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Have you ever.....
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had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else? The last three girls i had sex with, all had boyfriends. I don't know what that says about me... or them.. I have no problem doing this, except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5391653 - 03/12/06 11:33 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm glad you're not my friend.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5391657 - 03/12/06 11:35 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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danlennon3 said: so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.
I wouldnt go there, dont break what isnt already broken.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5391661 - 03/12/06 11:39 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: unbeliever]
#5391667 - 03/12/06 11:41 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Why add insult to injury...don't be an ass. Leave it as it is..
If I was that guy and you told me that "little ways down the road"...you'd need dentures.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: unbeliever]
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hey i didnt cheat on anyone. and it took months for her to get me to do anything with her, because i knew i would feel guilty... but when a girl wants you sooo bad,going down on you, the temptation would make any straight man who hasnt gotten laid in months to do it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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the thing is that we have a really close friendship.. i know for a fact that he wouldnt be mad at me, but he would get mad at his ex.. and considereing the girl and i are close friends, i dont want to break a secret anytime where it could cause problems.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5391673 - 03/12/06 11:45 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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danlennon3 said: hey i didnt cheat on anyone. and it took months for her to get me to do anything with her, because i knew i would feel guilty... but when a girl wants you sooo bad,going down on you, the temptation would make any straight man who hasnt gotten laid in months to do it.
Fucking around with someone who's in a monogamous relationship is cheating. And I some how doubt she knocked you down, sat on you and administered head against your will. It was a lousy thing to do. I'm not going to tell you to stop, that's totally your call.. but you should realize the potential for harm you've created and that it's not cool.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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you are what they call a "home wrecker"... youre not much of a friend, " i new i would feel guilty"..blah blah blah...friends before pussy
" but when a girl wants you sooo bad,going down on you, the temptation would make any straight man who hasnt gotten laid in months to do it."
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: unbeliever]
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stop what? it was a one time thing that happened over a year ago... and you are pretty much correct about what she did! I know i could have thrown her off the bed... but i needed it just as much as she wanted it. at the time it was the most logical thing to do. i wasnt thinking "hmmm maybe i should just physically push her off my bed"
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5391726 - 03/12/06 12:04 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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You could have
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Tien]
#5391742 - 03/12/06 12:12 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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danlennon3 said: i wasnt thinking "hmmm maybe i should just physically push her off my bed"
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Plutonium said: You could have
Yeah, maybe if he was gay.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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danlennon3 said: i know for a fact that he wouldnt be mad at me, but he would get mad at his ex.. and considereing the girl and i are close friends, i dont want to break a secret anytime where it could cause problems.
Don't tell him.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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Don't ever tell your friend. Even if he doesn't get mad he'll likely never trust you again. Everyone makes mistakes just don't make it worse, telling him is most likely for your conscious and nothing else.
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maybe ill tell him that i had sex with her when they werent going out.... because thats true too!
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itstarssaddam said:
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danlennon3 said: i know for a fact that he wouldnt be mad at me, but he would get mad at his ex.. and considereing the girl and i are close friends, i dont want to break a secret anytime where it could cause problems.
Don't tell him.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
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don't tell you're friend it will ruin your relationship with him. serioulsy, thats a lesson we all learn the hard way, try to learn it the easy way.
the last three girls were all in relationships? this is not an assholey question, but why? that might point out an unconscious fear you have of developing feelings etc with a girl. in a way, sleeping with a girl who is dating someone else is an easy way out...
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Taco Chef]
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novumorganum said: the last three girls were all in relationships? this is not an assholey question, but why?
Because he's the kind of guy we all wish we were.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Taco Chef]
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if you were my friend and did that to me. damn i would hate to be you. id beat the shit out of you....HARD.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
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RandalFlagg said:
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danlennon3 said: i wasnt thinking "hmmm maybe i should just physically push her off my bed"
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Plutonium said: You could have
Yeah, maybe if he was gay.
You don't need to be gay to understand the true meaning of a friendship.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Taco Chef]
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novumorganum said: that might point out an unconscious fear you have of developing feelings etc with a girl. in a way, sleeping with a girl who is dating someone else is an easy way out...
