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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #5392056 - 03/12/06 02:10 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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deryl said:
that being said, I would have definitely done the same thing.




Nice one, I hope you don't have any friends either.




I was just being honest, I don't think it's very likely I ever would, but depending on cirsumstances, i don't think it's entirely out of the question.

especially if shes really hot.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
    #5392066 - 03/12/06 02:15 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I would like to think that I like my friends more than that and that they like me enough not to bang my girl while I was overseas.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: danlennon3]
    #5392079 - 03/12/06 02:19 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else? The last three girls i had sex with, all had boyfriends. I don't know what that says about me... or them.. I have no problem doing this, except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.





Her being your best friends girl it is both of your faults. If it hadn't have been your best friends girl I'd say that it would have been ok on your part as you are not the one in a relationship with certain bonds and trust to uphold.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5392085 - 03/12/06 02:21 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I tend to agree. If it were just some random chick I would not be as bad.

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danlennon3 said:
had sex with someone who was in a relationship with someone else? The last three girls i had sex with, all had boyfriends. I don't know what that says about me... or them.. I have no problem doing this, except when the guy shes dating is my best friend! it happened once, and we swore it to secrecy.. For months i felt SO guilty about it.but at the time, the temptation was too much, she wanted it so bad, and i gave in. that was a while ago and they have broken up.. so one day ill tell him, a little ways down the road.





Her being your best friends girl it is both of your faults. If it hadn't have been your best friends girl I'd say that it would have been ok on your part as you are not the one in a relationship with certain bonds and trust to uphold.




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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
    #5392086 - 03/12/06 02:21 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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kilroy69 said:
I would like to think that I like my friends more than that and that they like me enough not to bang my girl while I was overseas.




you see, that's an exceptional circumstance.

I wouldn't do that to any of my friends, but for instance if one of them gets belligerently drunk breaks a bunch of shit and passes out and you're stuck with their girlfriend at the end of the night when you're really drunk and she's really drunk and she's pissed of at her boyfriend and you're pissed of because you were on bitch patrol all night......then, i would probably do it.

but if my buddy runs to the store and his girl hops in my lap while he's gone, probably not.

all about circumstances.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
    #5392110 - 03/12/06 02:29 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

In my mind nailing your best friends girl is ALWAYS a bad idea. No matter what the situation.Unless they are swingers, then its ok.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
    #5392116 - 03/12/06 02:32 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Not if you're a scumbag!


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
    #5392126 - 03/12/06 02:35 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Maybe I can't see this from a guys point of view, but I just can't understand how you can consider yourself a friend, nevermind a BEST friend, when you can sleep with your mates girl. I understand you're not all to blame, and she was at fault too, but you're supposed to be this guys best friend, does that mean nothing to you? Or did it not at the time?


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: kilroy69]
    #5392134 - 03/12/06 02:38 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

well i wasn't really talking about my best friends girl, more speaking in generalities. I doubt I would do that to a close friend but to an acquaintance the possibility is there.

I'm just not one to say I definitely wouldn't do something until I've actually been in a situation where the decision matters.

I know myself pretty well but that doesn't mean I don't forget sometimes.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Taco Chef]
    #5392146 - 03/12/06 02:40 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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novumorganum said:
should we just let the alpha males rape whoever they want, like chimps do>




:yesnod:


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: deryl]
    #5392149 - 03/12/06 02:41 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I have been cheated on, so I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of something like that. It's not a good feeling at all, and I would never do that to someone.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Redstorm]
    #5392175 - 03/12/06 02:49 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I've been cheated on too... It's one of the worst feelings, I blamed it all on myself, thought there must have been something wrong with me for my bloke at the time to go do that. I got really down on myself until my best mate managed to convince me that it was nothing to do with me, he was the twat... if he wasnt happy he could have broken things off... which still would have hurt, but in my opinion not as much as cheeting on me.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Gert]
    #5392179 - 03/12/06 02:50 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

:thumbup:


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Redstorm]
    #5392191 - 03/12/06 02:54 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Say it is a girl you have been hanging out with for a while that you are very attracted to. You know that she is involved yet she is coming onto you anyway. How would it be your fault if you acted on your urges and fucked her? You don't know her boyfriend personally so how can you feel guilty about it? Ideally she is not in love with this dude or she would not be trying to fuck with you. However, maybe she is in love, and she isn't fulfilled being with one person. Either way you are not in a relationship, you have no ties, and ultimately you are not in the wrong. (imo)

I've been cheated, have cheated, and been with girls that were cheating. It sucks being cheated on and at one time I blamed the other guy. (ended up getting slapped with a 2nd deg. assault charge and r.o. for cracking him with a bat, dude wasn't my friend, i didn't even know him personally, it was extremely immature) However you have to mature up to that, it's the partner that's at fault, not the enabler, unless of course the enabler has ties such as friendship to the other partner.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5392199 - 03/12/06 02:58 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

Getting cheated on sucks ass! I mean lust is a great part of life n all and lust fades fast. So i say live without regrets. Live in the moment while you can.

I been tap dancing around serious relationships my whole life. Im to much of a space case. I wanna bounce around i wanna have fun, i wanna see all that i can. I been doing plenty of that its getting kinda old lol.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5392202 - 03/12/06 02:58 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

that's true.

things happen that people can't control. it may feel awful to get cheated on, its happened to me too, but what I learned from it is that anyone who cheats on you is normally not anyone you want to be dating in the first place.

I wouldn't actively pursue another man's woman, but if the opportunity is there, I can't say i wouldn't take it.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Adom]
    #5392204 - 03/12/06 02:59 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)



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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
    #5392205 - 03/12/06 02:59 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

I guess it comes down to personal choices. I just think about the person who's been cheated on after being in that position. I didn't know the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with, but it didn't mean it hurt any less.


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5392228 - 03/12/06 03:06 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

:rofl:

hahahah


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Re: Have you ever..... [Re: Gert]
    #5392241 - 03/12/06 03:11 PM (17 years, 10 months ago)

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I guess it comes down to personal choices. I just think about the person who's been cheated on after being in that position. I didn't know the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with, but it didn't mean it hurt any less.




Sorry to hear about that. I'm sure it did hurt. It never feels good to be cheated on. :frown:

However I was talking more about the person (talking in general) who your boyfriend slept with. She did not know you and IMO she was not in the wrong... also I doubt that she has any regrets about the situation.


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