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Liquidkick
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I don't know why she calls me.
#5498237 - 04/09/06 10:06 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Ok, so i have a friend, she is super hot, i like her a lot, but i never made a move. So i am in the friends zone, so be it. Whatever...
But the wierdest thing she does.
She gets crazy drunk and then goes like places with people, or leaves with them, and then she calls me up and is like crying and scared cause she doesn't know where she is, and she wants me to pick her up. So i ask her where she is and she doesn't know. So shes is going to call me back when she finds out. So i am like wtf. She doesn't ever call back either. So i call her back and am like shit maybe shes being raped or something right now, no answer. This has happened a few times now. These types of calls.
The thing is, she has a BF! i don't understand why she doesn't call the BF! The BF lets her party and what not with others, hes not a controlling punk, and is ok and reasonable. I know she doesn't cheat and stuff, but its like everytime she is in situations like this, she calls me.... and not him.
I don't understand it.
I have known her for 6 years now. This is puzzling me.
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498249 - 04/09/06 10:10 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Maybe she just really likes fucking with your head? Women are good at that. Don't worry about it man, she's probably fine, if not she should have read "the boy who cried wolf" when she was younger.
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mattzdope said: Maybe she just really likes fucking with your head? Women are good at that.

Also, I would tell her that she really worries you with these phone calls, and that in the future, if she calls, tell her to know where she is first, if she actually needs help. It's not that difficult to find something like that out, and her leaving you hanging like that is rude.
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Liquidkick
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I mean yeah, i don't worry about it to much, cause everytime she has made it home safely some how.
But why call me? You know? Shes got a BF. Would you not call the BF if you were in trouble? Or GF if you were a guy?
I mean, I am willing to help her, if needed, i wouldn't want to see her getting hurt.
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498264 - 04/09/06 10:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Simple answer to that. You probably enable yourself to be her personal tampon, that's why. Not trying to be rude bro, I've been there myself.
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498267 - 04/09/06 10:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Some girls like drama, and involving everyone in their lives in their drama. It's unfortunate, but some people thrive on that shit. My guess is, it's probably not romantic, or she'd call you back when she said she would. She's probably just seeing if you WOULD come get her, and takes satisfaction in the fact that you would.
Girls suck
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Liquidkick
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498278 - 04/09/06 10:21 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well, i was still up, and still partying... So it wasn't like she woke me up.
It was like 4 am though.
I really don't enable her to use me. I don't let anyone use me. I am not really concerend if its romantic or not.
She likes to hang with me i know that. She usually picks up the tab most of the time too...
I personally don't deal with drama. My life is pretty undramatic. She knows that.
But i still can't fathom why she calls me instead of her significant other that she lives with.
Edited by Liquidkick (04/09/06 10:23 PM)
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498281 - 04/09/06 10:22 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'll tell you something and you can take it how you want bro. It pays to be a good guy, however it never pays to be "the nice guy", and there's a very thin line. You have to be a prick sometimes. I'm going to reach a bit and guess that she also calls you to talk about problems she's having with her boyfriend?
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498285 - 04/09/06 10:24 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Liquidkick said: She likes to hang with me i know that. She usually picks up the tab most of the time too...
But i still can't fathom why she calls me instead of her significant other that she lives with.
Good deal man. Should have phrased that better and used the term "emotional tampon."
-------------------- m00nshine is currently vacationing in Maui. Rumor has it he got rolled by drunken natives and is currently prostituting himself in order to pay for airfare back to the mainland but he's having trouble juggling a hairon addiction. He won't be back for a long while.
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Liquidkick
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actually she doesn't call me to talk to me about her BF.
She never does that type of stuff with me.
But we do talk about stuff in general about life. Jobs, people, goals, etc that type of stuff.
I have helped her significantly change her life in certain parts for the better.
Shes helped me before, i have helped her. We're pretty equal, and i don't really know about the "emotional tampoon" you talk about. I don't really see myself as that for her at all.
I don't put up with drama crap, and everyone that i know, knows that.
Edited by Liquidkick (04/09/06 10:30 PM)
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498307 - 04/09/06 10:31 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Sorry man, guess I always expect the worst out of people. Sounds like a pretty good friendship you have with her, other than the random drunken phone calls.
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Liquidkick
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yeah, its a pretty good friendship.
I am content at where its at right now.
But i am also trying to understand. Why me and not the BF for these crazy calls?
It can't just be some random drunkeness can it? This has happneed a few times, so there must be something going on in that brain of hers.
if i was in deep shit, i would be calling my GF. Depends though if i need some muscle. I would then call the bros for some back up.
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498366 - 04/09/06 11:00 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I think it is showing that her friendship with you is deeper than her friendship with her boyfriend.
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498389 - 04/09/06 11:08 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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oh man you're that guy?? you dont wanna be "that guy" .... that guy is pathetic.
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5498417 - 04/09/06 11:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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+ATTENTION WHORE
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#5498420 - 04/09/06 11:17 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well, I don't know her so maybe she's not, but if she just does it to fuck with you then that's gay.
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#5498498 - 04/09/06 11:40 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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HELLA_TIGHT said: +ATTENTION WHORE
/agree ive never had a female friend like this thank god. i know people who have...i think the reason i havent had female friends like this is i cant be friends with women like that. either were fkn or were not. if were not then we are just friends but i make it understood that i dont care about them any more than my guy friends. i think you like her alittle more than you let on or you wouldnt be putting up with her crap. if one of you homeboys called u at 4am and asked u that kind of stuff and was crying youd prolly tell him to call a cab...or to go fk himself for calling so late. just stop giving this girl special treatment and shell stop...or she may come on to you like a drunken prom-date. either way youll win
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5499394 - 04/10/06 10:41 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Man, I'm getting out of this situation as we speak. Put distance between you and her, don't help her out in those situations. Destructive behavior craving for attention. She needs to learn that if she does shit like that she has to pay the price(s) no matter how bad it may sound. I've gotten one of my friends out of at least 10 or 15 situations like this and it's been less than a year. I told her I wasn't going to do it anymore...over time they begin to understand.
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liquidkick]
#5499405 - 04/10/06 10:47 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I really don't enable her to use me. I don't let anyone use me.
By answering the cellphone at 4am entitles you to be "used." If you know she gets home alright everytime and you know she will not call you back after the first time, don't answer your phone. If you're not getting anything out of this whole ordeal, other than stress, then don't answer the phone. Simple. Only put up with the female bullshit if you're getting the female benefits...
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Re: I don't know why she calls me. [Re: Liz]
#5499414 - 04/10/06 10:49 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Liz said:
Girls suck
well not enough do
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