It was because of circumstances.. i needed to help them out with some sexual healing. for me, i am self-conscious, but i dont have a fear of relationships or girls
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Aww true love it makes you think of the average 2 people walking on the beach. Its no more real than moon made out of green cheese that we were all told about when we were young. Its told down through generations, but its a lie. Its even In MOVIES!
There are people in relationships that are unhappy, and there are people who are out of relationships that are unhappy.
*Women & men go out and meet people they never seen before (blind date)
Isn't it a assembly line? a made out to be that people are gonna meet someone and fall in love! mostly its not gonna happen!
The Bullshit is monogamy! DO U SEE THIS IN THE ANIMAL KINGDOM?! No chimps dint think in this way.
So is this in nature? no! think if animals had monogamy? But, When animals are ready for sex they show off, either by enlarged red ass or sent.
Dr Hellene Fisher "Romance is a drug.. one of the most powerfull drugs out there"
LOL threes a woman who wrote 2 books on marriage and love and she is not even married! She even evaluates women she never met!
So to recap Monogamy is BULLSHIT!
GO SEE - "Pen & Tellers Bullshit" season 2 episode 3 "Pen & Tellers Bullshit" season 3 episode 2
You shall learn.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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First you screw over your best friend by banging his girlfriend, then you make stupid excuses. Sexual healing? Who are you kidding? You were horny, she was horny and you guys had sex. You gave into carnal pleasure while she was in a relationship with your best friend. Now you are suffering the guilt as a result.
If I were you I would keep it quiet and just sit it out. I would also avoid that cheating girl.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
#5391929 - 03/12/06 01:15 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Slooch said: Aww true love it makes you think of the average 2 people walking on the beach. Its no more real than moon made out of green cheese that we were all told about when we were young. Its told down through generations, but its a lie. Its even In MOVIES!
There are people in relationships that are unhappy, and there are people who are out of relationships that are unhappy.
*Women & men go out and meet people they never seen before (blind date)
Isn't it a assembly line? a made out to be that people are gonna meet someone and fall in love! mostly its not gonna happen!
The Bullshit is monogamy! DO U SEE THIS IN THE ANIMAL KINGDOM?! No chimps dint think in this way.
So is this in nature? no! think if animals had monogamy? But, When animals are ready for sex they show off, either by enlarged red ass or sent.
Dr Hellene Fisher "Romance is a drug.. one of the most powerfull drugs out there"
LOL threes a woman who wrote 2 books on marriage and love and she is not even married! She even evaluates women she never met!
So to recap Monogamy is BULLSHIT!
GO SEE - "Pen & Tellers Bullshit" season 2 episode 3 "Pen & Tellers Bullshit" season 3 episode 2
You shall learn.
(PS. I have the episodes if u want to see them!)
There are most certainly cases of monogamy in the animal kingdom. Please know what you're talking about if you're going to sound so certain.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5391932 - 03/12/06 01:16 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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A dick has no conscience.
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danlennon3 said: had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else? The last three girls i had sex with, all had boyfriends. I don't know what that says about me... or them.. I have no problem doing this, except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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shit happens man, maybe if they were married or had been dating for awhile then it would be different, but people are animals and animals like to eat, sleep, and hump.
I wouldn't tell him, just because it's unnecessary. If he flat out asks you i wouldn't deny it, but letting it fade into the past isn't going to hurt anyone.
that being said, I would have definitely done the same thing.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: lukeboots]
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"There are most certainly cases of monogamy in the animal kingdom. Please know what you're talking about if you're going to sound so certain."
Are you going to give an example instaid of tell me im wrong?
that would be easy and it would prove your point.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
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deryl said: shit happens man, maybe if they were married or had been dating for awhile then it would be different, but people are animals and animals like to eat, sleep, and hump.
I wouldn't tell him, just because it's unnecessary. If he flat out asks you i wouldn't deny it, but letting it fade into the past isn't going to hurt anyone.
that being said, I would have definitely done the same thing.
