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OfflineAninator
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What's the longest...
    #5407740 - 03/16/06 10:53 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

... time it's ever taken you to get over someone?


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407748 - 03/16/06 10:54 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

There was Rachel back in high school..that took me a while..I was pretty fucked by that for like 2 years.

Then there was Kristen freshman year of college. But I got sick of her, so after I dumped her it was more a feeling of release than having to get over her. :smirk:


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407751 - 03/16/06 10:55 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

20+ years. I'll never get over how great I am.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: daimyo]
    #5407754 - 03/16/06 10:56 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

:lol:


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407773 - 03/16/06 11:01 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

A few months.  The problem I've always had with relationships is that they drag on when they should have ended months prior.  I think when my last boyfriend cheated on me it took me about 6 months to finally get over it. 

I don't even think it was necessarily getting over HIM, it was getting over the relationship and the security of being with SOMEONE.  He made it real easy to get over his sorry ass real quickly.  :smirk:

I think the problem most people have is not being able to get over the actual bond, and not being used to being alone.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407786 - 03/16/06 11:04 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

about a year...


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407792 - 03/16/06 11:05 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

month or two

I'm cold.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407800 - 03/16/06 11:08 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

just long enough to have the last shovel full of dirt obscure them


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Adom]
    #5407801 - 03/16/06 11:08 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

i'm on like a year and a half and still going and he was never really my boyfriend


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407824 - 03/16/06 11:13 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

AniNator said:
i'm on like a year and a half and still going and he was never really my boyfriend




the situation i'm going through right now might end up like that... i certainly don't hope so... but it can... so wish me luck...


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407832 - 03/16/06 11:15 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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AniNator said:
i'm on like a year and a half and still going and he was never really my boyfriend




I know you better than most o' these folks so lemme just offer my perspective...

I know you think about him a lot, but in a way I think this runs deeper. THis is about connecting with people on a really meaningful level. You're always looking for that. You, like me, are obsessed with your relationships with people and the levels they work on.

I think you're afraid of never making a connection like that with anyone else moreso than you really are having a hard time getting over HIM specifically...I dunno. (ps let's hang out soon k thnx bye)


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #5407854 - 03/16/06 11:21 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Good luck Indigo, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. All I can say is that if it does end up going to shit, it gets better and hurts less.

As for this "I think you're afraid of never making a connection like that with anyone else moreso than you really are having a hard time getting over HIM specifically...I dunno. (ps let's hang out soon k thnx bye)"

I think you're 100% right. but that fear of never making a connection like that again is what's making me think even more that he's meant for me. And that eventually we'll live happily ever after. yet we all know that's probably not gonna happen.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407856 - 03/16/06 11:22 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

And Yes we should hang out soon. I'm in queens till sunday. let me know if you're free.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407910 - 03/16/06 11:38 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

about a year... it took a summer without seeing or thinking about her before i was really over it, and able to talk to her again..


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407911 - 03/16/06 11:38 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

AniNator said:
but that fear of never making a connection like that again is what's making me think even more that he's meant for me. And that eventually we'll live happily ever after.




know EXACTLY what you mean... exactly... :heart:


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: In(di)go]
    #5407935 - 03/16/06 11:44 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

good to know i'm not the only one!


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407943 - 03/16/06 11:47 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

from my own personal experience, it usually takes about the same amount of time as you were with them to get over them...my last real "love" lasted about a year and half...it was about a year and a half after breaking up before i could really enjoy memories of that person without hurtful emotions attached. my last girlfriend was with me for about a month and a half..took about that long to get over it as well, which was a relief after the year+ thing. we're good friends now, but it still sucks going to bed alone all the time...i think that's the worst part.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407954 - 03/16/06 11:50 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

AniNator said:
i'm on like a year and a half and still going and he was never really my boyfriend



