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The biggest mistake young couples can make?
    #5436800 - 03/24/06 12:35 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Maybe I have lost my humanity. Maybe I have lost touch with society. Maybe I have completely fucking flipped and have finally gone crazy in my head but I just don't know it.

I think the biggest mistake a young couple can make is to have children. I am not a father. I don't have kids. I don't have little brothers or little sisters. So I am speaking completely from 1 side here, thankfully.

I know that possessions and money are not all that there is. Bullshit! Other than my woman the only things that make me smile are big cash numbers and the things I can buy with them. Am I going off topic? Naw.

I see all these young couples with kids and I think to myself, "They can no longer party, they are most likely living pay check to pay check, sex life after kids must suck, ugh babies just cry and cry, ugh kids just cost and cost and I could not be a fit parent".

I understand, well I acknowledge the romantic thought of making 1 person out of 2, or brining another life in the world. What a miracle! 

Naw.

(Edit - I guess the following paragraph is wrong, all hail the mighty vagina and its healing abilities  :grin: )
You know your womans nice tight, well.. area? Bye, bye! Yeah, I said it, I feel guilty that I said it, but I still said it. Sex isn't everything but it's nice when you have sex that the guy likes the puss. Right? dobie says that they go back to normal if not tighter. Well maybe this paragraph is shit, maybe they all are but this is how I feel.

I have 2 ferrets. They eat, they play, they hop around and do their silly, cute shit. I really like my ferrets. They don't cry, they cost about $10 a month and they shit in their litter box. They really are all that we need. Yeah, they don't live very long and they don't talk but that's life.

I am very tired and this might be a shitty read but I am going to continue to write/type...

I think that when a couple is old enough, they are done with the partying, money and other possessions no longer please them, then it is time to have children.

Lets face it, when you are an average young couple and you have kids you lose a lot of cash, time with your significant other and lots of other stuff.

We are all unique people with our own points of view and that is mine, however I am to tired to clearly present this, you see where I am going though, fill in the gaps.



And hey, maybe kids just aren't our thing. :shrug:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser] * 1
    #5436826 - 03/24/06 12:43 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I never want kids. I saw what having kids did to my parents. When I was younger I would be with my parent's friends and they would tell me all the wild and crazy shit my parents would do. Plus, all the money they could throw around and blow on crap. Nice cars, clothes, awesome house.

Then, myself and 2 brothers came along and all that slowly went away. My parents ended up divorcing and no one really gets along except my brothers and I.

I have a girl now...2 years. But, we both agreed never to get married or have kids. She really doesn't like the idea of squeezing out a watermelon size lump out of her gash. Plus, I heard on the average its $500,000 to raise a single kid from birth to 18. Thats insane. Take that money and travel, save, invest...do whatever.

The world is way overpopulated anyway. Just because you have kids, doesn't mean you should...


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436862 - 03/24/06 12:55 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

have you been with a girl who has had a kid it doesnt get super loose if anything it gets tighter at least in my experiance and ive bagged a couple babies mommas in my time :laugh:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: Dobie]
    #5436869 - 03/24/06 12:56 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I didn't mean to say that my parents resent my brothers and I. They loved us, treated us with love and did everything they were supposed to. But, you could just tell that they were missing something.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: Dobie]
    #5436872 - 03/24/06 12:57 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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have you been with a girl who has had a kid it doesnt get super loose if anything it gets tighter at least in my experiance and ive bagged a couple babies mommas in my time :laugh:




So everything is all normal down there? I can't imagine after having a child come out of there it could go back to being normal. I was guessing on that one honestly, that isn't something I study on. I have heard of huge permanent scars and other nasty things I am not even going to get into.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: License_to_Chill]
    #5436877 - 03/24/06 12:59 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I'm in the IT Industry and I *could* make descent money if i wanted to sacrifice my life. I would never have kids unless I could make a living doing something I enjoyed.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436879 - 03/24/06 12:59 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

:laugh: its all good ive banged at least 4 girls that had kids it used to be my specialty :laugh: its all good down there afterwards besides that i agree with ya


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436887 - 03/24/06 01:02 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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dobie said:
have you been with a girl who has had a kid it doesnt get super loose if anything it gets tighter at least in my experiance and ive bagged a couple babies mommas in my time :laugh:




So everything is all normal down there? I can't imagine after having a child come out of there it could go back to being normal. I was guessing on that one honestly, that isn't something I study on. I have heard of huge permanent scars and other nasty things I am not even going to get into.




yo user.. this is thenewuser?

where'd u get that sig gif?


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436899 - 03/24/06 01:07 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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They can no longer party




Untrue. You just have to be responsible about it. God forbid anyone be responsible about partying, right?

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they are most likely living pay check to pay check




It doesn't take a kid to turn someone into a financial dumbass.