EXACTLY!
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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using random unamned examples from the animal kingdom is as much a false argument as saying cheating is wrong b/c of "a fantasy called true love".
There are several species of birds that practice manogomy should we just let the alpha males rape whoever they want, like chimps do>
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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danlennon3 said: except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.
Nice move scumbag, I hope your friend finds out.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
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deryl said: that being said, I would have definitely done the same thing.
Nice one, I hope you don't have any friends either.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
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People suck.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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Slooch said: "There are most certainly cases of monogamy in the animal kingdom. Please know what you're talking about if you're going to sound so certain."
Are you going to give an example instaid of tell me im wrong?
that would be easy and it would prove your point.
Monogamy, a pair-bond between a single male and female, is comparatively rare among mammals. Small songbirds, such as sparrows and warblers, are annually monogamous, forming new bonds each mating season. Perennially monogamous animals include:
1. Ducks
2. Eagles
3. Foxes
4. Geese
5. Gibbons
6. Lynx
7. Marmosets
8. Mountain lions
9. Swans
10. Wolves
http://www.trivia-library.com/c/animal-mating-systems-polygyny-promiscuity-and-monogamy.htm
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Pirate_Patrick said: First you screw over your best friend by banging his girlfriend, then you make stupid excuses. Sexual healing?
ok i might have gone far with that sexual healing part. but i did not screw over my friend in any way. I have been friends with her just as long as he has. He was oversees for 6 months, and the girl needed to get rid of her sexual frustrations... since shes not one to hook up with whoever, she decided to come to me.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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far too many times...
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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danlennon3 said:
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He was oversees for 6 months,
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kit_kat]
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its always good to have a women's perscpective too
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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Fuck dude, when he gets back he's going to be heartbroken. Fuck that. You and him are good friends so he'll understand (what a crock)... you should cut off your dick and give it to him in return for his friendship.
You're a lousy friend, dude. If I were you, I wouldn't have even posted this. I never want to have a "friend" like you.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
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HellaMeister said:
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deryl said: that being said, I would have definitely done the same thing.
Nice one, I hope you don't have any friends either.
I was just being honest, I don't think it's very likely I ever would, but depending on cirsumstances, i don't think it's entirely out of the question.
especially if shes really hot.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
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I would like to think that I like my friends more than that and that they like me enough not to bang my girl while I was overseas.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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danlennon3 said: had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else? The last three girls i had sex with, all had boyfriends. I don't know what that says about me... or them.. I have no problem doing this, except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.
Her being your best friends girl it is both of your faults. If it hadn't have been your best friends girl I'd say that it would have been ok on your part as you are not the one in a relationship with certain bonds and trust to uphold.
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I tend to agree. If it were just some random chick I would not be as bad.
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danlennon3 said: had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else? The last three girls i had sex with, all had boyfriends. I don't know what that says about me... or them.. I have no problem doing this, except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.
Her being your best friends girl it is both of your faults. If it hadn't have been your best friends girl I'd say that it would have been ok on your part as you are not the one in a relationship with certain bonds and trust to uphold.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
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kilroy69 said: I would like to think that I like my friends more than that and that they like me enough not to bang my girl while I was overseas.
you see, that's an exceptional circumstance.
I wouldn't do that to any of my friends, but for instance if one of them gets belligerently drunk breaks a bunch of shit and passes out and you're stuck with their girlfriend at the end of the night when you're really drunk and she's really drunk and she's pissed of at her boyfriend and you're pissed of because you were on bitch patrol all night......then, i would probably do it.
but if my buddy runs to the store and his girl hops in my lap while he's gone, probably not.
all about circumstances.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
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In my mind nailing your best friends girl is ALWAYS a bad idea. No matter what the situation.Unless they are swingers, then its ok.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
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Not if you're a scumbag!
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
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Maybe I can't see this from a guys point of view, but I just can't understand how you can consider yourself a friend, nevermind a BEST friend, when you can sleep with your mates girl. I understand you're not all to blame, and she was at fault too, but you're supposed to be this guys best friend, does that mean nothing to you? Or did it not at the time?
