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KingOftheThing
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omfg
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i think i like this chick i didnt think id end up liking in that way. so do i make a move now or wait till i get more signals...ya know cuz i fear the rejection
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WeAreAllOne
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stall.
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habitat0789
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say something be4 you lose your chance/balls. you'll regret it if you dont. i know i do...
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KingOftheThing
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yeah i always just dont say anything if i dont know for sure...that way i never get turned down
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thats the way i am... and it's not the best philosophy. Time to adopt a new one mang, embrace the change and your new woman. ~*bickity bam*~
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KingOftheThing
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umm i dunno
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Krishna
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is it the heavy-set girl from your work that you said you flirted with just for fun?
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hmmmm tough, I'd say go for it, really rejection isn't all that bad, and at least you'd know for sure right?
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TheDude
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STAL +3
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vegitative
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Re: omfg [Re: TheDude]
#5476476 - 04/03/06 08:24 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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say something man, I went totally crazy over some girl last year but I never said anything... now I'm regretting that decision really bad.
At worst it just doesn't work out and life goes back to normal ya know?
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DNKYD
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Yeah, go for it. You'll find out down the road, when you no longer have the opportunity to say something, that she had a thing for you. It's happened to me before, multiple times, and I regret every single one of them
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Silversoul
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i think i like this chick i didnt think id end up liking in that way. so do i make a move now or wait till i get more signals...ya know cuz i fear the rejection
Jesus dude, you sound like you're in middle school. Just fuck her and get on with it.
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RandalFlagg
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Paradigm said: Jesus dude, you sound like you're in middle school. Just fuck her and get on with it.
I'll pass her a note if he wants me to.
KOTT: What happened to your slutty ex that just wanted sex?
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KingOftheThing
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Gillette said: hmmmm tough, I'd say go for it, really rejection isn't all that bad, and at least you'd know for sure right?
who really wants to know for sure??
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RandalFlagg
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Gillette said: really rejection isn't all that bad
Wrong! Rejection feels like somebody takes your soul and crumples it up into ball, throws it on the ground, spits on it, kicks it around, and then laughs.
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Silversoul
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
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Gillette said: really rejection isn't all that bad
Wrong! Rejection feels like somebody takes your soul and crumples it up into ball, throws it on the ground, spits on it, kicks it around, and then laughs.
Depends how strong your feelings are for the girl. I say it's better to go for it before you get too attached.
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KingOftheThing
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RandalFlagg said:
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Paradigm said: Jesus dude, you sound like you're in middle school. Just fuck her and get on with it.
I'll pass her a note if he wants me to.
KOTT: What happened to your slutty ex that just wanted sex?
i let her blow me in a bar parking lot. then i refused to talk to her and she is psycho calling me/txting me/imming me. then she came up to my work and offered me a 3some. i was like whoa biatch u are crazy, back off. now im just trying to avoid her.
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RandalFlagg
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Paradigm said: I say it's better to go for it after she's inebriated.
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KingOftheThing
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RandalFlagg said:
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Paradigm said: one day i may be able to kiss a girl
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Le_Canard
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Just come right out and tell her! The worst she could say is no, and that won't kill you, honest!
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Gillette
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KingOftheThing said:
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RandalFlagg said:
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Paradigm said: one day i may be able to kiss a girl
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RandalFlagg
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KingOftheThing said: i let her blow me in a bar parking lot. then i refused to talk to her and she is psycho calling me/txting me/imming me. then she came up to my work and offered me a 3some.
Do you want to trade lives? I've always wanted to be 8 feet tall.
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KingOftheThing
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lol its not a party being this tall believe me. there are a whole bunch of chicks who probably wouldnt even consider dating u cuz of the height thing
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KingOftheThing
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well despite the poll ive decided to not say anything to the girl in question. just because it wouldnt be worth making things uncomfortable if she aint interested. i'll just keep things how they are now. which, ok it may be the pussy move, but its the smart one. plus ive decided its a ridiculous crush anyway, and that im just going to get over it. there will be other chicks coming along soon enough anyway, spring always brings out the womens
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RandalFlagg
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Not a bad idea. Sit back and watch what she does. If nothing happens...there are many more women out there. If something happens...go for it.
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KingOftheThing
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yeah...that's the plan
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KingOftheThing
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Re: omfg [Re: Krishna]
#5479534 - 04/04/06 03:16 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Krishna said: is it the heavy-set girl from your work that you said you flirted with just for fun?
heck no
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goobler
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you know, you just might miss out on a good thing
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danamine
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What if she's just sitting there waiting for you to make a move. Moreso, what if five years from now you look back at this moment and realize that if only you'd done something, your life might be completely different? Think of it this way, how much worse would your life be if you asked her and she said no. How much better could your life be if you asked and she said yes? Honestly man, rethink your decision, we're presented these opportunities in life and if we don't take them, it's really a shame.
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Roadkill
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You need to get your confidence up...
and just tell the gal how you feel.
Say something witty like...
