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Simisu
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help me!
#5298865 - 02/14/06 11:35 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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should i take this job (or at least try to) or.......?
here's what's going on... i've just turned 24 and i haven't done anything since i went out of the army two years ago... i'm pretty much disfunctional (i seldom leave the house for anything... i have no idea what i want to do... blablablabla...) lately i'm thinking of saying fuck it and just going to live on my own, so i could feel free to do whatever i want and not have to listen to my perents bitch anymore. but the fact is i can save loads of money if i stay with my perents untill i'll have a deacent reason to leave (school/job/girl...) that said... my mom got fired a few days ago and she say's i might be able to take over! she's some sort of acountent for a computer company so it's a deacent job with avrage pay (not too good but better then anything alse i can probably get... considering the fact i have no idea how to find another job nor the proper ambition to...) i'm scared as hell to get burried in such a job... i DONT want to be doing that for the rest of my life and i'm afraid i'll never have the balls to do anything alse if i start this... on the other hand i could work there untill i get fed up or have some sort of desire for something alse (like school or whatever) i'm afraid i'll let it define me and some how "sell out" on my self?
any insight is welcome! thanks
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: help me! [Re: Simisu]
#5298884 - 02/14/06 11:39 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Take it. It sounds like a good idea for now, if you get tired of it go back to school or wait till a better job pops up.
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Re: help me! [Re: Simisu]
#5298892 - 02/14/06 11:41 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Take the job. It will get you out of the house and make your life more productive. Plus, it will give you some $ to attempt to move out.
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Simisu
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Re: help me! [Re: Redstorm]
#5298994 - 02/14/06 12:08 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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i do have money to move out (although i'd have to find a job anyway... which i eccept) i feel like i never made any decision in my life! and that's what got me stuck in the first place... taking this job would be a sort of non dcision again...
urrggg... i dunno... i'll make money but it'll limit my time to do other stuff... though i'm not making much of my time right now (but i might if i lived on my own?)
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Re: help me! [Re: Simisu]
#5299041 - 02/14/06 12:18 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah if I was you I would take the job and start saving up for whatever you are going to do with your life. Then when that time comes you can just give them your two week notice
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Re: help me! [Re: Simisu]
#5299052 - 02/14/06 12:21 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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What were the conditions on which your mom was fired? It seems odd that someone would get fired and then the company would hire the son.
Isn't that a bit awkward??
Anyways, whatever you do, move towards being able to support yourself. It's only gonna get more irritating to have to rely on others for housing, etc.
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Simisu
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the company changed hands and they're not willing to pay her as much as she deserves so they're letting her go she told her boss she's not gonna help anyone they hire but she'll teach me anything i need to know...
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