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Offlinestefan
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my girlfriend wants a 'break'
    #5297927 - 02/14/06 02:16 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

so out of nothing my gf had a talk with me yesterday about that she wasn't sure of her feelings for me and that she needs a 'break' to think about it... :frown:

She wrote it down as that her feelings weren't as strong anymore as in the beginning. My guess is that the 'being in love' fades to 'just' love. This is also the only thing she wants to think about. We are always honest to each other and having a lot of fun everytime we see each other. great sex too :grin: We both can't imagine that it could be any better.

...I'll just have to be patient I guess and let her think :smirk:
Also I have two exams this week, one tonight and one on friday. I hope I can still concentrate :crazy:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5297930 - 02/14/06 02:17 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Nice of her to do it two days before Valentines day.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: MisterMyco]
    #5297934 - 02/14/06 02:20 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

1 day before, it's valentines day now :smirk:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5297984 - 02/14/06 02:50 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

let her breathe, but prepare for the worst. you know? i don't think the statistics for "breaks" end up in favor of your party... usually


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298064 - 02/14/06 04:39 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I wouldn't get mad about it--respect her for her honesty, these things happen.

It is much better that she was up-front and honest about it than for her to lead you on, and then to find out down the road that she has been B.S and cheating on you all the while.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: gregorio]
    #5298067 - 02/14/06 04:43 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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gregorio said:
I wouldn't get mad about it--respect her for her honesty, these things happen.

It is much better that she was up-front and honest about it than for her to lead you on, and then to find out down the road that she has been B.S and cheating on you all the while.




very true, as much as it hurts, its better that she told you and broke it up instead of staying in a realationship which her heart was not fully in.

we all go through similar shit, you can handle it  :heart:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298134 - 02/14/06 05:39 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Your best move would have been to tell her straight up that you've been trying to tell her the same thing, but were worried it would hurt her.  Say you've been interested in other women, and you've been confused lately as to what you want.


The problem here, is that while you were enjoying your little love fest, you've been convincing her over and over that she's got you 100%. 

Let her know she doesnt in subtle ways, and tell her you could really use the break too.  *Then just stay out of contact with her.*


If she does not contact you within the span of a month, she's an alien.



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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: RuNE]
    #5298174 - 02/14/06 06:01 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

She has someone else in mind, guarenteed.
girls don't need time to think. They know what they want instinctively. "thinking break" is code for "transitional break-up"
It's unfortunate. if you try to "win her back" you will find her surprisingly resistant to the idea.
If you persist, you'll find quite quickly the resistance turns into subtle hostility and avoidance.

all im saying is don't put your heart on the line.
i've seen this SO many times. and also, ive been there enough to have it drilled into me.

the "thinking break" pretty much as you described it word for word. its a gentle prelude to an ugly deception.

it always happens in the "honest and open" relationships with the "great sex" thats the real loop of the matter.

you'll probably end up in the shitstorm of it all anyway.
good luck. dont let it break ya.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298205 - 02/14/06 06:24 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

tough break, man... i know what your going through, believe me... take time for yourself and try not to obsess about it... good luck with your exams!


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: In(di)go]
    #5298212 - 02/14/06 06:30 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

IMO, that means shes already got a backup handy. You shouldve done the same. Thats the thing with women...A week ago you might have been the star quarterback, but there is always a benchwarmer waiting for his time,lol.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
    #5298243 - 02/14/06 06:59 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Well, looks like it's time to call up all the bitches you said sorry I have a gf to.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298319 - 02/14/06 07:38 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

That bitch!


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298412 - 02/14/06 08:36 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Yep, everyone is right.  Sorry, Stefan, but she's got something else already lined up.  Sucks man, but we've all been there. 

Rune is right.  She knows she has you whenever she wants you.  While this 3rd party that she's got going on, she's not sure about it.  So she wants to give it a shot. 

My guess is that she'll breakup with you and she'll be back within a year or so, saying how much of a mistake she made.

You're good man, just keep everything in perspective.  :wink:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298428 - 02/14/06 08:42 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

This situation is so heartbreaking and yet so common.

It may or may not be that she has her eye on another guy, but it definitely is that the attraction has diminished.
She's either falling out of love with you, or her lust for you is gone.

