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Madtowntripper
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Making your Mother Cry...
#5413428 - 03/17/06 04:04 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Has got to be one of the worst feelings ever. And God knows I've given her reasons to cry over the years...
Ijust had to go over there and explain to her why I wasnt in school this semester, how I had fucked up some financial aid for next semester and how I need to spend this semester and all summer working 2 jobs to make sure I have enough to go back next fall.
All she kept saying was how dissapointed she is, and how she thoguht I could do better than this. And cried. And Cried, And Cried.
I'm her only kid, so I can see where she's coming from. I guess she's having a pretty bad time of it herself, and I was trying to keep this from her for awhile.
But man....Like I didnt feel bad enough. Now I feel like a total shit-bag, 'cause I left my Mom standing in the kitchen crying. I couldnt even look at her anymore, or I was going to start bawling like a little kid. So fuck.
Some kind of fucking asshole I am.
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Edited by Madtowntripper (03/17/06 04:05 PM)
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RandalFlagg
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My mom cried when I got caught with weed. It sucked.
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Adom
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Ahhhh reminds me of the day I quit school and confessed my drug abuse/running.
It still haunts me, sounds like will make this right in the future man, it sucks but it'll be fine.
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Adom]
#5413446 - 03/17/06 04:09 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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you'll be alright. I've made my mother cry alot in the past.. they get over it. Just make sure you get the money to go back next fall man.
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Noetical
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It sucks so much because no matter how much you tell them otherwise they thinks it their fault and blame themselves.
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Madtowntripper
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Noetical]
#5413461 - 03/17/06 04:14 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thats exactly it, dude. Its like, I told her 20 times that its my fuck up, its completely my fault, and I'd make it right...
But its like you say, she doesnt even hear that. She just wonders what she could have done...
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The first thing I remember knowing, Was a lonesome whistle blowing, And a young un's dream of growing up to ride; On a freight train leaving town, Not knowing where I'm bound, No-one could change my mind but Mama tried. One and only rebel child, From a family, meek and mild: My Mama seemed to know what lay in store. Despite all my Sunday learning, Towards the bad, I kept on turning. 'Til Mama couldn't hold me anymore.
And I turned twenty-one in prison doing life without parole. No-one could steer me right but Mama tried, Mama tried. Mama tried to raise me better, but her pleading, I denied. That leaves only me to blame 'cos Mama tried.
Instrumental break.
Dear old Daddy, rest his soul, Left my Mom a heavy load; She tried so very hard to fill his shoes. Working hours without rest, Wanted me to have the best. She tried to raise me right but I refused.
And I turned twenty-one in prison doing life without parole. No-one could steer me right but Mama tried, Mama tried. Mama tried to raise me better, but her pleading, I denied. That leaves only me to blame 'cos Mama tried
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Noetical
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tell her you love and give her a hug, it works for me
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Noetical]
#5413485 - 03/17/06 04:17 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thats all moms ever want! A good hug and an I love you.
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Adom
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I'll give ur mums a big i love you
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Adom]
#5413519 - 03/17/06 04:22 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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bah!
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Adom]
#5413527 - 03/17/06 04:24 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Adom said: I'll give ur mums a big i love you
in her eye and i"ll punch u!
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Adom
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i'll punch you both and steal her anal virginity....
you are after all in my moms room... you deserve the fate you've bought.
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whatever123
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5413593 - 03/17/06 04:35 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said: My mom cried when I got caught with weed. It sucked.
Even thinking about it hurts me. My mom crying when she caught me. She seemed so...helpless. So desperate. So...lost. And she felt(if she was faking this when she said it, she deserves 3 oscars and free oral sex for life) that it was her fault and that she was a horrible mother. There was nothing I could do. She was on my bedroom floor, hitting the floor, crying out how she fucked up so horribly, and how she was sorry for being such a horrible mother. She went downstairs and my sister and I had no idea what to do. It was just so horrible. I feel so bad.
