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 Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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 I told the woman I love to fuck off 
#5364420 - 03/04/06 12:03 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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DISCLAIMER: I'm just really ranting, don't feel in obligation to post... I also would appreciate that you don't critic my actions, I'm very badly hurt now. Thanks 
So as some of you know, I had been with my ex Natalia for more than a year until I broke up 'coz I thought that she wasn't putting enough into our relationship and I had too many regrets over a few things to keep going on. However we were cool for a long while, until a month passes (she is living very far away from me by then) and we both fuck somebody and fuck we're still in love with each other.
So I propose that we might get together again, and try my harder to make everything work, so we can move to the same city again and found her a job she likes, give her EVERYTHING she may need to be happy.
And today (a month after we've been trying to be cool again and were actually pretty happy) I found she had something with someone yesterday (which I don't blame 'coz we had freedom) just a few hours after we were saying we love each other in the phone hundreds of times.
So let me say, all the time she was a little hesitant (she says she can't forge how I treated her when we broke up, but I think I've make up more than enough for that already) and not really putting any effort into the thing -from my point of view- but today I gave her an ultimatum: if she could stay until we meet again in April without having an affair with someone I'd forget everything and gave here everything again. All my love, all my life for her happiness 
She told me she couldn't promise that.
So, I just told her that if she prefers some kisses and a dirty fuck in the street like a whore instead of me giving her all the love a man can give, that that makes her a whore indeed, and to fuck off.
I feel horrible now but I know I couldn't let this woman make my life more of a living hell anymore. But that doesn't mean I don't love her....
Anyway, sorry for the rambling, I just needed to put it out somehow...
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Corporal Kielbasa
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Been their before...... She knows you dont mean it but shit man when shit goes like it went shit just goes and comes out. I beet in 6 months or a year she will be calling you.
Just remeber you dont own her. She needs to do things in her life, just like anyone else. To say she cant leave and do what she has to do is some reall bullshit.
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Quote:
Corporal Kielbasa said:
Been their before...... She knows you dont mean it but shit man when shit goes like it went shit just goes and comes out. I beet in 6 months or a year she will be calling you.
Just remeber you dont own her. She needs to do things in her life, just like anyone else.
Thank you, that helps put things into perspective 
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RandalFlagg
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Go find another woman. Forget this one. People like this are selfish. They string along old flames as "backup spouses" all the while being on the lookout for something better.
If no "Mr. Right" comes along she'll chill with you. If God's gift to women (tall, dark, handsome, rich, as endowed as me, etc...) comes into her life tomorrow she'll go with him.
Don't let anybody walk all over you like that.
Edited by RandalFlagg (03/04/06 12:30 PM)
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Liz
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You need to always do what is right for YOU in life, and worry about other people afterwards, because in the long run, it's only you man. If things were meant to work out between you 2, they will, after both of you grow up a little bit.
Good Luck
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In(di)go
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i wish you guys would work it out already... but who knows... maybe this is the best course of action... if she doesn't appreciate everything you've done and still do for her, then you should just let go... she has to learn to recognize what you are prepared to offer her, because honest to god, there are very few guys on this planet who would do so much for a woman...
i hope you feel better, man... and i hope this doesn't mess you up too much... after all you have exams to write... keep you'r head up! 
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5364486 - 03/04/06 12:32 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
Go find another woman. Forget this one. People like this are selfish. They string along old flames as "backup spouses" all the while being on the lookout for something better.
If no "Mr. Right" comes along she'll chill with you. If God's gift to women (tall, dark, handsome, rich, as endowed as me, etc...) comes into her life tomorrow she'll go with him.
Don't let anybody walk all over you like that.
Actually, even she admits I AM mr.right, but that she needs time for her. Yeah right, time with a another cock inside her while we're talking love 
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RandalFlagg
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Have you noticed that the second you show how much you love her by doing anything you can for her, that's when she takes you for granted the most? Have you noticed that when you retreat from her because of being hurt or pissed she then pursues you and tries to get your attention?
If so, then you are her bitch plain and simple.
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RandalFlagg
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Deepman said:
Actually, even she admits I AM mr.right, but that she needs time for her. Yeah right, time with a another cock inside her while we're talking love
Ah...well she actually admits it. She sounds like she's young and she wants to go out and fuck. I can't say that I blame her for such feelings because I have certainly felt that way at times.
