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RandalFlagg
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Disco Cat]
#5392668 - 03/12/06 05:25 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Disco Cat said: People who don't know what love is are living a crappy life.
My life is just fine, thank you.
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Disco Cat
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5392690 - 03/12/06 05:30 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I said that only if you don't believe love is a real thing. That means you don't possess desires for others to feel good and well, to see their dreams come true and that you don't feel compassion when they are hurt, or joy when they are happy. Is that you? If someone lives separate from those things then their life cannot be but empty for them.
Their life can seem fine to them, but they don't possess the ability to constrast it to what it would be with love.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
#5392736 - 03/12/06 05:41 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I've never had sex with a friend's boyfriend. I've had friends do this to me, and I've had strangers do it to me as well. I try to always treat people the way I would want them to treat me, and I always do my best to be loyal to my friends who deserve that loyalty. That being said, I couldn't hurt someone like that, regardless of how horny I was, or how tempted, or how long it had been since I last had sex.
Lots of people in this thread have suggested that danlennon not tell his best friend what happened. That fucking disgusts me. How would you people feel if your best friend not only fucked your girl, but then didn't even have the decency to tell you, and let you go right on thinking you had a healthy relationship? Danlennon, at least have the balls to tell him what went on, if for no other reason than to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and not despise what you see.
The fact that the last 3 girls you've slept with have been in relationships is terrible. While you can justify it by saying that you're not the one in the relationship, the fact that you would knowingly have sex with a woman who's committed to someone else is awful. Maybe you've never been cheated on by someone you love, and who you think loves you. Maybe you've never felt that pain, the accompanying loss of self esteem, and the bitterness that comes with it, but I assure you, it's not pleasant.
Hopefully, when you grow up a little bit, you'll find a girl who you are ready to committ to. You'll shower her in affection, only have eyes for her, maybe even think about tying the know someday.
Then, hopefully, she'll fuck your best friend. You've earned it.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Liz]
#5392749 - 03/12/06 05:44 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Liz said: Hopefully, when you grow up a little bit, you'll find a girl who you are ready to committ to. You'll shower her in affection, only have eyes for her, maybe even think about tying the know someday.
Then, hopefully, she'll fuck your best friend. You've earned it.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5392783 - 03/12/06 05:53 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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well put.
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RandalFlagg said:
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Liz said: Hopefully, when you grow up a little bit, you'll find a girl who you are ready to committ to. You'll shower her in affection, only have eyes for her, maybe even think about tying the know someday.
Then, hopefully, she'll fuck your best friend. You've earned it.
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Adom
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: mikeownow]
#5393298 - 03/12/06 08:36 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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mikeownow said: everyone here who has sex with more than 3 people is a shitbag.
3 people? I had passed that by my freshman year in highschool.
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eligal
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393329 - 03/12/06 08:46 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Adom said:
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mikeownow said: everyone here who has sex with more than 3 people is a shitbag.
3 people? I had passed that by my freshman year in highschool.
you lucky bastard!!
damn i need to get laid...  
but no, sleeping with your friends girl is just fucked up man... wtf.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: eligal]
#5393352 - 03/12/06 08:52 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I've never been with a friends girl. I have how ever been with girls who had boyfriends, I'm not proud of it I just admit it happened and it was far in the past. I've also cheated and been cheated on, it's a fucking shitty thing to do. That all went on high school when I was a very different person many moons ago.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393360 - 03/12/06 08:53 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Doesnt every girl have a bf?
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eligal
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393375 - 03/12/06 08:58 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Adom said: I've never been with a friends girl. I have how ever been with girls who had boyfriends, I'm not proud of it I just admit it happened and it was far in the past. I've also cheated and been cheated on, it's a fucking shitty thing to do. That all went on high school when I was a very different person many moons ago.
when i said the thing about a friends girl i was actually talkin about danlennon3. to you i only said that you are lucky... lol.