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sex life after kids must suck




It's all what you make of it. If you don't have any INTEREST in sex after kids, that must suck. But if you care about doing it, you do it.

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I could not be a fit parent




Well there you go, then. Kudos to you for not having any kids.

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You know your womans nice tight, well.. area? Bye, bye!




I call bullshit on this one. Kegels work for everyone. The vagina is made to pass a watermelon and go back to normal. Maybe you wouldn't be so scared of all this if you just educated yourself about it a little bit.

Have kids, don't have kids, whatever. Just have the right reasons for doing so in both cases.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: mrsautoman]
    #5436904 - 03/24/06 01:10 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

AND SHE SPEAKS!


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436906 - 03/24/06 01:10 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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So everything is all normal down there? I can't imagine after having a child come out of there it could go back to being normal. I was guessing on that one honestly, that isn't something I study on. I have heard of huge permanent scars and other nasty things I am not even going to get into.




Birth makes it stretch... it goes back to normal size shortly after. Supposedly,.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: Shroomism]
    #5436911 - 03/24/06 01:12 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

in all the chicks ive banged it has gone back to normal this one girl i banged had a kid and her pussy was pinky tight it had to slobber that shit up to stick it in i miss her to bad she got pregnant with another mans kid when i was in jail


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: mrsautoman]
    #5436915 - 03/24/06 01:16 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Well I think it's womans instict to have children. I suppose that in the end it could lead to my woman leaving me because I don't want to have kids, even though she is fine with it now. I'll shove a shotgun in my mouth on that day, but for now I am holding steady.

"Maybe you wouldn't be so scared of all this if you just educated yourself about it a little bit." Flaming is lame, go ahead and disagree, but don't pull that shit. :frown:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436927 - 03/24/06 01:21 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

i like poo


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436930 - 03/24/06 01:21 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

That's what I'm fearing. My girl getting a change of heart in a few years. She's going to be hearing that biological clock tickin' in her head and that pretty damn strong.

I'm not going to give in. No kids. Hopefully she won't change.


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    #5436932 - 03/24/06 01:23 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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That's what I'm fearing. My girl getting a change of heart in a few years. She's going to be hearing that biological clock tickin' in her head and that pretty damn strong.

I'm not going to give in. No kids. Hopefully she won't change.




I am 24. I can see myself being ready around 35 or so but I am a pretty wild guy, I love having grown up fun. I hope that clock ticks around 35 =/


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5436941 - 03/24/06 01:29 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Of course it's already been said, but I will say it again.

Getting married too early, having kids too early, drug use, relationship based more on sex than love, and too much working to spend time together..

Those are the most common reasons I see for splits.. And also why I am not( have not) been in a longer term( longer than 4 months) relationship.

Actually, I think I'm too selfish to ever get married, but I'm changing as I grow up.

Great thread :thumbup:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437225 - 03/24/06 05:31 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I've been married almost 11 years, , dated my wife for 3 years before that. Love her, ,love my kids...

I'd never give that up for any amount of 'partying' or 'freedom' .

I am where I want to be and to me there is no greater joy than seeing your child smile


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: mrsautoman]
    #5437309 - 03/24/06 06:39 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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I call bullshit on this one. Kegels work for everyone. The vagina is made to pass a watermelon and go back to normal.




True.





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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437410 - 03/24/06 07:29 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I have to totally agree with you, and right now it really hits close to home. My roomate just found out she is pregnant and she is 20yrs old. She is in college, and the baby daddy lives in Georgia. (We are in Ontario Canada) Her dad still pays her half of the rent because she is in school, but is cutting her off in May. She thinks everything is going to be just peachy. She needs a fuckin kick in the ass. Not only does that leave me high and dry sometime in the next 9 months, but I don't even want to live with a pregnant woman. I know how moody they can get. Not only that, her BF I assume will have to come here, and I fuckin hate the guy! Though I think his true colours will show, and she may be on her own with this kid. I mean he lives in GEORGIA. like wtf.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: blink]
    #5437413 - 03/24/06 07:33 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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I see all these young couples with kids and I think to myself, "They can no longer party, they are most likely living pay check to pay check, sex life after kids must suck, ugh babies just cry and cry, ugh kids just cost and cost and I could not be a fit parent".





I think having children should be something planned, and only something done when the parents are financially stable enough to support the child and not need to live pay check to pay check.

Kids who are fresh out of college, getting entry-level jobs and have a combined income of 60/k a year, should not be going off popping out children I agree.

But, (hopefully), if they are together, in their 30s, and have a total income of say, over 100k/yr (either by one, or both, or able to maintain that if one quits to raise the child) - then having a kid isnt going to make them live from pay check to pay check.

Personnaly, I dont plan on having kids - ever, much to my mothers dismay. And thankfully, being gay : I dont have to worry about accidently producing one unplanned.