People like this are fun to hang out with and have sex with. However, they are not fun to be in a relationship with.
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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 Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: In(di)go]
#5364496 - 03/04/06 12:37 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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Computer fuck up
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There's no better way to rock out than with your cock out!!
Edited by Deepman (03/04/06 12:38 PM)
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: In(di)go]
#5364498 - 03/04/06 12:37 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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Thanks Liz and In(di)go, your kind words mean a lot to me.
Hell, you know how much I've been thru for her don't you In(di)go? Do you still think I deserve her? :reallyhurtsrightnow:
But don't worry, I won't let it mess me up again, I have to be strong so I can have energies to visit you soon and finish my album so we have something to play there 
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In(di)go
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i think the main question is if she deserves you... and i don't think she does right now...
and yes! you oughta visit me soon!
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5364507 - 03/04/06 12:44 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
RandalFlagg said:
Ah...well she actually admits it. She sounds like she's young and she wants to go out and fuck
That's exactly what she says! And I do understand it, but I can't understand how that can be more important for her right now.
Actually that's unfair, I guess it's the mixture between being afraid of another break up and needing new sexual experiences... I took her virginity after all.
But that doesn't mean that I'm still going to take all this and be happy about it. She DID have an affair and she didn't enjoy it, why doesn't she realize that sex whitout love is just not the same?
Anyway Randal, I'm impressed at your insight, seems like you've really been thru something similar...
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RandalFlagg
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Quote:
Deepman said:
Anyway Randal, I'm impressed at your insight, seems like you've really been thru something similar...
Edited by RandalFlagg (03/04/06 01:12 PM)
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: In(di)go]
#5364514 - 03/04/06 12:46 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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Gotta finish that album and create the band... you up for that you un-hippie whore?
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In(di)go
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always, man... always! i actually made up my mind this week... i'm gonna leave my band... 
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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: In(di)go]
#5364525 - 03/04/06 12:51 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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WTF man, creat t thread about it so you can tell me.
Oh and:
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In(di)go
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: In(di)go]
#5364540 - 03/04/06 12:57 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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and so we shall post-whore some more today 
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Corporal Kielbasa
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5365611 - 03/04/06 07:43 PM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
Go find another woman. Forget this one. People like this are selfish. They string along old flames as "backup spouses" all the while being on the lookout for something better.
If no "Mr. Right" comes along she'll chill with you. If God's gift to women (tall, dark, handsome, rich, as endowed as me, etc...) comes into her life tomorrow she'll go with him.
Don't let anybody walk all over you like that.
Whats the mater with that? They wernt married........
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Quote:
Deepman said:
Anyway, sorry for the rambling, I just needed to put it out somehow...
I feel you brother. I am sorry for your troubles. I know things will look up, though, Just keep your head up and your mind clear.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Uh....exactly, which is why Deepman told her to fuck off.
She SAYS that you are Mr. Right, but she might not believe it. Because if she did, like you said, she would realize that a dirty one night stand and having sex with someone you care aobut and possibly love is far better. And just cuz she's young doesn't mean shit. You can still be faithful to someone. Age has nothing to do with it. It's all based on the maturity level of the person. I've met 40 year olds that act like teenagers and vice versa.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Some more beautiful than others. And not all species of fish have been discovered yet.
Goddamn, that was lame.  
But it's true.
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RandalFlagg
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McKennaDMT said:
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Some more beautiful than others. And not all species of fish have been discovered yet.
I fooled around with a chick once who smelled like fish.
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 Jadian
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5366305 - 03/05/06 01:06 AM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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No... that WAS a fish, but man were you hammered that night!
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adeptMind
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Re: I told the woman I love to fuck off [Re: Jadian]
#5366364 - 03/05/06 01:38 AM (18 years, 1 month ago) |
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ten ways to say...
I don't love you anymore...
read it, understand it, and cry...
it'll help...
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stefan
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that sucks man, but you probably did the right thing even though it hurts. If she can't wait even for 1-2 months then she isn't worth it. Like you said balance is important in a relationship and if the balance is wrong (you putting more energy etc into it than she is) it's most likely to fail.
*a big hug for my spanish friend*
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