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deryl
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
#5393379 - 03/12/06 08:59 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Adom said: I've never been with a friends girl. I have how ever been with girls who had boyfriends, I'm not proud of it I just admit it happened and it was far in the past. I've also cheated and been cheated on, it's a fucking shitty thing to do. That all went on high school when I was a very different person many moons ago.
I think the highschool thing has something to do with it, at least for me anyway. I'm still in highschool so for me to say I'd hook up with one of my friend's girlfriend is different than someone who has known both for their whole life.
If I really thought there was something meaningful beetween them I wouldn't do it, but hell, most of them date for a month at a time at the most. I've never done it before, but damn, even if I did my friendswould just call me a bastard and then we'd go get drunk together and I'd find them a new girlfriend.
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Adom
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
#5393617 - 03/12/06 10:00 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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That's pretty much the way it was.
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danamine
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
#5393651 - 03/12/06 10:17 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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My $.02 on the issue. For one, yea, you did a shitty thing, you need to change your M.O. on girls you hook up with, because karma's going to get you. Not only that, if you do find a girl that you really care about, you're going to always know that some dickhead like you is out there trying to steal your girl from you, and you're going to know that there are plenty of girls who'll cheat.
Normall, I agree with liz on a lot of things, but on the issue of telling your friend, here's how I feel. For one, you're not going to do any good by telling the kid. All it's going to do is make him feel worse about himself, and it's going to create animosity in your relationship. Telling him is a selfish activity because you're trying to make yourself feel better after you already fucked everything up. Keep your mouth shut and let the past be the past. He's no longer with the chick, no good comes from filling him in on your past disgression.
Start hanging around with single girls, no good comes from aiding and abetting in a polyamorous relationship! All you're doing is setting yourself up to ruin a relationship and get your ass beat. Seriously man, just stop. Find a fucking single girl to fool around with, what you've done is a shitty thing and it's not good to keep doing it. It seems like you know you've done wrong, but you gotta change your actions. Knowing that there are guys like you out there makes me sick. I'm sorry, but cheating, to me, is the worst thing you can do to someone, because not only do you destroy a current relationship, but you fuck things up for both parties in future relationships. Please, if you have any decency, stop doing this. But don't tell your friend, you're only going to hurt him more than you already have. Please, do something good for him, Don't tell him.
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danamine]
#5394378 - 03/13/06 05:58 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Normall, I agree with liz on a lot of things, but on the issue of telling your friend, here's how I feel. For one, you're not going to do any good by telling the kid. All it's going to do is make him feel worse about himself, and it's going to create animosity in your relationship. Telling him is a selfish activity because you're trying to make yourself feel better after you already fucked everything up. Keep your mouth shut and let the past be the past. He's no longer with the chick, no good comes from filling him in on your past disgression.
Start hanging around with single girls, no good comes from aiding and abetting in a polyamorous relationship! All you're doing is setting yourself up to ruin a relationship and get your ass beat. Seriously man, just stop. Find a fucking single girl to fool around with, what you've done is a shitty thing and it's not good to keep doing it. It seems like you know you've done wrong, but you gotta change your actions. Knowing that there are guys like you out there makes me sick. I'm sorry, but cheating, to me, is the worst thing you can do to someone, because not only do you destroy a current relationship, but you fuck things up for both parties in future relationships. Please, if you have any decency, stop doing this. But don't tell your friend, you're only going to hurt him more than you already have. Please, do something good for him, Don't tell him.
, I completely agree.
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Liz
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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danamine]
#5394442 - 03/13/06 07:14 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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I actually missed the part in his post where he said they were not together anymore (his best friend and the girl). My bad. I guess I feel a bit differently since they're not, but IMO he should probably still say something, just to clear the air with their friendship. Personally, if I was his friend, I would still want to know, regardless of whether I was still with her or not.
-------------------- Remember, remember the fifth of November The gunpowder treason and plot. I see no reason why gunpowder treason Should ever be forgot.
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