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Redstorm
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Oh boy, what a mess....
#5400581 - 03/14/06 07:08 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Background: My gf of almost 6 years and I broke up several months ago. I had been avoiding talking to her so I could help get over her easier, but about 2 weeks ago I started to think about her constantly. We talked a couple times around that time and she confirmed that she was feeling the same way.
So anyways, I put up a post and a song on my music blog a couple days ago for her, and she called me today crying and listening to the song and tells me she's not sure what she wants anymore. She doesn't know if she wants to be with me or not with me or what. I know what I want, and that is to be with her. We talked for about an hour and I told her just to relax and think things through and make damn sure she makes a good and firm decision before she tells me what to do. Also, I haven't even seen her since the day we broke up, and we're planning on hanging out this weekend.
Here's the kicker: she's currently kinda seeing someone. Fun stuff, huh?
Anyways, I just needed to rant and get this shit out of my head.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400602 - 03/14/06 07:10 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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You sound like you're handling things in the perfect way. Make her make up her mind 100% before you even entertain the thought of getting back with her. The fact that she's seeing someone sucks, but obviously she's not over you, he's probablyjust her rebound guy 
I hope it works out for you, don't let her string you along though, if she wants back in, make sure it's for real so you don't get hurt again.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400606 - 03/14/06 07:12 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Kick his ass, she'll be all over you.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400610 - 03/14/06 07:12 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Hm...this is a tough one.
You like her and want to be with her, but she broke up with you, is currently with somebody else, and she cheated on you didn't she? Right there would be enough to drive me away.
I think you seriously need to get out and "test the waters" some more. You're young and she's been your only girlfriend. You'll be amazed at how your horizons open up when you meet more and new people.
If after doing some exploring you still want to be with her, then fine.
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Redstorm
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Liz]
#5400611 - 03/14/06 07:12 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, if she decides to come back, I'm going to be damn she she's willing to put in 100%. I've changed a lot since we've been split up, and I realize many of the things I did wrong while we were together before. This is the girl of my dreams, and I'm going to do everything I can to get her back.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Liz]
#5400612 - 03/14/06 07:12 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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well i dont know why you both broke up... but if it was her fault (like her cheating on you or something) i dont know if i would want to get back with her... thats just me
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Redstorm
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5400615 - 03/14/06 07:13 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I suck at meeting people.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400617 - 03/14/06 07:13 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Goodluck man. I don't know what else to say.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400634 - 03/14/06 07:17 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Redstorm said: I suck at meeting people.
Don't worry, I suck at meeting people too. Most of the time I sit there and stare at a wall because I am so socially inept. Sometimes you have to force yourself to do it though. Alcohol helps. Uppers do too sometimes.
P.S. I sent you $80. Spend $70 on your car and the other $10 on taking a girl somewhere.
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Redstorm
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5400645 - 03/14/06 07:19 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thanks, you magnificent bastard! 
You gonna let me in on the subject of the book?
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400652 - 03/14/06 07:21 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'll gather some of my book thoughts together and I'll PM you sometime.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5400653 - 03/14/06 07:21 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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You should post nude pictures of her on here to get back at her.
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Liz
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400655 - 03/14/06 07:22 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Wait, she cheated on you?
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Liz]
#5400665 - 03/14/06 07:23 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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cheating is only for people playing a game.
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Redstorm
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Liz]
#5400668 - 03/14/06 07:23 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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It was a kiss and it was a long time ago. She was in a rough time in her life, and I let her know it won't fly. It won't be happening again if we get back together, I guarantee that much.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400679 - 03/14/06 07:26 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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You need to start being the mack that I pretend to be on here. There are SOOO many women out there.
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Liz
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400687 - 03/14/06 07:27 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Well, obviously you're a better judge of whether she's trustworthy or not. You sound like you love her, in which case you should do whatever it takes to make things work between the 2 of you. Hopefully she does the same and it works out for good this time.
-------------------- Remember, remember the fifth of November The gunpowder treason and plot. I see no reason why gunpowder treason Should ever be forgot.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Liz]
#5400691 - 03/14/06 07:29 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I love her more than anything I could describe. She's the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I've known that for years. I just hope this works out. If it doesn't, it's gonna be real tough.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5400694 - 03/14/06 07:29 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I know there's so many women. I just don't know how to approach any of them.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400751 - 03/14/06 07:39 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Redstorm said: I know there's so many women. I just don't know how to approach any of them.
Roofies? 
But seriously, you're going to have to get a backbone sometime when it comes to women. I say this from experience. I'm getting older and it's really hitting me that I missed out on so much stuff in my younger years. There were girls that I was practically in love with and I never made a move. I still kick myself for letting certain opportunities pass me by.
I'm a lot better than I used to be. I used to be so shy around girls/women that I couldn't even talk to any of them without looking at the floor and shit. I even had a hard time talking to girls that I had no romantic interest in. Now, I can talk to women but I still have a hard time talking to women that I think are attractive. I usually end up staring at the floor, saying something real quick, and I then attempt to escape. This may sound pathetic (and it is), but I am a hell of a lot better than I used to be.
Don't worry, you're not alone in being a dork!
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Redstorm
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5400758 - 03/14/06 07:41 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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My problem is getting into a conversation with a girl. Once I'm there, I'm golden. I'm charming as hell once I start talking to someone. I just don't usually get that far.
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Re: Oh boy, what a mess.... [Re: Redstorm]
#5400765 - 03/14/06 07:42 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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"Hey bitch, I like your shoes"
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