I was in a similar situation with a girl once. I finally did get over her and now we're back to being friends.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Hendostan]
    #5407961 - 03/16/06 11:52 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I can't say the same for myself. I knew this guy for like a year the last three months we were like intimate and starting shit and then i had to go away to school and it just sorta stopped for him and continued for me. we still talk. and i try to be his friend but i still see him as the personi want to be with forever. Someone i could never get bored of. The situations a little bit more complicated than what i'm making it seem but i don't want to get into the details no matter how important they are.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407966 - 03/16/06 11:54 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

But yea it's definitely taken longer than the 3 months of whatever we had was to get over him. and i've made progress. but i want to find someone else and it just doesn't seem to be happening.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5407982 - 03/16/06 11:59 AM (17 years, 10 months ago)

it wont happen until you stop looking


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: goobler]
    #5407994 - 03/16/06 12:03 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Exactly.


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-Erik Davis


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5408043 - 03/16/06 12:14 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Year and a half. It taught me to be a callaous bastard and never love again. I'm like Randal but less vocal about it.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5408062 - 03/16/06 12:17 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

It took me a year and a half to get over my first love. He was my first EVERYTHING. I even had my first child by him.
I look back now and wonder why I wasted so much energy on this man.

It was all well worth it though. I don't miss him, not even a little bit.

Going through it all though...I had my friends. They always help you through this.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #5408109 - 03/16/06 12:28 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

If someone could tell me how to stop looking I would. I don't think i'm conciously looking. The people who really at all have peaked my interests have either just literally blatantly ignored me, don't want anything serious with me or are taken.pretty muche veryone i know has beein a realtionship for like a year. I've had 2 boyfriends in like the 10th grade who collectively make up 3 months. I don't really know how to stop looking. cause people also tell me that i'm not looking hard enough. or that i'm looking in the wrong places. so... yea.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5408175 - 03/16/06 12:42 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

...roughly about the same amount of time it took me to orgasm.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Noetical]
    #5408581 - 03/16/06 01:59 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

The Noetic Hogan Nip said:
Year and a half. It taught me to be a callaous bastard and never love again. I'm like Randal but less vocal about it.




Oh come on...I'm not that bad.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5408585 - 03/16/06 02:00 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

:what:


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-Erik Davis


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5408586 - 03/16/06 02:00 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

eighteen months and still going strong


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: OJK]
    #5408601 - 03/16/06 02:03 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

sorry man


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
    #5408611 - 03/16/06 02:07 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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OneMoreRobot3021 said:
:what:




Edited because of bad taste.


Edited by RandalFlagg (03/16/06 02:19 PM)


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5408612 - 03/16/06 02:07 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I've gotten to the point where I know that as soon as I really decide that even if she came back to me, I'd turn her down, then I'll be over her

I just haven't done that yet


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5408630 - 03/16/06 02:13 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

damn you kind of look like a younger edward norton its almost uncanny.


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Aninator]
    #5408631 - 03/16/06 02:13 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

i don't really know what to tell you...if that's your pic in your avatar, you certainly look attractive...if you are just yourself and try to put yourself out there and have a good time, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. it will come when you least expect it.
i feel the same about all the girls here, they are either taken or aren't interested in anything serious. i would love to be in a relationship again, i've done the "dating" thing for long enough. nobody seems to be into anything more than that though, so i've kinda had to make myself stop actively looking for it and expecting it. i'm pretty sure as long as i don't shut myself off socially, am not afraid to take chances, and don't come across as completely boring, i will find love again. you will too :heart:


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Re: What's the longest... [Re: The_Red_Crayon]
    #5408646 - 03/16/06 02:18 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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damn you kind of look like a younger edward norton its almost uncanny.





Man....I better delete that picture. Too many people will take it the wrong way.


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    #5408785 - 03/16/06 02:52 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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Re: What's the longest... [Re: Ferris]
    #5409063 - 03/16/06 04:00 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I'd say it varies depending on the relationship and the person, some people, I've gotten over while still with them, others I accept that very quietly I may never fully be "over" them, and fondly think of them from time to time and learn to love them for the person they are, not the relationship we had or could have had....I think its a very delicate matter that differs for everyone.


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