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
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well i wasn't really talking about my best friends girl, more speaking in generalities. I doubt I would do that to a close friend but to an acquaintance the possibility is there.
I'm just not one to say I definitely wouldn't do something until I've actually been in a situation where the decision matters.
I know myself pretty well but that doesn't mean I don't forget sometimes.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Taco Chef]
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novumorganum said: should we just let the alpha males rape whoever they want, like chimps do>
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
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I have been cheated on, so I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of something like that. It's not a good feeling at all, and I would never do that to someone.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Redstorm]
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I've been cheated on too... It's one of the worst feelings, I blamed it all on myself, thought there must have been something wrong with me for my bloke at the time to go do that. I got really down on myself until my best mate managed to convince me that it was nothing to do with me, he was the twat... if he wasnt happy he could have broken things off... which still would have hurt, but in my opinion not as much as cheeting on me.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Gert]
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Redstorm]
#5392191 - 03/12/06 02:54 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Say it is a girl you have been hanging out with for a while that you are very attracted to. You know that she is involved yet she is coming onto you anyway. How would it be your fault if you acted on your urges and fucked her? You don't know her boyfriend personally so how can you feel guilty about it? Ideally she is not in love with this dude or she would not be trying to fuck with you. However, maybe she is in love, and she isn't fulfilled being with one person. Either way you are not in a relationship, you have no ties, and ultimately you are not in the wrong. (imo)
I've been cheated, have cheated, and been with girls that were cheating. It sucks being cheated on and at one time I blamed the other guy. (ended up getting slapped with a 2nd deg. assault charge and r.o. for cracking him with a bat, dude wasn't my friend, i didn't even know him personally, it was extremely immature) However you have to mature up to that, it's the partner that's at fault, not the enabler, unless of course the enabler has ties such as friendship to the other partner.
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Getting cheated on sucks ass! I mean lust is a great part of life n all and lust fades fast. So i say live without regrets. Live in the moment while you can.
I been tap dancing around serious relationships my whole life. Im to much of a space case. I wanna bounce around i wanna have fun, i wanna see all that i can. I been doing plenty of that its getting kinda old lol.
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that's true.
things happen that people can't control. it may feel awful to get cheated on, its happened to me too, but what I learned from it is that anyone who cheats on you is normally not anyone you want to be dating in the first place.
I wouldn't actively pursue another man's woman, but if the opportunity is there, I can't say i wouldn't take it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
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I guess it comes down to personal choices. I just think about the person who's been cheated on after being in that position. I didn't know the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with, but it didn't mean it hurt any less.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5392228 - 03/12/06 03:06 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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hahahah
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Gert]
#5392241 - 03/12/06 03:11 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Gert said: I guess it comes down to personal choices. I just think about the person who's been cheated on after being in that position. I didn't know the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with, but it didn't mean it hurt any less.
Sorry to hear about that. I'm sure it did hurt. It never feels good to be cheated on. 
However I was talking more about the person (talking in general) who your boyfriend slept with. She did not know you and IMO she was not in the wrong... also I doubt that she has any regrets about the situation.
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everyone here who has sex with more than 3 people is a shitbag.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: mikeownow]
#5392257 - 03/12/06 03:15 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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mikeownow said: everyone here who has sex with more than 3 people is a shitbag.
I think danlennon3 and I are probably the only males in this forum who can claim such an honor.
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Read between the lines to see what Dan Lennon is saying. To me it sounds like this:
"I am such a hot, hunk of man that even women that are attached find me irresistable! Women sweat me like I was Johnny Depp and want me so bad, what am I to do?
Isn't it so hard to be so handsome and talented in bed that chicks find me SOOOOO hot and want me constantly? It's lonely being so beautiful".
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If that person knows the other is in a relationship, how can they not be in the wrong? I think I see the point your trying to make, because it should have been up to my boyfriend, or whoever to say no... but at the end of the day that person knows they are going to be hurting someone else, and are putting themselves first. I may be bitter because of what happened to me, but in my opinion they're just being selfish.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: browndustin]
#5392289 - 03/12/06 03:30 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're a lousy friend, dude. If I were you, I wouldn't have even posted this. I never want to have a "friend" like you.
and hopefully you will never have a so called friend like this!~
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I'd never associate myself with someone like this.
