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Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill
#5475118 - 04/03/06 03:34 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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So after I ejactulated inside my gf, i realized that the condom broke. I was immediately frustrated. My gf noticed, but did not want to talk about it. I wanted her to get a perscription for the morning after pill, but she pushes me off and now it's almost too late if she's pregnant. I told her since she doesn't want to go with my plan, which I made seem "our" plan, she'll have to take a pregnacy test in a week. She really doesn't listen, when I'm trying to explain her options. It's only been a week after her period. what else should i do. she hasn't said anything to her parents.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill *DELETED* [Re: encryptor]
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: Dragonaut]
#5475149 - 04/03/06 03:40 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'd really like to have the perscription that i could just give it to her. she agreed to get one after school today. i was going to pick her up. now she doesn't want to meet. i'm fucked!
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5475152 - 04/03/06 03:42 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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how old are you guys. seriously i think i'm going to find a better discussion board
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill *DELETED* [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: Scott Bennett]
#5475180 - 04/03/06 03:45 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yes, ThaiLipaYai, I understand your comment is serious. thanks
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
#5475186 - 04/03/06 03:46 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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This same thing happened to my best friend. He's now 17, and has a 2 year old daughter <_<''.
Anyways, I don't know what to tell you. It sounds like you're pretty fucked.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5475230 - 04/03/06 03:52 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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The morning after pill can be used (I think) for 72 hours after intercourse, though you will want to check with a physician to be absolutely sure. Also, around here, I don't believe a prescription is necessary, but I have never went through this, so again, grain of salt.
If your girlfriend doesn't want to take the pill, I reckon you should respect your choice, though make your intentions about the future very clear.
I have went through this before, and I must say being a week late isn't the end of the world. Hell, I have dealt with an entire miss, and I still have no baby. Oftentimes, stress and diet can delay or hurry such cycles. I'd say both of you are having a little stress as of late, eh?
Also, as to what you should do, remember that her body is hers, and that any decision she makes should come from her. It is a very difficult position to be in, for the both of you.
Everything will turn out fine. I suggest a doctor at a Women's Clinic or campus doctor, as they are used to these types of scenarios. Be gentle with each other as she is probably equally as scared, if not more so. Be honest, thoughtful, and open, and we'll all hope for the best.
PS If you all are pregnant, Congratulations. Just please make sure whoever cares for the little tike loves him with all he deserves.
Best of luck, brother.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill *DELETED* [Re: encryptor]
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5475550 - 04/03/06 04:54 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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why didn't she want to take it?
i don't think i would have sex with a woman who refused to take the morning after pill unless i actually wanted children with her.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: wilshire]
#5475616 - 04/03/06 05:13 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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well man, welcome to responsibility...
i only hope this is a girl you actually love or else everything will be 10x more fucked
worst case scenario is you become teen parents
best case scenario is you didnt hit target
what can you do?
i suggest talking to her, and making her understand the seriousness of the situation. tell her if she really wants a kid at such a young age and if she does, tell her how that can really screw her future. tell her itll be a lifetime of responsibility after this. if she still stubborn then be a man and face up..
after all, itll be your kid too
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: DICK]
#5475684 - 04/03/06 05:30 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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thanks everyone
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5475695 - 04/03/06 05:33 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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the condom did have spermicidal. I didn't consider the condom to break. I will pull out in the future. as for the relationship, if she is not pregnant, i'm going to stop having sex with her for a while. peace
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5475798 - 04/03/06 05:57 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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encryptor said: the condom did have spermicidal. I didn't consider the condom to break. I will pull out in the future. as for the relationship, if she is not pregnant, i'm going to stop having sex with her for a while. peace
Pulling out is a joke. Though it is somewhat more effective than not, if you start practicing "pulling out", you might post this thread again next month. Though most will laugh, you'd be better off not having sex. IMO.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: NewAgeDiciple]
#5475812 - 04/03/06 06:01 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well pulling out AND using a condom might be a pretty safe maneuverer, especially since hes had one break on him before. THE FEAR, the terror, the tragedy.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5475892 - 04/03/06 06:21 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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encryptor said: the condom did have spermicidal. I didn't consider the condom to break. I will pull out in the future. as for the relationship, if she is not pregnant, i'm going to stop having sex with her for a while. peace
I think this should really be your #1 in any case. You two obviously have a few things to work out, since she refuses to consider your feelings or follow through with the decision you made mutually.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5476209 - 04/03/06 07:29 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Get this girl on the birth control pill ASAP.
Sometimes you have to prod and push at them (no pun intended) to get them to go to the fucking health clinic to do it.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: encryptor]
#5476398 - 04/03/06 08:07 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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encryptor said: So after I ejactulated inside my gf, i realized that the condom broke. I was immediately frustrated. My gf noticed, but did not want to talk about it. I wanted her to get a perscription for the morning after pill, but she pushes me off and now it's almost too late if she's pregnant. I told her since she doesn't want to go with my plan, which I made seem "our" plan, she'll have to take a pregnacy test in a week. She really doesn't listen, when I'm trying to explain her options. It's only been a week after her period. what else should i do. she hasn't said anything to her parents.
Ever hear of "the rythym method" of birth control?
Check into it.
I'd be willing to bet that you're totally in the clear. Send me $10 if she doesn't get her period within 30 days from now, at the longest.
If she doesn't, I'll send you $100. (10:1 odds on this bet is how sure I am.)
(Of course this only applies if you're 100% sure she hasn't had unprotected sex between now and then.)
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: TM]
#5476694 - 04/03/06 09:12 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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sounds to me that youre still in high school
its very unwise to have sex with someone and not even be clear about what forms of contraceptive or emergency plans are aggreable for the two of you. youre both responsible for whatver happens. if it isnt too late keep trying with the morning after. if not, good luck.
and if you both decide to keep going at it id suggest getting her on birth control of some kind. its cheap and her parents dont have to know about it if you go to a planned parenthood. dont count on condoms saving you if youre having sex regularly.
good luck!!!!!
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: gogrowgo123]
#5476730 - 04/03/06 09:21 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well, you know the craziest thing is... people have gotten pregnant with using condoms even if it didn't break.
I know 2 people, that it happened to. I was shocked myself. Those few percentage points kicking in.
Also, some girls are freaks. Fucked up in the head, and try and get pregnant to trap you. And i know a few people who have gotten trapped by this.
There is currently a lawsuit going on about mens rights in pregnancies and such.. its not done yet, but its trying to get more rights or say in the decision making process. Basically this girl got pregnant, bf didn't want it at all. The girl said no she wanted it. And now the dude has to pay child support and such. I think that is how it goes.
Look it up. Your options are limited if she is stubborn like this. I would definitely assess your situation to see if this person is who you want to be with.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: Ferris]
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The odds are mounted highly in your favor for no pregnancy.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: WScott]
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just get the baby.
trust me, it'll be a great learning experience.
and realize you're not allowed to tell a girl what to do once they're pregnant.
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Re: Condom broke, GF refuses Morning After Pill [Re: LiquidSmoke]
#5491538 - 04/08/06 12:09 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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