At this point, what's going on in her head is anybody's guess, but as everyone said, and I agree, it sounds like it's
over. I give you the same advice... Don't chase her, you'll end up alienating her. If you love her let her go, if she
comes back, she's yours.

Good luck, man.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5298429 - 02/14/06 08:43 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

why won't you guys just stop making assumptions? i know you speak out of experience... i mean hell i've been there, too... got my heart crushed about a year ago... same kind of situation... but stefan don't make assumptions about what you don't know... take what she says as the truth... if you feel the need, ask her about it... assumptions just bring unnecessary pain...

but i agree with what everybody said... don't chase her... give her the distance... but don't fool yourself... if you feel like going out with other women, do it... but if you are anything like me youll just find out that if you do you are cheating on your own feelings...


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: In(di)go]
    #5298547 - 02/14/06 09:54 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

hey, you have to assume something.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: MisterMyco]
    #5298567 - 02/14/06 10:01 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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Nice of her to do it two days before Valentines day.




Fucking ruthless.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5298573 - 02/14/06 10:04 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I got dumped today.  :crazy:

I saw it coming though. Fuck it, nothing lasts anyway.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5298576 - 02/14/06 10:04 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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McKennaDMT said:
My guess is that she'll breakup with you and she'll be back within a year or so, saying how much of a mistake she made.




Yeah, I hope I don't ruin her too much before she goes back to stefan.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5298605 - 02/14/06 10:19 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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McKennaDMT said:
My guess is that she'll breakup with you and she'll be back within a year or so, saying how much of a mistake she made.




Yeah, I hope I don't ruin her too much before she goes back to stefan.




if i was stefan,
i would punch you in the eye for that comment.
joking or not.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: 40oz]
    #5298614 - 02/14/06 10:22 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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if i was stefan,
i would punch you in the eye for that comment.
joking or not.




Definately. I deserve to get popped for that one.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298631 - 02/14/06 10:28 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

It legitimate makes me angry to read these thread where everyone is so POSITIVE that she's already got someone else lined up. 

I've said it before and I'll say it again....NOT ALL GIRLS ARE LIKE THAT.  Just because some of you have had shitty experiences with slutty, lying, manipulative women, that doesn't mean that Stefan should take her letter as anything other than a request for some space right now.

None of you know if she's met anyone, of if this is the END of their relationship.  Sometimes people need time to just think about things as a single unit.

Stefan, give her space, lots of it.  Give her a true taste of what life is like without you there.  If she loves you, she'll miss you and come back, and it's your call whether to accept her back at that point.  Or, if feelings have really diminished, over time you'll both move on, and hopefully be mature enough to remain friends.

Good Luck either way, I know it's hard.  :heart:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Liz]
    #5298648 - 02/14/06 10:32 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

:thumbup: that needed to be said...


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298662 - 02/14/06 10:34 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Life sucks, my girl moved 900 miles away and said she needs time apart. I don't blame the bitch but she didn't have to be such a bitch about the whole thing. She claims were still together but how the fuck can that be? She don't answer my calls or talk when she does. FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish I was strong enough to just end this stupid life.

I'm getting my balls removed so I don't ever fall in love again.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Fungi_x]
    #5298672 - 02/14/06 10:39 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Last time one of my girlfriends said they needed a break she went out and fucked 3 guys in one night.... She is a dirty cracked out stripper with a kid now so I feel better :smile:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Liz]
    #5298679 - 02/14/06 10:42 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

ifallapart said:
It legitimate makes me angry to read these thread where everyone is so POSITIVE that she's already got someone else lined up. 

I've said it before and I'll say it again....NOT ALL GIRLS ARE LIKE THAT.  Just because some of you have had shitty experiences with slutty, lying, manipulative women, that doesn't mean that Stefan should take her letter as anything other than a request for some space right now.

None of you know if she's met anyone, of if this is the END of their relationship.  Sometimes people need time to just think about things as a single unit.

Stefan, give her space, lots of it.  Give her a true taste of what life is like without you there.  If she loves you, she'll miss you and come back, and it's your call whether to accept her back at that point.  Or, if feelings have really diminished, over time you'll both move on, and hopefully be mature enough to remain friends.

Good Luck either way, I know it's hard.  :heart:




AHEM!!!

Not "everyone"!

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TripMeister said:
This situation is so heartbreaking and yet so common.

