal tampon, that's why. Not trying to be rude bro, I've been there myself.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498267 - 04/09/06 10:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Some girls like drama, and involving everyone in their lives in their drama.  It's unfortunate, but some people thrive on that shit.  My guess is, it's probably not romantic, or she'd call you back when she said she would.  She's probably just seeing if you WOULD come get her, and takes satisfaction in the fact that you would.

Girls suck :shrug:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498278 - 04/09/06 10:21 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Well, i was still up, and still partying... So it wasn't like she woke me up.

It was like 4 am though.


I really don't enable her to use me. I don't let anyone use me. I am not really concerend if its romantic or not.

She likes to hang with me i know that. She usually picks up the tab most of the time too...

I personally don't deal with drama. My life is pretty undramatic. She knows that.

But i still can't fathom why she calls me instead of her significant other that she lives with.



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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498281 - 04/09/06 10:22 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I'll tell you something and you can take it how you want bro. It pays to be a good guy, however it never pays to be "the nice guy", and there's a very thin line. You have to be a prick sometimes. I'm going to reach a bit and guess that she also calls you to talk about problems she's having with her boyfriend?


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498285 - 04/09/06 10:24 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

Liquidkick said:
She likes to hang with me i know that.  She usually picks up the tab most of the time too... 

But i still can't fathom why she calls me instead of her significant other that she lives with.




Good deal man. :smile: :thumbup: Should have phrased that better and used the term "emotional tampon."


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5498299 - 04/09/06 10:28 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

actually she doesn't call me to talk to me about her BF.

She never does that type of stuff with me.

But we do talk about stuff in general about life. Jobs, people, goals, etc that type of stuff.

I have helped her significantly change her life in certain parts for the better.

Shes helped me before, i have helped her. We're pretty equal, and i don't really know about the "emotional tampoon" you talk about. I don't really see myself as that for her at all.

I don't put up with drama crap, and everyone that i know, knows that.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498307 - 04/09/06 10:31 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Sorry man, guess I always expect the worst out of people. :lol: Sounds like a pretty good friendship you have with her, other than the random drunken phone calls. :thumbup:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5498317 - 04/09/06 10:36 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

yeah, its a pretty good friendship.

I am content at where its at right now.

But i am also trying to understand. Why me and not the BF for these crazy calls?

It can't just be some random drunkeness can it? This has happneed a few times, so there must be something going on in that brain of hers.

if i was in deep shit, i would be calling my GF. Depends though if i need some muscle. I would then call the bros for some back up.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498366 - 04/09/06 11:00 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I think it is showing that her friendship with you is deeper than her friendship with her boyfriend.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498389 - 04/09/06 11:08 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

oh man you're that guy?? you dont wanna be "that guy" .... that guy is pathetic.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5498417 - 04/09/06 11:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

+ATTENTION WHORE


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #5498420 - 04/09/06 11:17 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Well, I don't know her so maybe she's not, but if she just does it to fuck with you then that's gay.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #5498498 - 04/09/06 11:40 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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HELLA_TIGHT said:
+ATTENTION WHORE



/agree
ive never had a female friend like this thank god.
i know people who have...i think the reason i havent had female friends like this is i cant be friends with women like that.
either were fkn or were not.
if were not then we are just friends but i make it understood that i dont care about them any more than my guy friends.
i think you like her alittle more than you let on or you wouldnt be putting up with her crap.
if one of you homeboys called u at 4am and asked u that kind of stuff and was crying youd prolly tell him to call a cab...or to go fk himself for calling so late.
just stop giving this girl special treatment and shell stop...or she may come on to you like a drunken prom-date. either way youll win


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5499394 - 04/10/06 10:41 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Man, I'm getting out of this situation as we speak. Put distance between you and her, don't help her out in those situations. Destructive behavior craving for attention. She needs to learn that if she does shit like that she has to pay the price(s) no matter how bad it may sound. I've gotten one of my friends out of at least 10 or 15 situations like this and it's been less than a year. I told her I wasn't going to do it anymore...over time they begin to understand.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5499405 - 04/10/06 10:47 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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I really don't enable her to use me. I don't let anyone use me.