You know what...you would look good going out to dinner with me.
^^^ that line has never let me down...ever.
You really have nothing to lose...
its all part of the dating ritual game!~
Even if she says no...at least you took a chance.
and you won't have regrets later.
good luck to you!~
tc
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KingOftheThing
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Roadkill said:
You know what...you would look good going out to dinner with me.
man my lines never work ...i guess chicks dont respond to : "Nice shoes wanna fuck?" and "Is that a mirror in your pocket? becuase i can see myself in ur pants" 
id have to kick my own ass if i actually used pickup lines
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Cubenisseur
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say something be4 you lose your chance/balls. you'll regret it if you dont. i know i do...
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danamine said: What if she's just sitting there waiting for you to make a move. Moreso, what if five years from now you look back at this moment and realize that if only you'd done something, your life might be completely different? Think of it this way, how much worse would your life be if you asked her and she said no. How much better could your life be if you asked and she said yes? Honestly man, rethink your decision, we're presented these opportunities in life and if we don't take them, it's really a shame.
-Dan
Dan-a-mite!
exactly what I said last night.
Kott: maybe try nice shoes and then just walk away....always works for me.
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KingOftheThing
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Gillette said:
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danamine said: What if she's just sitting there waiting for you to make a move.
well then i hope she has bigger balls than i do
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Kada
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I married the chick i didnt expect to fall in love with. It was the best, cause we ended up being good friends first.
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KingOftheThing
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Re: omfg [Re: Kada]
#5480453 - 04/04/06 08:15 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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i dated a chick for 3yrs who i was really good friends with first...she ended up being a fucking lunatic
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Hamstercut
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Re: omfg [Re: Kada]
#5480454 - 04/04/06 08:15 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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ask her to shlob ur knob and force her head down on ur waist, if she resists. it is futile to proceed further.
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RandalFlagg
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I have decided to change my advice. But, it is dependent upon more information.
Has this girl thrown any signals at you? Elaborate some more. Maybe it would be advantageous to make a move if the circumstances are right.
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KingOftheThing
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nahh she really hasnt sent me any signals unless im blind to signals... i think like i said, im just gonna forget about it. see posting about it has made me think about it...and really it was a stupid idea to begin with. see like a week ago my brain was all "this chick has an amazing personality and is attractive, wakeup and be attracted to her!!!!" however after weighing that with the numerous reasons to just leave things how they are...ive decided to leave things how they are.
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RandalFlagg
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If she hasn't sent any signals to you, was it because she might be shy herself? Does she seem all nervous and stuff around you? What is the extent of your contact with her? Do you guys talk much?
I don't know why I'm trying to give advice....I am horrible with women.
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KingOftheThing
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lol its cool man im no don juan myself.. i think this thread makes that very evident
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KingOftheThing
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randall dude...i had this email all typed out..explaining the crush i had on her, how it was innocent and not some crazy love declaration. just that i may be attracted to her...anyway i couldnt send it. i just saved it to drafts.. i was hovering my mouse over the send button. i was even drunk, still couldnt do it. im really not as worried about the rejection anymore its more worrying about messing up the friendship
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goobler
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the friendship is on its way out, ,you have thoughts of her on a different level....it will eat at you...go for it!
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KingOftheThing
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Re: omfg [Re: goobler]
#5493716 - 04/08/06 04:50 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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maybe ill just get trashed and drunk dial her
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RandalFlagg
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KingOftheThing said: randall dude...i had this email all typed out..explaining the crush i had on her, how it was innocent and not some crazy love declaration. just that i may be attracted to her...anyway i couldnt send it. i just saved it to drafts.. i was hovering my mouse over the send button. i was even drunk, still couldnt do it.
Dude, sending a sappy letter like that is probably the worst thing that you could do. I can understand the desire to write and send something like that though. I have felt this desire myself before when faced with a strong crush. But, most women will immediately peg you as either pathetic or a creepy stalker if you send something like that. You need to find another way to get her attention.
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KingOftheThing
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lol good advice. maybe i almost shot myself in the foot
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RandalFlagg
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You just almost blew that fucker clean off.
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goobler
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you guys are idiots
KOTT: iof you like her(when you are sober) and feel there might be something more than a casual relationship, something you would like to persue for a lasting relationship, go for it...if you want in her pants don't the friendship will be better for you
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RandalFlagg
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Re: omfg [Re: goobler]
#5493777 - 04/08/06 05:06 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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He obviously wants to go for it....he is just flummoxed on how to proceed.
A sappy e-mail would have been the death-knell. No woman is ever going to positively respond to something like that.
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goobler
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oh, you are so young
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RandalFlagg
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Re: omfg [Re: goobler]
#5493839 - 04/08/06 05:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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goobler said: oh, you are so young
Huh? You mean you have seen the pathetic and sappy "I really like you...but I can't tell you in person" note work? It never works. The chick either ends up laughing at the guy or getting all creeped out. Being forward in person is much more likely to produce results with women.
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