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mycogirl
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How open are you?
#5275567 - 02/07/06 10:17 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I am a very closed person. I don't tell anyone that I work with my rec. drug interests. I tell very few people that are in my classes. I tell even fewer people about my relationships or gender preference status. Sometimes I want to tell people I think might be down, but I don't want any of my professors to know. These will be the people helping me get into grad school and such. I guess I just wonder how many people have had good/bad experiences with this. Also if you all tell people your preferences and habits.
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Re: How open are you? [Re: mycogirl]
#5275581 - 02/07/06 10:21 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I generally am very closed about my feelings. I don't know why. Ever since I rolled a few weeks ago I really have opened up. I am not saying go and do MDMA but there is hope you just need to find the way.
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Aninator
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Re: How open are you? [Re: mycogirl]
#5275595 - 02/07/06 10:26 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I find that i tend to be too open. I don't know when to shut up and what i should keep secret and to myself... only becuase i don't really have a problem with telling people stuff about myself.
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mediman0078
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Re: How open are you? [Re: Aninator]
#5275648 - 02/07/06 10:46 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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IMO, loose lips sink ships.... i try to be friendly, but I sure don't talk about drugs unless the person I'm talking to is obviously already stoned... even then I try to not incriminate myself. I have the same problem, I have to look good for grad school and can't risk being blackballed for rec. drugs...
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onetime
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I dont think that i feal any emotion other than "pissed" sometimes maby love. I think that if its sexual preferance that your talking about then that shit should be alright with any one. I mean I seen those fuck nuts saying "fags go to hell" or what ever today at those iraq war guy that died funneral. That shit is stupid. Gays and lezbieans should have equal rights as any of the other stupid poeple who still belive in love. But if thats not what your talking about and its just drugs. well drugs should be legal too. I mean america would have been found way later if it wasnt for uk drug dealers looking for asian poppies. Drugs founded america and should be legal it is part of history.
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Silversoul
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Re: How open are you? [Re: mycogirl]
#5275706 - 02/07/06 11:02 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm a typical cancer -- very closed off and defensive to most people, but very open to those I'm closest to.
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KristiMidocean
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I agree with you.
I never say that I do drugs to people I hang with so that if it came down to it I could deny deny deny.But Almost everyone that knows me know I "party" they just would never be able to prove it
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PDU
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everyone that has ever encountered knows i like psychedelics and am very experienced. I have a rep as experienced, and insane. -- now that im 20 im somewhat running away from it, but ive got it marked in my arm in ink.. im undecided on my stance on ((openness)).
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onetime
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Re: How open are you? [Re: PDU]
#5276157 - 02/08/06 02:03 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think that drugs made me who I am. I would be some totaly differant if it wasnt for the use drugs. Probly some uptight investment banker or something high strung like that. I don't think that it is more shamefull to deny a drug than it is to be open out it. Not too open but never to the point where the people that you shared your life with didn't know.
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40oz


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Re: How open are you? [Re: onetime]
#5276165 - 02/08/06 02:20 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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" loose lips sink ships "
werd.
i tell my boss everything. hes like my dad. drugs, parties, bitchs n all.
one thing i keep tight lipped about is the females im seein. i dont tell ANYONE who im seein or what im doin with'm. its better that way. no drama. more females. yeah im a fuckin slut.
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RESTLESS
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Re: How open are you? [Re: 40oz]
#5276169 - 02/08/06 02:25 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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hah hah
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sui
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Re: How open are you? [Re: RESTLESS]
#5276170 - 02/08/06 02:27 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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im very open with it, i have very solid beliefs about drg use.
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Konnrade
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Re: How open are you? [Re: mycogirl]
#5276214 - 02/08/06 03:12 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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On the internet I am very open. Sometimes annoyingly so.
But in person I am very much NOT open. It makes it very hard too find hookups because I look like a clean-cut, straightedge person. If I were to walk up to a dealer looking for something, he'd think I was a cop.
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eris
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Re: How open are you? [Re: Konnrade]
#5276218 - 02/08/06 03:18 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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That is a lot like how I am. There is probably only like one or two people that I really feel comfortable talking to face to face, but over the internet it is much more comfortable feeling.
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mycogirl
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Quote:
mediman0078 said: IMO, loose lips sink ships.... i try to be friendly, but I sure don't talk about drugs unless the person I'm talking to is obviously already stoned... even then I try to not incriminate myself. I have the same problem, I have to look good for grad school and can't risk being blackballed for rec. drugs...
That is a huge part of it for me as well. If I want good recomendations for these things, I think it's best to not ask, and not tell. (as far as the drugs go)
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40oz


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Re: How open are you? [Re: eris]
#5276224 - 02/08/06 03:22 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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i dont like talking to 'love interests' over the phone or the internet, id rather hang in person.
chatting online is really monotonous when you cant really see past the black txt.
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Konnrade
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Re: How open are you? [Re: Konnrade]
#5276233 - 02/08/06 03:27 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I just want to add an anecdote.
I once thought I had secured a source for enough LSD to sell some to people I knew would want to have some (big drought in my area, still is). I approached someone I knew was into psychedellics and was talking to him about it, and his friend (whom I had known since middle school) responded in a way similiar to "whoa there jesus boy, you're selling fucking acid?!"
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40oz


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Re: How open are you? [Re: Konnrade]
#5276236 - 02/08/06 03:30 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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i think its hilarious how you & most of everyone here think its a big deal.
i can get just about anything like it aint no thing...lol
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Lakefingers

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Re: How open are you? [Re: mycogirl]
#5276256 - 02/08/06 03:49 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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By hiding it you make it a secret -- you make it deviant behavior. I don't suggets telling anyone, but if it comes up, non-chalance should be maintained. Secrets are a sign of weakness and are followed by vicious retaliation.
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40oz


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Quote:
Lakefingers said: By hiding it you make it a secret -- you make it deviant behavior. I don't suggets telling anyone, but if it comes up, non-chalance should be maintained. Secrets are a sign of weakness and are followed by vicious retaliation.
just cuz you keep your business, your business, doesnt mean its a bad thing.
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