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I had a friend that was dating this gal since they were 14... many years went by and we all hung out together. They had a kid together when they were 19. One night my buddy went to bed...and I stayed and played backgammon with his girlfriend...she was about 20 at the time. We ran out of beer...so we went to the store to get some more. I was about 24 then if I remember right. After getting some beer she wanted to go for a drive in my car. We ended up parking and talking. I turned away to pack a bowl..then looked over and she was trying to plant a kiss on me. I was like..."whoaaaa there girly your my best friends girl this aint happenin." She was like..."I have always wanted you to fuck me." I'm like...."You might as well be one of the guys to me." She was like..."Your gonna turn down sex with me?" I'm like..."Yeah I am not interested in fucking up my friendship with Kevin."
Then I drove her home...dropped her off. Went to another friends house where there was several friends and a few other people to get some good advice from. Some told me to tell my friend...some said to not tell him.
The next day I told my friend and he was pretty fricken upset...to say the least. He confronted her about it and she lied...she said that nothing happened and that I was lying. He believed her!~
I had no contact with him for 4 years. He ended up marrying her!~ I wasn't invited to the Wedding...which hurt my feelings. They had another child...found out from mutual friends.
When the 2nd child was about 3 years old... I get this phone call from him. His wife had been going out and drinking with her friends...for awhile. And he confronted her about having a drinking problem. She got pissed off and said she was taking the kids and leaving...she was drunk at the time. He said..."Your not taking my kids with you while your DRUNK and driving." She said..."You keep your son...I'll take mine." He said..."What the fuck are you talking about." She explains..."The oldest boy is yours...the youngest is not yours."
She had been cheating on him for years... The youngest boy that he had been raising for years...wasn't his!~
So he called me... and wanted to say he was sorry for not believing me years ago. and that I was a good friend...and that he missed our friendship. So we rekindled our friendship.
We have been very close friends ever since. 
A true friend would never cheat with another friends girlfriend or wife.
I call so called friends that do...acquaintances.
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1. a. Knowledge of a person acquired by a relationship less intimate than friendship. b. A relationship based on such knowledge: struck up an acquaintance with our new neighbor.
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I have had alot of acquaintances in my life...
I have a few close personal friends...and I cherish them. 
tc
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Roadkill]
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I couldn't have said it any better myselk, RK.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Roadkill]
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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"Tonight's episode of bullshit begins with a true story about love, marriage, and family. Here in the land of New Jersey lives a very fit and lovely physiotherapist (Ann). She lives in this New Jersey home with her delightfull husband. He is a bankruptcy lawyer, these two high school sweethearts have two fabulous children. They are the "perfect family" but there also more than that. After a good deal of discussion regarding what was truly important in marriage. The physiotherapist began sleeping with Julio. The bankruptcy lawyer wasn't outraged no guns or crimes of passion for him, and he began sleeping with Amy. Not his revenge, nothing bad no secrets, no lies, no kidding."
"Like many things in America marriage and family are chaining."
"marriage a declaration of love, honor and commitment. Sacioned by whatever god, your friends, and vote hungry politions."
"We stand for institutions like marriage and family which are the foundations of our society" (President Bush)
Its Drilled into your head that Monogamy and marriage is important!
"Why do we assume that we only have a certain kind of love for one person and that if you love someone else or if your sexual with them that there's something dangerous or wrong about that"
"John and Ann what a rap sheet married for 24 years, raised two cool kids, have good jobs, nice home, minivan, pay taxes, and there evil polyamorous bastards. Clearly a threat to society. Probably dog rapers too. Julio and Amy are the sleazy duo that infiltrated this happily married couple, and they don't just FUCK they steal croutons too."