By answering the cellphone at 4am entitles you to be "used."  If you know she gets home alright everytime and you know she will not call you back after the first time, don't answer your phone.  If you're not getting anything out of this whole ordeal, other than stress, then don't answer the phone.  Simple.  Only put up with the female bullshit if you're getting the female benefits... :smirk:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liz]
    #5499414 - 04/10/06 10:49 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Liz said:


Girls suck :shrug:




well not enough do :wink:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: demiu5]
    #5499423 - 04/10/06 10:51 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

lol this is kinda funny to me cuz ive never been in this situation... what you should do is give her a taste of her own medicine, call her up 4am one night and pretend to cry and blah blah blah you know what to say....


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5499555 - 04/10/06 11:46 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

mattzdope said:
I'll tell you something and you can take it how you want bro. It pays to be a good guy, however it never pays to be "the nice guy", and there's a very thin line. You have to be a prick sometimes. I'm going to reach a bit and guess that she also calls you to talk about problems she's having with her boyfriend?





I could not explain it better than this.

She's making a punk out of you.

Try calling HER ass all fucked up at 4AM and see how down she is with that!


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5499777 - 04/10/06 12:42 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

Liquidkick said:
Ok, so i have a friend, she is super hot, i like her a lot, but i never made a move. So i am in the friends zone, so be it. Whatever...





Well there's your problem right there. You obviously don't want to be in the friends zone. If you did just want to be friends with this girl and nothing more her calling you wouldn't even raise your eyebrow.

But it has become significant because you want her to think of you as more than a friend. You want her to want you the way you want her.

I don't know what is motivating her to call you like this, but I would guess it is a combination of two things. 1) She is not blind and it is clear that you like her, and she is ok with making you feel needed. She has found some sort of way to ask you to be there for her that is somehow intimate yet safe for the both of you. 2) She is being your typical selfish spoiled little girl, and she is using you. She has her boyfriend, who for whatever reason she feels like she can't call when she is drunk and scared. And then she has you, and she knows she can call you when she is flipping out and you will make her feel better.

I understand that you like her and it is easy to want to help her out, but if she is stringing you along and making you feel confused and crappy, you gotta put your foot down in one way or another. If not, she will go on making you feel like shit indefinitely, and she might not even realize it. If the calls really aren't bothering you at all, then its not an issue. But it sounds like they are making you kind of emotionally confused. You could either insist that she stop, or you could just tell her it doesn't really make sense to you why she calls you like this and you think it is crossing some sort of boundary.

Good luck, you seem like a good dude and I'm sure if you keep it real she will respect you and respond well.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Left Nut City]
    #5499794 - 04/10/06 12:46 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Funny thing is i have drunk dialed her before being an idiot, but not in the crying wolf sense. I only answered the phone cause i was still partying. And was about to head home for the night anyway. i was still up so it was no biggie, i actually thought she wanted to party when she called me. I have had some late night party sessions with her before.

The times she has called before, if i am up, i'll pick up, but if i am not i won't.

I haven't talked to her for 2 weeks before the drunken crying call.

I don't really want to distance myself, cause i have essays i have to write and i need her help with them.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5499828 - 04/10/06 12:59 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Well if it's a value for value relationship, and you feel you are being compensated on your end then there is no trouble. Once in a while though give her the pimp hand and show her who has the balls in the relationship.


Trust me, it works.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Left Nut City]
    #5500078 - 04/10/06 02:32 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Great advice! :thumbup:


Show her you won't put up with her shit, if that's what you want.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5500297 - 04/10/06 03:51 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Simple answer to that. You probably enable yourself to be her personal tampon, that's why. Not trying to be rude bro, I've been there myself.




Exactly man, I've been there and done that, fuck it sucks man, get out of being her personal tampon as matt oh-so eloquently put it.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: drtyfrnk]
    #5500307 - 04/10/06 03:53 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

She needs to be choke slammed the fuck out.