It may or may not be that she has her eye on another guy, but it definitely is that the attraction has diminished.
She's either falling out of love with you, or her lust for you is gone.

At this point, what's going on in her head is anybody's guess, but as everyone said, and I agree, it sounds like it's
over. I give you the same advice... Don't chase her, you'll end up alienating her. If you love her let her go, if she
comes back, she's yours.

Good luck, man.




Almost word for word what you said. :heart:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: benrules92]
    #5298680 - 02/14/06 10:42 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

But ya not all girls are like that .... But thier are alot of them out thier


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Fungi_x]
    #5298701 - 02/14/06 10:47 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

yeah... i have considered retiring my dick like the guy in 40 y/o virgin as well... but well...

stay strong fungi... that life comment didnt sound good at all... pm me if you need to talk...


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298708 - 02/14/06 10:48 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Maybe she's not mature enough to understand yet that a long term relationship will not be 100% hot all the time.

Most girls in their twenties seem to get easily distracted when their mate starts to seem unappealing. This unattraction can be caused by anything (too much stablity/routine can be a reason).

A woman's cycle can even influence and change what she's attracted to.

She's likely just not interested in you for the time being. In my experience, mature women will generally stay loyal even when they're in this state of mind. They've learned that it will pass and in a few days/weeks they'll be just as "in love and lust" with their partner as they've always been.

Immature women begin feeling discontent and get the flight going, seeking something more exciting and new.

Or maybe she genuinely is conflicted about her feeling for you. In this case, I too would suspect she has someone else in mind. Unless she is a girl of integrity, which only she knows.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
    #5298758 - 02/14/06 11:03 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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FungusMan said:

IMO, that means shes already got a backup handy. You shouldve done the same. Thats the thing with women...A week ago you might have been the star quarterback, but there is always a benchwarmer waiting for his time,lol.




this is the case 90% of the time.

I have seen this happen so many times in my 45 years on this planet...
I can't even recount all the times this has happened to me and my friends.

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she really isn't into you.

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Sorry bro!~


and good luck with your exams...
don't let this mess them up!~
your education is more important than a flaky girlfriend.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298848 - 02/14/06 11:30 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

what a bitch.

flash judgement: you're better off without her.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: DoctorJ]
    #5298864 - 02/14/06 11:35 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

women are psycho and should have brain implants


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: DoctorJ]
    #5298880 - 02/14/06 11:38 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

in the infamous words of mr snoop dizzle.

bitches aint nothin' but tricks and ho's. :wink: :smile:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: coda]
    #5298894 - 02/14/06 11:41 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Snoop said in '94
"We dont love dem ho's"


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
    #5298900 - 02/14/06 11:42 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

The in '97 he said "I love my dear wife, I'd do anything for her."

O, how the times are changing.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: MOTH]
    #5298906 - 02/14/06 11:43 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Elle...

Very impressive and enlightening. Well said.

Thank you for the education.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: HELLA_TIGHT]
    #5298910 - 02/14/06 11:44 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Also what snoop said:

I quit doing drugs...
I smoke tha chronic
I quit doing drugs...
I smoke tha chronic
I quit doing drugs
(then appears in an issue of Hightimes)lol


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    #5298912 - 02/14/06 11:45 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Snoop lives for Jesus now. He's reppin.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Liz]
    #5298987 - 02/14/06 12:06 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I could have seen this coming, all these comments...

I don't know if I should laugh about, or feel sorry for all you distrustfull, dishonest and immature people who talk about getting other women behind her back etc. grow up man. It really suprises me that I see all this negativity and ugly assumptions in this thread. Ofcoarse there are women (?nd men) who are like that, but definitely not all of them.

I trust my girl and there's no way she has some-one 'lined up'. You can have a different opinion but you don't know her.

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Stefan, give her space, lots of it. Give her a true taste of what life is like without you there. If she loves you, she'll miss you and come back, and it's your call whether to accept her back at that point. Or, if feelings have really diminished, over time you'll both move on, and hopefully be mature enough to remain friends.



that's the case indeed and what I planned to do. I'm giving her space, I know she needs it (we talked about this).