*polyamorous(Definition:pertaining to participation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships)
"(Julio)In the beginning it was very difficult for me because, I was raised a Catholic, the whole structure and traditional thought was weighing on me that I was an evil person for thinking these thoughts, not even acting on them just thinking them. (Amy) When I found out that John was married I thought "what a cool way to live, they don't have any artificial limits on who they can get close to"
(Penn) OK there not drooling sex perverts, so lets ask John why share your wife with another man"
WHICH BRINGS US TO THE POINT OF THIS TOPIC!
(John)"I think there is a risk in monogamy of becoming over demanding of ones partner. It is very very difficult to satisfy all the needs of another person all the time"
"We don't know jack shit about people, but other primates sure aren't built for monogamy. Watch some chimps next time your on safari, or hangout at the zoo for a few days straight. Before they throw you out for some weird obsessive monkey fascination you will notice a simple fact they ALL FUCK EACH OTHER, its mother nature, they wont tell you that on the zoo tour but its true and heres the thing nobody seems to care"
Animals other than chimps do it to ensure the sauces of the growth of there offspring not EMOTIONAL reasons.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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Slooch said: Here in the land of New Jersey
Shit...that says it all right there.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: KaptKid]
#5392519 - 03/12/06 04:44 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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some of you are thinking of me completely the opposite of who I really am.. I am not one of those guys who thinks he's the shit.... the guy who goes out with the biggest ego thinking "hmm what pussy do I want tonight".. Im the quiet nice guy who doesnt talk unless talked to.. My friend has been back from overseas for over a year now by the way. In my entire life, i have never purposely done anything to hurt other people. im the person whos always there for people, and never expects anything in return... So think whatever you want to about me.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5392527 - 03/12/06 04:46 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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You fucked your best friends girl how do you want to be thought of?
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5392541 - 03/12/06 04:53 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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danlennon3 said: It's not my fault I accidentally fell and slipped into my best friend's girlfriend's vagina. I'm a nice guy! I swear!
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Noetical]
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I never asked anyone what they thought about it.. personally i dont care. I posted "have you ever" not "what do you think about me?"
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5392553 - 03/12/06 04:56 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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some of you are thinking of me completely the opposite of who I really am
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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"your such an asshole, you fucked up once over a year ago and you should go to hell for it!"
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Slooch]
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"We can prove through remarkably bad math that there are 100 times more non-traditional relationships than there are traditional"
"Heres how"
"In order to get Bryan Brown or Micheal Medvid or even that asshole Richard Cowin on this show we needed one signed release each. Nothing to it there all selling something.(People in the show who prove the point of traditional and non-traditional marriage)"
**** "To get a couple who doesn't have a book deal or any shit to sell thats a little harder thats still only two releases, but who knows of the circumstances are they may be private, or feel that there relationship is no-one else's business." ********* " But to get a threesome? Not only do all three have to agree but they have to be SO OPEN AND HONEST that EVERYONE in there life has to know about the very personal matter of there relationship." *******************"To find a foursome who will all agree to sign releases, who all have no secrets from anyone, and more amazingly all like our show. Must mean that there are THOUSANDS of foursomes who would have some reason for one of them to say NO.
"The number of possible compactions or objections which could come from any single one of them is STAGGERING. AND THEN IMAGINE that there son has to sign a release too, and we just happen to have found them. Teller and I cant even agree on where to go to lunch, SO half of the country must be into group sex."
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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Nah its not because you fucked up, its who you did it it to and how you were trying to justify it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Noetical]
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The Noetic Hogan Nip said:
Nah its not because you fucked up, its who you did it it to and how you were trying to justify it.
well said!~
learn to contain your one eyed trouser trout from dippin into your so called friends spoken for putang.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Noetical]
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For me its more of who you did it too. The guys I know I have known for 20 years. They are not my friends, they are my brothers. If one of their wives hit on me I would joke it off. If she hit harder I would say "no thanks". No Matter how hot she is. Comandment #1. of the guy code clearly states that if you fuck your best friends girl you go to hell. Sorry man thats how it is.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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It happened to a friend of mine once, and it was his friend, and another guy, who did it with his girlfriend. When he found out he went insane, literally. He tried to murder the friend, and he only got out because I told him what was about to happen and got him out of his house in time. He started shit-kicking the other guy, but he managed to escape and run all the way to the police.
