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FungusMan
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: kilroy69]
#5299007 - 02/14/06 12:11 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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stefan said: "I trust my girl and there's no way she has some-one 'lined up'. You can have a different opinion but you don't know her."
90% of the people that it happens to think the same thing. Quit running away from the possible truth, and go have fun.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
#5299020 - 02/14/06 12:14 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm not running away for the possible truth. It that was the case she would tell me. I'm sure you don't believe that there actually are honest people out there. I hope you meet one some day
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
#5299061 - 02/14/06 12:23 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I DO believe there are honest people out there. I never said anything otherwise. It just seems you can only handle sugar coating.And btw, Im married to the gurl Ive been with for 7 years. I dont look at it as a matter of trust. I dont think she would lie to me, BUT If I find out she fucked around, or just wasnt into me, and we divorced...damn straight I have backup options. I have never cheated, and Yes I do love her. But life is life.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
#5299070 - 02/14/06 12:26 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think people here are just trying to keep you from being naive because they know that naive people get hurt more easily.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: DoctorJ]
#5299072 - 02/14/06 12:27 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
DoctorJ said: I think people here are just trying to keep you from being naive because they know that naive people get hurt more easily.
That sums it all up in one sentence.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
#5299082 - 02/14/06 12:30 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
stefan said: oh randal, this one's for you 
Ouch! Shit!
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: FungusMan]
#5299085 - 02/14/06 12:31 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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dude, I know there are probably guys that she likes, you can call them 'backups' if you want to, but that's not the reason for her to take this break. That's what I'm trying to tell you here, and if you read the thread you would know.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
#5299086 - 02/14/06 12:31 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Like you said give her space and fill that void with something better. New hobby... something she hasn't already pinned off as 'something he does'.
When a person figures out your routines you become boring. Always keep some type of mystery element to keep them interested. Whatever you do don't fill the space with shit you already do.
And whatever you decide to do... enjoy yourself. It's attractive to everyone, her and other chicks.
Good luck
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Cowgold]
#5299088 - 02/14/06 12:33 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Cowgold said: And whatever you decide to do... enjoy yourself. It's attractive to everyone, her and other chicks.
Good luck
I will, thanks
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
#5299944 - 02/14/06 04:37 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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girls are like monkeys, they dont leave one branch til they have another one to swing on
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: fresh313]
#5299954 - 02/14/06 04:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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believe it or not, some girls actually like being single at some point in their lives. that's a gross generalization, and comepletely unfounded.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: Liz]
#5299962 - 02/14/06 04:41 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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gotta get that spark flowing, suprise her with something. Like romanatic style.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: stefan]
#5300248 - 02/14/06 06:17 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Stefan, we're just looking out for ya brother. Of course we wish you all the best. If it's true and she just wants a little space for the time being, to get some things straightened out, then fuck yeah, give the space and time and you'll guys be stronger for it. But DON'T be surprised if what some of us have said turns out to be the case. We just want to make sure you have thought about all the options, but of course you already have right? 
Good luck, bud.
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Are you planning to still "hang out" with her as "friends"?
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RandalFlagg
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Ok, I may be wrong here. But, EVERY time I have seen a man or a woman give the "I need space" line to their significant other it meant that they:
1. Didn't like them anymore.
2. Had somebody new lined up.
Maybe I'm wrong. I hope for stefan's sake that I am.
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Re: my girlfriend wants a 'break' [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5300468 - 02/14/06 07:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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chicks move guy to guy i think she has a new man lined up...in almost every case i have seen its true.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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So the consensus is that she's got a new guy lined up. Bets anybody?? I kid, I kid.
And of course his response is going to be "well, you just don't know her on the level that I do." While true, she's still a woman and they are crazy. Grass is greener and whatnot.
Again though, Stefan, we wish you the best of luck. We'll be here when you need us.
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