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Florida?
#5143800 - 01/05/06 04:19 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have the oppurtunity to move to Florida from North Carolina...My girl is moving down there and I really don't know if I should go. I am only 18 but will be staying with her and her parents. This is a really hard decision for me to leave everything.
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In(di)go
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if you do choose to go down there, make sure that you are going for yourself and not for your girl...
if the reason to go is her, then you are making a bad mistake because you are placing your happiness in her hands... but if you think that it is something that YOU want and that will enrich your life, then i would say go for it... experience = k3y
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Le_Canard
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Just watch out for those Florida summers. The heat can be a bitch!
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eligal
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florida + motorcycle = beauty
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Noetical
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North Carolina is beautiful, don't leave
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VoidOfsPg
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Re: Florida? [Re: Noetical]
#5143854 - 01/05/06 04:38 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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What part of Florida?
Make sure that you're not going to break up with her 2 months after you pack up and move down here.
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Anonymous
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This is a really big and hard decision for me..It will be Orlando..Or really close to it. Her parents got a job making 5000$ a week between the two of them. Or maybe it's 2500 a week. I'm not sure. I live near Charlotte, NC now..I mean..I'm sure Florida is nice. But i've been here all my life. I can even look for Shrooms there in the wild. But I have so much freedom where i'm at now. I won't be able to grow in their house or anything. They have more raves and such...But I had my life figured out. Now I don't know what to do.
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Re: Florida? [Re: eligal]
#5143880 - 01/05/06 04:51 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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eligal said: florida + motorcycle = beauty
florida + motorcycle = straight boring roads = no twistie roads
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eligal
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Quote:
mindcandy said:
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eligal said: florida + motorcycle = beauty
florida + motorcycle = straight boring roads = no twistie roads
hmm. i havent taken that into account... although, the scenery, the view, the beach, the forests, i think it would be beautiful
i havent been to florida since i was a kid though
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Anonymous
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Re: Florida? [Re: eligal]
#5143905 - 01/05/06 05:02 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well then.
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eligal
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Civic said: This is a really big and hard decision for me..It will be Orlando..Or really close to it. Her parents got a job making 5000$ a week between the two of them. Or maybe it's 2500 a week. I'm not sure. I live near Charlotte, NC now..I mean..I'm sure Florida is nice. But i've been here all my life. I can even look for Shrooms there in the wild. But I have so much freedom where i'm at now. I won't be able to grow in their house or anything. They have more raves and such...But I had my life figured out. Now I don't know what to do.
and to this: nobody here on the boards, or anyone else, can tell you whats going to happen if you move to florida. and as someone asked, are you going there only for the girl?? 18 is young, real young, and to be moving to a place you feel uncomfortable with and throw away all your future plans seems abit hasty and very risky. but then again, thats love. sometimes life is about taking chances. if you go to florida, you could probably be taking one of the biggest chances in your life.
my opinion being, chances help us grow. we live and learn, and if we never stray from our path, we will miss alot of what this world has to offer. take a chance to travel to new places and gain new experiences. if all goes wrong, you could go back to carolina, hard though it would be, and struggle till youre back on your feet. (and remember! youre never too old for community college , or university )
btw, question, what will you be doing in florida if you go? school? work? and what where your plans for carolina? and mainly, how much do you like this girl?
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That's only a days drive (long-ass one maybe). Whenever I drove up to the smokies I tried to get thru Charlotte before rush-hour so I remember the scenery. There's a lot of difference and if you don't like Orlando you can always shoot right back to Charlotte. So you might want to keep your bridges open in case you want to return.
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Re: Florida? [Re: Booby]
#5143983 - 01/05/06 05:17 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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I love this girl. I guess it wouldn't be 100% just for her. I need something new. But it is hard to leave everyone. I was going to go to community college for 2 years in computer science (Programming) and then transfer to a 2 year college.) But I had a great job lined up and everything. I don't know what to do. I think I am going to trip tonight and see what I decide.
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VoidOfsPg
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I wouldn't move that far away for a female unless I knew we were going to get married...soon.
I'd suggest opening Notepad and listing both the pros and cons of each side. Sometimes that helps me decide. Maybe you should ask your girlfriend's parents as well?
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zSDMF
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if i had the chance to up and leave to somewhere say, washington i would do it before i could think no. even if i left the broad in a month, i'd be in a new place. and i mean, shit, you're 18. you still stay with your folks, right? you know if shit don't go rosy down here they'd take you back in their house till you can get situated in a heart beat
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Aninator
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I gotta go with Eligal on this one. I mean i'm 19 and i couldn't concieve of making a move like that for someone (especially when you have an awesome job lined up) you're 18 the decisions you should be making should be for you and for the now.
This could be like a big misconception on my part but i feel like making your life all about your significant other, espeically at this age, really deters you from growing and expanding yourself. It's a tender time. You want to experience things but you don't want to also narrow your spectrum you know? and sure this might be an experience but it's also a life change for someone. the probablity of that someone being part of your life in a couple of years is not so high.
I always hear my brother in law in the back of my head who always talks about how when he was my age he was dating this girl for a while like a couple of years. he loved her and stuff but looking back on it he always wishes that he had that time for himself and not for someone else.
I dunno how much any of this is going to pertain to you, but that's my take on it.
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Anonymous
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Re: Florida? [Re: Aninator]
#5144430 - 01/05/06 07:27 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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Okay people. My girl read this and doesn't agree with shrooms. Will someone please explain to her that
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I think I am going to trip tonight and see what I decide.
I don't mean i'm going to be literally tripping on shrooms. People refer to to it as thinking. I should have clarified this in my earlier post.
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Myc0Maniac
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yeah man...she needs to chill out. shes putting you through a hard decision. you need to think. mushrooms wouldnt help you with this. just tell her to chill
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Anonymous
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I guess we can forget about this whole topic. I won't be going to Florida. She just broke up with me. Guess it's a good thing I didn't already get there. I would have found out she didn't care about me later, and I would have been screwed..
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VoidOfsPg
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Damn man sorry to hear that.
Well...good thign it happened now before you made the move and changed your life for her.
Good luck w/everything!
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MAIA
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Re: Florida? [Re: In(di)go]
#5144808 - 01/05/06 09:01 PM (18 years, 2 months ago) |
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Zee gerrman knows about women ....
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eligal
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Civic said: I guess we can forget about this whole topic. I won't be going to Florida. She just broke up with me. Guess it's a good thing I didn't already get there. I would have found out she didn't care about me later, and I would have been screwed..
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she broke up with you?! lol... wow...
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