I had the opportunity to do the same thing with a friend's gf, while my friend was away in the army for several months. It was easy to say no because the value of such a situation is none, as is the satisfaction from such an event. I understand your life must be completely dull and without meaning if doing such a thing gets even a consideration in your mind.
People who don't know what love is are living a crappy life. It's there, you just don't have it. Too bad you've convinced yourself that things are as plain as "we're animals." You don't even know what's in an animal's mind, so you can't compare it to what's in our minds. Why don't you get rid of all your possessions and clothes and graze a lawn or piss on fire hydrants if you're just an animal?
you failed being a friend, and being a decent person
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Disco Cat]
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Disco Cat said: People who don't know what love is are living a crappy life.
My life is just fine, thank you.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
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I said that only if you don't believe love is a real thing. That means you don't possess desires for others to feel good and well, to see their dreams come true and that you don't feel compassion when they are hurt, or joy when they are happy. Is that you? If someone lives separate from those things then their life cannot be but empty for them.
Their life can seem fine to them, but they don't possess the ability to constrast it to what it would be with love.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
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I've never had sex with a friend's boyfriend. I've had friends do this to me, and I've had strangers do it to me as well. I try to always treat people the way I would want them to treat me, and I always do my best to be loyal to my friends who deserve that loyalty. That being said, I couldn't hurt someone like that, regardless of how horny I was, or how tempted, or how long it had been since I last had sex.
Lots of people in this thread have suggested that danlennon not tell his best friend what happened. That fucking disgusts me. How would you people feel if your best friend not only fucked your girl, but then didn't even have the decency to tell you, and let you go right on thinking you had a healthy relationship? Danlennon, at least have the balls to tell him what went on, if for no other reason than to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and not despise what you see.
The fact that the last 3 girls you've slept with have been in relationships is terrible. While you can justify it by saying that you're not the one in the relationship, the fact that you would knowingly have sex with a woman who's committed to someone else is awful. Maybe you've never been cheated on by someone you love, and who you think loves you. Maybe you've never felt that pain, the accompanying loss of self esteem, and the bitterness that comes with it, but I assure you, it's not pleasant.
Hopefully, when you grow up a little bit, you'll find a girl who you are ready to committ to. You'll shower her in affection, only have eyes for her, maybe even think about tying the know someday.
Then, hopefully, she'll fuck your best friend. You've earned it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Liz]
#5392749 - 03/12/06 05:44 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Liz said: Hopefully, when you grow up a little bit, you'll find a girl who you are ready to committ to. You'll shower her in affection, only have eyes for her, maybe even think about tying the know someday.
Then, hopefully, she'll fuck your best friend. You've earned it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5392783 - 03/12/06 05:53 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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well put.
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Liz said: Hopefully, when you grow up a little bit, you'll find a girl who you are ready to committ to. You'll shower her in affection, only have eyes for her, maybe even think about tying the know someday.
Then, hopefully, she'll fuck your best friend. You've earned it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: mikeownow]
#5393298 - 03/12/06 08:36 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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mikeownow said: everyone here who has sex with more than 3 people is a shitbag.
3 people? I had passed that by my freshman year in highschool.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393329 - 03/12/06 08:46 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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mikeownow said: everyone here who has sex with more than 3 people is a shitbag.
3 people? I had passed that by my freshman year in highschool.
you lucky bastard!!
damn i need to get laid...  
but no, sleeping with your friends girl is just fucked up man... wtf.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: eligal]
#5393352 - 03/12/06 08:52 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I've never been with a friends girl. I have how ever been with girls who had boyfriends, I'm not proud of it I just admit it happened and it was far in the past. I've also cheated and been cheated on, it's a fucking shitty thing to do. That all went on high school when I was a very different person many moons ago.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393360 - 03/12/06 08:53 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Doesnt every girl have a bf?