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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #5500322 - 04/10/06 04:00 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

I'll talk to her about it. It doesn;t bother me though, i am just wondering wtf is going on in her head.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5500565 - 04/10/06 05:26 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)





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    #5500573 - 04/10/06 05:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

...and Hella changes his avatar (back) again.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5500797 - 04/10/06 06:32 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Next time she calls all drunk and crying just be like hey baby wana fuck? What you got to lose?


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: QuantumMeltdown]
    #5501279 - 04/10/06 08:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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Next time she calls all drunk and crying just be like hey baby wana fuck? What you got to lose?




Agreed.

I'd have done that long ago if I were in his shoes.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5501427 - 04/10/06 09:04 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

RE: Liquidkick

I only read the first post but this is my take.

She calls you for support because you're a sure thing... She gets drunk feels vulnerable and isn't getting the responses she wants from who she is with and calls you for support.  When you respond the way you do she feels better and no longer needs you. 


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: QuantumMeltdown]
    #5503296 - 04/11/06 12:17 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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QuantumMeltdown said:
Next time she calls all drunk and crying just be like hey baby wana fuck? What you got to lose?




:rofl2: Use those exact words, how could she say no?


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5503377 - 04/11/06 12:37 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

If you're good friends with her, couldn't you just ask her why she calls you?


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: cybrbeast]
    #5503551 - 04/11/06 01:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

He'll never get a straight answer that way.  :smile:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5506017 - 04/11/06 10:27 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

So i talked to her today. I guess she got in a huge argument with the BF, and tried to run away, she gave me some sob story of like she really loves him crap.

She apologized for calling me and not calling back. Then she wanted me to go to the strip club with her, and she would buy me drinks all night long, but i declined.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5506640 - 04/12/06 05:43 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Why would she want to take you to a strip club. Is she bisexual? Or just for kicks? Or is she just playing mind games on you? She sounds like a strange and messed up creature.
But then again, why say no to free drinks and naked girls?  :grin:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5506660 - 04/12/06 05:53 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

sounds like she knows you like her and she likes you, but she knows she cant be with you.

So trying to make you feel better about the situation she confides in you, wants to go to strip clubs with you, because she knows she makes you feel good.

what she doesn't is that it confuses you and fucks with your mind.

OR shes just fucking with you

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I would guess it is a combination of two things. 1) She is not blind and it is clear that you like her, and she is ok with making you feel needed. She has found some sort of way to ask you to be there for her that is somehow intimate yet safe for the both of you. 2) She is being your typical selfish spoiled little girl, and she is using you. She has her boyfriend, who for whatever reason she feels like she can't call when she is drunk and scared. And then she has you, and she knows she can call you when she is flipping out and you will make her feel better.





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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Todcasil]
    #5507103 - 04/12/06 08:49 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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OR shes just fucking with you




I'm pretty sure that's it.  :grin:

Strip clubs are the most overrated thing imaginable.  Pay lots of money to have tits waved in your face...tits you can't touch.  Probably one of the most frustrating things ever....hahahah.  I'd rather work to get a pair all to myself. :smirk:

And good job not going, probably a good idea.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5507294 - 04/12/06 09:51 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

i like going to strip clubs while on loads of drugs and wonder whats going on
too bad i spend all my money on the drugs and can't get any lap dances :frown:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5508368 - 04/12/06 02:25 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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I'll tell you something and you can take it how you want bro. It pays to be a good guy, however it never pays to be "the nice guy", and there's a very thin line. You have to be a prick sometimes. I'm going to reach a bit and guess that she also calls you to talk about problems she's having with her boyfriend?




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actually she doesn't call me to talk to me about her BF.

She never does that type of stuff with me.







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So i talked to her today.  I guess she got in a huge argument with the BF, and tried to run away, she gave me some sob story of like she really loves him crap.





Which is it?  :thumbdown::thumbdown:

Drop it like its hot.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5508398 - 04/12/06 02:35 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Because she is a penis,
stay away from her.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Ego Death]
    #5512466 - 04/13/06 02:05 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Ok, she didn't go into details about the BF situation, just said that she got in an arugment, and then tried to run away thats it. Then the convo subject switched right away.

