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OfflineJon
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Suspect friends to be homosexuals
    #5283615 - 02/09/06 09:22 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

My friend is taking his sensitivity too far. Too far to the point I think he is homo. We were arguin before on the fact I didnt feel like knockin on the door of this dudes friends house who lived with his parents and had trees. I did that shit 2 days ago, wasnt bad at all, I was sincere so I didnt run into problems and got my MJ ok. Im askin this dude to do the same; and for the sake of being the bitch that he is refuses to do so implying I was the bitch for not wanting to do so. So I said fuck it, I didnt really mind staying sober for the night. He leaves saying "I dont think im going to hang out with you for a few days". I just started laughing as he left, but I realized how gay what he just said was. I mean do guys do that? No, they usually say "You suck" and just leave or atleast say "I dont think im going to hang out with you anymore" He pulls this ambiguous gay shit all the time with the way he doesnt like the fact I dont pick up the phone sometimes. This dude used to have a damn cute girl friend, after that was over, all this gay stuff started happenin. At the same time he tries his best 24/7 trying to exploit some fake ass masculine pride. He even has no comment when I ask about gay people hitting on him. I aint gonna hate him for this, but its beginning to effect the way I spend the day. These Co ed events never ever happen around these dudes. And this individual is not the only person that acts this way. I figured I was a sensitive guy up until all this weird sexual preference shit started comin up. Im not necessarily concerned, im just wondering if anyone can give any opinions for those who have experience in this sort of thing. It could always just be me feeling uncomfortable when my friends seem to get overly open or make unusually random feminine gestures.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Jon]
    #5283647 - 02/09/06 09:28 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

maybe it's cuase i'm not a guy but i don't really see how what he said was "feminine" or "gay"


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Aninator]
    #5283661 - 02/09/06 09:31 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I've had quite a few friends come out of the closet...and to be honest, it doesn't bother me in the least. My opinion of them never changes. All I can say is, if you want to keep your friendship with him, don't make a big deal out of it.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: MatthewJW]
    #5283688 - 02/09/06 09:37 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

to me it does sound quite homosexual, ive never heard of a straight guy saying that but who knows maybe he was really mad


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Jon]
    #5283699 - 02/09/06 09:40 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

wait


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: DeathCompany]
    #5283712 - 02/09/06 09:43 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

My friend just acts like he has everyday needs rather than surviving with watever he has around him, he also exploits this really disturbing frailty he supposedly has regarding people and his feelings although he doesnt really look out for other peoples feelings. Complains way too much and bitches out of situations such as the one mentioned. Hes either just immature or phenominally replaced his testosterone with estrogen.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: goobler]
    #5283723 - 02/09/06 09:45 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

" I figured I was a sensitive guy up until all this weird sexual preference shit started comin up"

what sexual preference stuff are you talking about? sounds like he might just be a pussy, not a fag. i would be a little more worried if he said 'im not going to leave you for a couple of days'. rather then im not going to chill with you for a couple days

sounds to me like your the one who needs to be concerned with his sexuality if this kind of stuff worries you...


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Jon]
    #5283732 - 02/09/06 09:48 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Sounds insecure.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: TheHateCamel]
    #5283751 - 02/09/06 09:54 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

yea, nothing about your description makes him sound gay to me. and as far as i'm concerned there's very little of what someone SAYS that makes them gay. ALL GAY MEANS IS THAT YOU LIKE MEMBERS OF THE SAME SEX. i know straight men that are 10 times more of a pussy than ANY of my gay friends are.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Aninator]
    #5283774 - 02/09/06 10:01 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Does his possible homosexuality awaken some deeply repressed feelings in yourself or something? Who cares man. Either way he's still the same person.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: DocPsilocybin]
    #5283802 - 02/09/06 10:08 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

This guy brings up a good point. ^^


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Jon]
    #5283949 - 02/09/06 10:42 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

Sounds to me like you're a homo trying to judge the accuracy of your gaydar.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: TheDude]
    #5283979 - 02/09/06 10:48 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

That joke sent my gaydar flashing.


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: TheHateCamel]
    #5284009 - 02/09/06 10:56 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

:borfase: :acslater:


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: TheDude]
    #5284210 - 02/09/06 11:49 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

damnit AC


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Aninator]
    #5284229 - 02/09/06 11:58 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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AniNator said:
maybe it's cuase i'm not a guy but i don't really see how what he said was "feminine" or "gay"




yea, the comment doesnt sound gay to me either. although thats something kinda fucked up to say to a friend...

although, you mentioned gay body language or gay body gestures or what ever. maybe hes just a pussy (he sounds like a pussy who cant handle being the small guy, so he tries to find and isolate the negatives of bigger guys). maybe hes having problems since he broke up with that hot chick (thats when it started right). mayeb you should gently talk to him about it. some people are born gay. some turn gay (or maybe not completely gay, but bisexual) due to traumatic events in their life. if anything, many gay guys arent completely against the manly macho image, they dont act it, but they enjoy watching it (its like a turn on). and yes i know quite a few gay people.... mainly though this girl i know who knows the whole fuckin gay and lesbian community here. and one guy i met at school.

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AniNator said:
ALL GAY MEANS IS THAT YOU LIKE MEMBERS OF THE SAME SEX. i know straight men that are 10 times more of a pussy than ANY of my gay friends are.




the first part is true, but people are influenced by cultures or societies or groups or whatever of what they are interested in or are part of. so he sees these gays who go against the macho image and hes duplicating it (although he might not be gay, just using it to reinforce himself so he doesnt feel inferior to macho guys).

the second part she said sounds like bull.... all the gays i know are pussies (accept for one who is bisexual and was turned bisexual).


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: eligal]
    #5284238 - 02/09/06 11:59 PM (17 years, 11 months ago)

ps: i really mean way to find out if hes gay or not is to bereally nice to him, and slowly come on to him, flirt with him. if he likes it and responds, hes gay.

but thats a horrible way to find out..... and if you do that to him then only if youre not going to be his friend anymore (cause friends dont expose eachother like that). if hes your friend, then talk about it gently and respect him, dont be an ass


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: Jon]
    #5284273 - 02/10/06 12:16 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

I had a friend who came out of the closet when I was in High School.  It really wasn't a big deal for me. :shrug:


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: eligal] * 1
    #5284301 - 02/10/06 12:33 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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eligal said:
ps: i really mean way to find out if hes gay or not is to bereally nice to him, and slowly come on to him, flirt with him. if he likes it and responds, hes gay.





im sorry dude but that is the worst fucking idea ive ever heard.  start rubbing his balls and if he likes it hes gay :thumbdown:


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Re: Suspect friends to be homosexuals [Re: CubensisCutter]
    #5284309 - 02/10/06 12:36 AM (17 years, 11 months ago)

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cause your gay and it would humiliate you?


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