However, for many people - they dont want to party for life, adn they reach a stage where they do want to settle down, raise a family, have kids and start a life, they dont have the same need/desire to party like they used to. So its not like they are really giving up that much in the proccess.

I think your rant is more

"Young couples having kids before they are ready" - they dont make enough money, they still want to party, and they cant meat the challenges of raising a child.

If anything, having a kid during that time seems more like a selfish thing to do - as you are not having the best interest of the child in mind.

I know, that if I ever change my mind and decide to have a kid (I'd need to adopt, or get a freind to carry it for me), it wouldnt be untill I was much older (mid 30s), well established, making lots of money, and had already been saving/putting money aside for the sole purpose of raising the child.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: kaniz]
    #5437435 - 03/24/06 07:41 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Ha! I didn't even think about the gay factor, you have it made. :wink:


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I have to totally agree with you, and right now it really hits close to home. My roomate just found out she is pregnant and she is 20yrs old. She is in college, and the baby daddy lives in Georgia. (We are in Ontario Canada) Her dad still pays her half of the rent because she is in school, but is cutting her off in May. She thinks everything is going to be just peachy. She needs a fuckin kick in the ass. Not only does that leave me high and dry sometime in the next 9 months, but I don't even want to live with a pregnant woman. I know how moody they can get. Not only that, her BF I assume will have to come here, and I fuckin hate the guy! Though I think his true colours will show, and she may be on her own with this kid. I mean he lives in GEORGIA. like wtf.




That sucks. Is the guy going to pay child support?


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: goobler]
    #5437467 - 03/24/06 07:57 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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I've been married almost 11 years, , dated my wife for 3 years before that.  Love her, ,love my kids...

I'd never give that up for any amount of 'partying' or 'freedom' .

I am where I want to be and to me there is no greater joy than seeing your child smile



:thumbup:

I feel the same way. I have given up some things, but nothing serious. I work the same amount of time, do the same things when I come home, and love my life. It's not always easy, but it never has been, so there's no change there. I still go to festivals and still have a great time. The cootchie has gone back to it's original size, too. You guys are all scared for nothing. I am 30 and I was ready to have a child. Life is so much more beautiful, now that he is in it.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: blissedout]
    #5437470 - 03/24/06 07:59 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Someday I'll get there. :smile:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437480 - 03/24/06 08:06 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

well I am sure he will pay child support if that is ALL he does. He does that for the 2 kids he has now anyway.


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    #5437489 - 03/24/06 08:11 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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well I am sure he will pay child support if that is ALL he does. He does that for the 2 kids he has now anyway.




Gah, use a god damn condom! :frown:

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I've been married almost 11 years, , dated my wife for 3 years before that.  Love her, ,love my kids...

I'd never give that up for any amount of 'partying' or 'freedom' .

I am where I want to be and to me there is no greater joy than seeing your child smile



:thumbup:

I feel the same way. I have given up some things, but nothing serious. I work the same amount of time, do the same things when I come home, and love my life. It's not always easy, but it never has been, so there's no change there. I still go to festivals and still have a great time. The cootchie has gone back to it's original size, too. You guys are all scared for nothing. I am 30 and I was ready to have a child. Life is so much more beautiful, now that he is in it.




I respect the family man, it is something that I can not do at this time. Were you 30 when you had a kid?


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437496 - 03/24/06 08:13 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Close family friends have had children that -- by all measures -- could be classified as "unplanned"..or a terrible way to describe a child -- an "accident".  (side note: My mom tells me she heard her parents talking about "prophylactics" not being 100%..that's how they wound up with "my mom's name here" -- then glanced and saw she was standing there..and added "not that we didn't want to have you" :lol:)

Luckily, both people I know that have had children at a young age have been financially well off (one was a jockey..it's funny seeing a 100 pound girl 9 months pregnant :grin: )

You can still party (within reason) as long as you make sure that your number one priority is your kid.  If anything, it can help you grow as a person as opposed to shattering your world


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    #5437500 - 03/24/06 08:15 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I was a "surprise." :grin:


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    #5437501 - 03/24/06 08:16 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

He was born in January, so I was 29, but close enough to 30.

5 years ago, I wouldn't have been ready, either, but I don't want to be 50, trying to kick the soccer ball with him, you know?


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    #5437508 - 03/24/06 08:19 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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..it's funny seeing a 100 pound girl 9 months pregnant :grin: )




Danksis was 98 lbs when she got pregnant. She didn't gain weight anywhere, but he belly and boobs. :tongue2:
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    #5437511 - 03/24/06 08:20 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Yeah, I love telling friends that they were "mistakes" -- when they have 3 older siblings that are a year or so apart -- and the friend in question is a solid 4 years younger :lol:


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    #5437516 - 03/24/06 08:22 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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Danksis was 98 lbs when she got pregnant. She didn't gain weight anywhere, but he belly and boobs. :tongue2:





From the back, they still look tiny, then when they turn around it's funny :lol:


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    #5437518 - 03/24/06 08:22 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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He was born in January, so I was 29, but close enough to 30.