And yeah you were right that she was having problems. But yeah she is bi. And yeah i turned her down to go to the club with her and get free drinks, i got schoolz yo.

I spent the day with her yesterday at the dog park, funny shit though is that she is going to NY with some dude tomorrow, and her bf doesn't know about it. Oh and like yeah she bought me a nice steak dinner at timberlodge last night.

W00t.

I don't mind the friends zone cause she likes to treat me with dinners and such, but if the opportunity arrises and i fuck the living shit outta her, so be it.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5512476 - 04/13/06 02:07 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Sounds like she's gonna be "getting the living shit fucked outta her" by that dude whilst in NY. :grin:

You are her male girlfriend.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5512488 - 04/13/06 02:12 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Sounds like it to me too, oh well.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5513051 - 04/13/06 05:24 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Man, this girl has bad news written all over her.

The second there is a problem she runs off with some new dude? And then she has you on the side as a "friend". She likes guy attention. She likes having a harem of guys at her disposal. It makes her feel desirable.

If she buys you free stuff then go ahead and take advantage of it. But, definately don't fall for this girl.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5513397 - 04/13/06 07:09 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

i read the 1st page and more or less scanned the other 2 and i don't think anyone had the novel idea that occured to me when i read maybe the 1st three responses.

why doesn't liquidkick just ask the girl what the fuck is up with this shit?
it's that fucking simple.
don't get a bunch of internet strangers to speculate based on the flimsy details provided.
fucking ask her right out... preferably not during one of the crazy calls, tho.

as an aside, i have never had anyone do that kind of shit and have never seen/heard it happen to anyone either. that is a pretty fucked thing to do to anyone more than say, once.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: debianlinux]
    #5513430 - 04/13/06 07:17 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

why doesn't liquidkick just ask the girl what the fuck is up with this shit?
it's that fucking simple.


She will not give him a straight answer. I doubt she even knows the straight answer as girls like this often lie to themselves.

He's a part of her harem. She knows she is hot and she knows he would fuck her if given the chance. She gets off on this knowledge. She likes the attention.


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: debianlinux]
    #5513950 - 04/13/06 09:50 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

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If you're good friends with her, couldn't you just ask her why she calls you?




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He'll never get a straight answer that way.





I replied with that.  :grin:


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5517676 - 04/15/06 12:17 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

The thing is man, if you wanted to "fuck the living hell out of her", then you should have gone to the strip club with her. It sounds like she's sending you the signals but she wants you to make the first move. Thing is, girls don't like guys that are passive and want the girl to do the work. She offered the strip club thing as an easy way to lead into sex. If you'd gone with her, your chances of getting with her would be pretty high... but since you declined, she's getting impatient and is looking elsewhere.

The thing is man, if you like a girl and she throws something like that out there for you, you gotta jump on it. Eating out with her at the steakhouse is great, but eating her out after the steak house is better. You gotta have confidence man. Confidence is key, if you act like "the nice guy" like KOTT said, that's all you'll ever be... a shoulder to cry on that she comes to when boy #1 and she are having problems, but if you put a little effort into trying to get with her, your chances will increase.

I'm not trying to make you feel bad man, but I used to be like that in a lot of ways, I had a thousand girl friends but no girlfriend... and it sucks..but if you go out on a limb once in a while, especially when she's throwing you a bone or a strip club invite in this case, your chance of getting with her will increase. Just try to take it to the next level, you obviously want to or this whole ordeal wouldn't matter. You obviously want us to tell you that she likes you, you were prodding for that response with the constant asking "why is she calling me and not her BF"...but that's okay, we all want a little reassurance sometimes, you just gotta take a little initiative.

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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
    #5517889 - 04/15/06 01:49 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Why not ask her?


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Senor_Doobie]
    #5517896 - 04/15/06 01:52 AM (17 years, 9 months ago)

Take a chance and try something!


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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: danamine]
    #5519139 - 04/15/06 01:34 PM (17 years, 9 months ago)

alright, well i have thought things over. I think i will just avoid. And reap the benefits of the friendship

I got this new asian hottie i want instead.

Thanks for the comments though everyone.


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