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393375 - 03/12/06 08:58 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Adom said: I've never been with a friends girl. I have how ever been with girls who had boyfriends, I'm not proud of it I just admit it happened and it was far in the past. I've also cheated and been cheated on, it's a fucking shitty thing to do. That all went on high school when I was a very different person many moons ago.
when i said the thing about a friends girl i was actually talkin about danlennon3. to you i only said that you are lucky... lol.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393379 - 03/12/06 08:59 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Adom said: I've never been with a friends girl. I have how ever been with girls who had boyfriends, I'm not proud of it I just admit it happened and it was far in the past. I've also cheated and been cheated on, it's a fucking shitty thing to do. That all went on high school when I was a very different person many moons ago.
I think the highschool thing has something to do with it, at least for me anyway. I'm still in highschool so for me to say I'd hook up with one of my friend's girlfriend is different than someone who has known both for their whole life.
If I really thought there was something meaningful beetween them I wouldn't do it, but hell, most of them date for a month at a time at the most. I've never done it before, but damn, even if I did my friendswould just call me a bastard and then we'd go get drunk together and I'd find them a new girlfriend.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
#5393617 - 03/12/06 10:00 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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That's pretty much the way it was.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
#5393651 - 03/12/06 10:17 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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My $.02 on the issue. For one, yea, you did a shitty thing, you need to change your M.O. on girls you hook up with, because karma's going to get you. Not only that, if you do find a girl that you really care about, you're going to always know that some dickhead like you is out there trying to steal your girl from you, and you're going to know that there are plenty of girls who'll cheat.
Normall, I agree with liz on a lot of things, but on the issue of telling your friend, here's how I feel. For one, you're not going to do any good by telling the kid. All it's going to do is make him feel worse about himself, and it's going to create animosity in your relationship. Telling him is a selfish activity because you're trying to make yourself feel better after you already fucked everything up. Keep your mouth shut and let the past be the past. He's no longer with the chick, no good comes from filling him in on your past disgression.
Start hanging around with single girls, no good comes from aiding and abetting in a polyamorous relationship! All you're doing is setting yourself up to ruin a relationship and get your ass beat. Seriously man, just stop. Find a fucking single girl to fool around with, what you've done is a shitty thing and it's not good to keep doing it. It seems like you know you've done wrong, but you gotta change your actions. Knowing that there are guys like you out there makes me sick. I'm sorry, but cheating, to me, is the worst thing you can do to someone, because not only do you destroy a current relationship, but you fuck things up for both parties in future relationships. Please, if you have any decency, stop doing this. But don't tell your friend, you're only going to hurt him more than you already have. Please, do something good for him, Don't tell him.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danamine]
#5394378 - 03/13/06 05:58 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Normall, I agree with liz on a lot of things, but on the issue of telling your friend, here's how I feel. For one, you're not going to do any good by telling the kid. All it's going to do is make him feel worse about himself, and it's going to create animosity in your relationship. Telling him is a selfish activity because you're trying to make yourself feel better after you already fucked everything up. Keep your mouth shut and let the past be the past. He's no longer with the chick, no good comes from filling him in on your past disgression.
Start hanging around with single girls, no good comes from aiding and abetting in a polyamorous relationship! All you're doing is setting yourself up to ruin a relationship and get your ass beat. Seriously man, just stop. Find a fucking single girl to fool around with, what you've done is a shitty thing and it's not good to keep doing it. It seems like you know you've done wrong, but you gotta change your actions. Knowing that there are guys like you out there makes me sick. I'm sorry, but cheating, to me, is the worst thing you can do to someone, because not only do you destroy a current relationship, but you fuck things up for both parties in future relationships. Please, if you have any decency, stop doing this. But don't tell your friend, you're only going to hurt him more than you already have. Please, do something good for him, Don't tell him.
, I completely agree.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danamine]
#5394442 - 03/13/06 07:14 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I actually missed the part in his post where he said they were not together anymore (his best friend and the girl). My bad. I guess I feel a bit differently since they're not, but IMO he should probably still say something, just to clear the air with their friendship. Personally, if I was his friend, I would still want to know, regardless of whether I was still with her or not.
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