5 years ago, I wouldn't have been ready, either, but I don't want to be 50, trying to kick the soccer ball with him, you know?




Yeah, I have thought about that too, do I want a kid at 40 and when he is 10 I am 50 and can't well as you said, kick the ball around.

And to the other post, I doubt that many of us were planned. I don't think that being an "accedent" is a bad thing, it's just nature. :wink:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437534 - 03/24/06 08:27 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

they didnt use a condom on purpose.. that is why I am so pissed off.. and she knowingly for got to take her BC pills.. that is why I am so upset, she thought she was invincible and could not have kids. FUCKIN DUMB!!!!


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: Bowers]
    #5437557 - 03/24/06 08:35 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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they didnt use a condom on purpose.. that is why I am so pissed off.. and she knowingly for got to take her BC pills.. that is why I am so upset, she thought she was invincible and could not have kids. FUCKIN DUMB!!!!




Gah! My woman takes the pill once a day and I um "finish" the job outside (which is sexier), we are very active and have been for 6 years now, so I am guessing that is a great combo.

Oh I edited the 1st post about the whole tight vagina thing. :x


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437663 - 03/24/06 09:18 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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have you been with a girl who has had a kid it doesnt get super loose if anything it gets tighter at least in my experiance and ive bagged a couple babies mommas in my time :laugh:




So everything is all normal down there? I can't imagine after having a child come out of there it could go back to being normal. I was guessing on that one honestly, that isn't something I study on. I have heard of huge permanent scars and other nasty things I am not even going to get into.




Dude, are you 12 years old? If so, then yeah, don't have kids.

Also better make sure your girlfriend knows how you feel about all this before you get too serious with her.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437682 - 03/24/06 09:28 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Obviously you had better be ready financially and emotionally if you are going to have a kid, but for many people it's just the kind of direction they need in life. I mean think about it, you're 20 something, you have no ambition, no idea what your gonna do, are suffering from depression and middle class white kid existential angst and the BOOM you have a baby to take care of. It's gonna radically redefine your whole life.

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You know your womans nice tight, well.. area? Bye, bye!




Wow, that's immature. C'mon man, if you loved the girl this would not even be an issue. If you didn't love the girl, well that's gonna be the least of your problems.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: Revelation]
    #5437693 - 03/24/06 09:33 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)



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Obviously you had better be ready financially and emotionally if you are going to have a kid, but for many people it's just the kind of direction they need in life.  I mean think about it, you're 20 something, you have no ambition, no idea what your gonna do, are suffering from depression and middle class white kid existential angst and the BOOM you have a baby to take care of.  It's gonna radically redefine your whole life.

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You know your womans nice tight, well.. area? Bye, bye!




Wow, that's immature.  C'mon man, if you loved the girl this would not even be an issue.  If you didn't love the girl, well that's gonna be the least of your problems.




Good point. About the vagina thing, I was just bringing that out into the open, and hey some people here are saying that it is not true.

"I mean think about it, you're 20 something, you have no ambition, no idea what your gonna do, are suffering from depression and middle class white kid existential angst and the BOOM you have a baby to take care of."

Yeah, this thread was me venting. If that makes you happy more power to ya! :smile:


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5437913 - 03/24/06 11:07 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

The great majority of young couples (~19 years old) I've seen get married break up not long afterwards. Most of the people I've known who had kids at a young age really had their lives messed up due to it. It's incredibly sad.


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: inetd]
    #5437939 - 03/24/06 11:16 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

thats because they are selfish


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: goobler]
    #5437968 - 03/24/06 11:29 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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to me there is no greater joy than seeing your child smile




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and laugh

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My 6 year old daughter told me the other day that she wants to marry a guy just like me.

I melted!~

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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: Roadkill]
    #5438008 - 03/24/06 11:40 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I think that when youre little, and don't understand the different kinds of love, all little girls just want thier daddy forever.

I remeber telling my mom one day that when I grew up, I was going to marry my dad, cuz he was the best husband in the world.  We had a long talk after that one.

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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: theuser]
    #5438054 - 03/24/06 11:55 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Partying over children? Children are family, they live on and carry your name when you pass away, and if not your name at least your memories and blood.

plus... you can still party when you have kids


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    #5438125 - 03/24/06 12:23 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)



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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: goobler]
    #5438919 - 03/24/06 04:50 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

This is why I love this place. We have some pretty decent talks, in here, on occassion.:)


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Re: The biggest mistake young couples can make? [Re: blissedout]
    #5440328 - 03/25/06 05:17 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

very true....my kids made me birthday cards yesterday :smile:


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