Yea, making your mom cry is likely to be one of the worst feelings one can get, if you have a great mother. It is guilt, depression...everything. But at 10 times worse than you thought was possible... Sorry to everyone who has had to deal with similar, and sorry to those of you who may have to sometime.
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... *DELETED* [Re: whatever123]
#5413671 - 03/17/06 04:47 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Ferris]
#5414236 - 03/17/06 06:43 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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The only time my mom cried over me was when I was born. She always remnded me that :
A) She didn't want to get pregnant
B) When she accepted that she was pregnant, she wanted a girl
C) She ended up with me, whom she has hated since the moment I broke out of the uterus.
I don't feel so bad for making her cry, and I haven't seen/spoken to her in over 13 years.
So is life.
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whatever123
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aaaaaaaaaall right.
I was referring to making a mother cry who aren't evil.
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5414347 - 03/17/06 07:45 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said: My mom cried when I got caught with weed. It sucked.
My mom laughed.
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: SleepAid]
#5414403 - 03/17/06 08:13 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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my mom stole the weed and smoked it.. yet still grounded me for 3 months
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Man, my mom will cry at the drop of a dime, but it hurts me to see it, every time. Just make sure you do the right thing, or she will cry, again.
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Making your mom cry sucks, but making your dad cry suck so much more. Just the once, when I told him I wasn't going to college. Man, I really let him down. I was gonna be the first member of his family to go to college. But he got over it and accepts me for what I am and am doing.
On the other hand, what about when your mom or dad makes you cry...
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As much as making your mom cry sucks, she's crying because she cares and only wants what is best for you. You should feel blessed to have a mother than is that emotionally involved in your life, and I'm sure you do. She's obviously disappointed right now, and you hit the nail on the head when you said that all she was thinking about was what she could have done to prevent any of this from happening. You did the right thing by going and talking to her face to face, apologizing, and taking responsiblity. You owned up to what was going on, and I'm sure she appreciates you being straight forward. I think you had mentioned in a different post that up until recently your grades were good, and you don't really know what went wrong - so she's probably a bit shocked as well that this came out of nowhere.
Think about your mother, and use that positively. Let it give you some motivation to pick yourself up, get back on your feet, and get your shit together with school when you go back. I'm sure that if that happens, all will be forgiven and she'll be very proud of you. You should probably call her fairly often over the next few days, I'm sure she's worried about you. Tell her you love her, and that you're lucky to have her in your life
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I haven't said a word to my mom for 3 years. She's never really takin care of me, always dumped my on my grandmother, then she wants to move in and not work. I was fine with that for a bit, after all, she is my mom, no matter if she took she took the best of care of me or not, she gave me life. But when she made my life a living hell, I was done. But I tell you what hurts the most, seeing my grandmother cry. She hardly ever crys. She's an hard Irish woman, But when she does, there's nothing worse.But bless her heart, she comes to accept me every time. And even ask questions instead of assuming the worst. The time I told her I was bi, she cried, went in her bedroom for what seemed like forever, came back out,sat down. looked at me, smiled and said." At least I know you'll never be lonely." Or the time she found out I do weed, and it's hard to answer questions like that from your 85 year old grandmother.
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I can't even remember all the times I've made my mother cry. She was the over-protective sort, I think you know what I mean. She wanted to protect me from everything bad that could happen to me, but in the process prevented me from experiencing life. So I pushed the other way and fucked up a lot. What really sucks is that it has such an impact on you the first few times, and then you go sort of numb to it. We went through a long time where we barely even talked though we're starting to patch things back together.
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Re: Making your Mother Cry... [Re: Drain_Bamage] 1
#5414666 - 03/17/06 10:24 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I can handle my mother crying, although I do feel bad. I can handle my dad yelling, although I yell beck. But *REALLY* gets to me when the honestly say "I'm disappointed in you" a fucking wave of regret always washes over me...
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