I'll just have to be patient and see what happens. She will let me know wether she wants this relationship to continue or not. I'm having a realistic view on this situation and know that there is a good chance that she decides to end it :frown:

thanks to you who give serious and helpfull replies :thumbup: :heart:

oh randal, this one's for you :smirk:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5298998 - 02/14/06 12:08 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Women are kindalike chows. They are great fun but they can turn on you at any moment.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: kilroy69]
    #5299007 - 02/14/06 12:11 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

stefan said:
"I trust my girl and there's no way she has some-one 'lined up'. You can have a different opinion but you don't know her."

90% of the people that it happens to think the same thing. Quit running away from the possible truth, and go have fun.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
    #5299020 - 02/14/06 12:14 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I'm not running away for the possible truth. It that was the case she would tell me.
I'm sure you don't believe that there actually are honest people out there. I hope you meet one some day :thumbup:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5299061 - 02/14/06 12:23 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I DO believe there are honest people out there. I never said anything otherwise. It just seems you can only handle sugar coating.And btw, Im married to the gurl Ive been with for 7 years.
I dont look at it as a matter of trust. I dont think she would lie to me, BUT If I find out she fucked around, or just wasnt into me, and we divorced...damn straight I have backup options. I have never cheated, and Yes I do love her. But life is life.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5299070 - 02/14/06 12:26 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I think people here are just trying to keep you from being naive because they know that naive people get hurt more easily.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: DoctorJ]
    #5299072 - 02/14/06 12:27 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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I think people here are just trying to keep you from being naive because they know that naive people get hurt more easily.




That sums it all up in one sentence. :thumbup:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5299082 - 02/14/06 12:30 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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oh randal, this one's for you :smirk:





Ouch!  Shit!  :smirk:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
    #5299085 - 02/14/06 12:31 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

dude, I know there are probably guys that she likes, you can call them 'backups' if you want to, but that's not the reason for her to take this break. That's what I'm trying to tell you here, and if you read the thread you would know.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5299086 - 02/14/06 12:31 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Like you said give her space and fill that void with something better.  New hobby... something she hasn't already pinned off as 'something he does'. 

When a person figures out your routines you become boring.  Always keep some type of mystery element to keep them interested.  Whatever you do don't fill the space with shit you already do.

And whatever you decide to do... enjoy yourself.  It's attractive to everyone, her and other chicks.

Good luck  :thumbup:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Cowgold]
    #5299088 - 02/14/06 12:33 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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And whatever you decide to do... enjoy yourself.  It's attractive to everyone, her and other chicks.

Good luck  :thumbup:



I will, thanks  :sun:


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5299944 - 02/14/06 04:37 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

girls are like monkeys, they dont leave one branch til they have another one to swing on


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: fresh313]
    #5299954 - 02/14/06 04:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

:rolleyes: :thumbdown:

believe it or not, some girls actually like being single at some point in their lives.  that's a gross generalization, and comepletely unfounded.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Liz]
    #5299962 - 02/14/06 04:41 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

gotta get that spark flowing, suprise her with something. Like romanatic style.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
    #5300248 - 02/14/06 06:17 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Stefan, we're just looking out for ya brother.  Of course we wish you all the best.  If it's true and she just wants a little space for the time being, to get some things straightened out, then fuck yeah, give the space and time and you'll guys be stronger for it.  But DON'T be surprised if what some of us have said turns out to be the case.  We just want to make sure you have thought about all the options, but of course you already have right?  :wink:

Good luck, bud.

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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5300457 - 02/14/06 07:34 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Are you planning to still "hang out" with her as "friends"?


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
    #5300463 - 02/14/06 07:37 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Ok, I may be wrong here.  But, EVERY time I have seen a man or a woman give the "I need space" line to their significant other it meant that they:

1.  Didn't like them anymore.

2.  Had somebody new lined up.

:shrug: 

Maybe I'm wrong.  I hope for stefan's sake that I am.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: RandalFlagg]
    #5300468 - 02/14/06 07:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

chicks move guy to guy i think she has a new man lined up...in almost every case i have seen its true.


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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #5300500 - 02/14/06 07:50 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

So the consensus is that she's got a new guy lined up.  Bets anybody??  I kid, I kid.

And of course his response is going to be "well, you just don't know her on the level that I do."  While true, she's still a woman and they are crazy.  :smile:  Grass is greener and whatnot.

Again though, Stefan, we wish you the best of luck.  We'll be here when you need us.  :smile:


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